Re-Parenting - Part 13 - Inner Child - Part 2

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Practical tools for connecting with one's inner child.

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[aro]

These lectures have been an eye-opener. They explain so much about my childhood, family and our relationship. Now I get to understand so much about my thoughts and behaviour. Thank you Fletcher for sharing.

[awakenedreflections]

omg so many tears, so thankful for this series

[PassionateFlower]

Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder are normal chronic reactions to complex trauma and early family life betrayal. You are normal for feeling dysregulated because you grew up in an environment that was hostile and unpredictable.

[lamyaamer]

Thank you Tim, this is more than helpful, please keep doing more videos !

[kariannelalli]

I've been suffering for so may years with addiction then thru recovery.. here in ny I can't find anyone to listen to me. The doctors just say I'm bi polar and prescribe tons of meds. Meanwhile I've been trying to do this work. Its so hard here to get help. I cannot find a trauma informed therapist that takes my insurance. These talks are all I have. I've been at the end of my rope for a while now. All I want is to get better and I'm not finding the help I need.

[cindyloukingdom]

Your videos have helped me alot. Thank you.

[doriannemosich]

love the most, love fiercely because all this ends. Stay blessed.

[truthable]

I am so glad I ran across you Tim Fletcher. You validate my inner knowing which, has many times and for lengths of time been stuffed down... ❤

[cherylharms]

This helped me gain perspective. I know that I am a very literal minded person. Perhaps others with similar childhoods are also.

[JuliaShalomJordan]

This series has been so, so insightful and life changing. Thank you.🤍

[menotyou]

Thank you from me & me as my inner child recently I let her down I’m now inviting a new resilient & compassionate relationship. Mahalo

[djlykaen]

For those that don't get it, check out The Kid (bruce willis movie) really gave an image of what the relationship with the inner child could be

[Enlight-the-burbs]

Your work is just amazing and freeing ..

[nadync]

I was pouring just listening to this. Thank you, I will do the work :)

[bevsofroniuk]

I am looking forward to doing some of the suggested 'journaling/connecting with mini me'... and a tad nervous...

[jaimiejin]

I am 26 and I keep getting told by everyone that I look 20. Part of it is because I am Asian, I look younger. Also, I know it's because I didn't have wholesome teen years, so I am still stuck in that stage. I mean, overall, it's getting better. Just a couple of years ago, I would see teenagers having fun in the street and I would start crying. I don't do that anymore. I know I can not step into a parental role, because I haven't grown up. Now that I start dating someone normal and healthy, it becomes more and more obvious how big my baggage is. Over time, I can't hide it. Over time, the broken and damaged me shows in our relationship. I do feel the only way is to parent my inner child again, by myself, with the help of good people around me. And I am grateful that my boyfriend is dealing with it in a gentle and loving way.

[cindyloukingdom]

Your videos have helped me a lot. Thank you.

[monacaensam]

This is impossibly hard when showing Any weakness was punished, parents were not emotionally available at all.. even using please/thank you was later punished. Having ANY way for someone else to have any claim on me is a serious threat. Asking for help is near impossible- as it is shows weakness. I have epic trust issues, my internal dialogue is constant and brutal. I will never be good enough, everything is my fault, and no one actually loves me- they just want something from me or want to hurt me for fun.
Now- try going to therapy…. Lololol

[dianaayala]

Thanks for your work. Very valuable for me ❤.

[Jay-ozsq]

Thank you for putting out all this useful information.
Could you please point in the direction where I can find more info on those 12 unmet needs?
I'm 68 and my inner child is still hurting...