Re-Parenting - Part 67 - Grief - Part 1

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Parenting involves giving a child tools to deal with loss. Sadly, in Complex Trauma, most children do not receive healthy tools to deal with loss. Tim begins this series by helping us understand the many losses that people have to deal with in their lives.

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[margaretlovecchio]

So grateful to have found Tim Fletcher & all his series, regular church just doesn’t appeal to me because it doesn’t address how we do the work to heal the trauma we carry due to abuse, neglect, a narcissistic parent etc., very grateful for these teachings 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️

[kirsikka]

This went right to my soul. I am on a path trying to connect emotionally with my losses in order to finally grief. All my life I have just put all that aside, there was no place nor time to my needs. Now I have time and empty space in my life, but I'm not sure if I have enough safety. It is not that easy to get the emotions to come and then trying to learn to handle and cope with them.

These lectures are gold. ❤

[lanishortsunshine]

So exact..and im so greatful for this tim f. And team....

[beesilva]

Thank so much Mr. Fletcher. Grief is one of the main reason for my anxiety. Your videos have really validated my feelings and brought a new perspective to my mental health.

[Thatsbannanas-dc]

Grief, honor it, feel it, heal it.
Grief is in the air. Lot of loss, lots.
Thank you for helping me measure the loss’s.

[danawillard]

I'm so glad I found these videos they're helping I've had a lot of losses

[lynnev]

I agree with everything Tim said...I cry so much...it's so painful, so many losses

[zalerayne]

You have helped me to feel understood more than you will ever know. Bless your Heart, Tim!

[manuelag]

Painful process, whatsoever, very rewarding❤.
Thank you For the Videos.
PRAISE GOD 🙌🏻✝️✨💃🕊️🕯️🙏🏻👑🎶🕎

[suzijorgensen]

I went through all this crap....and I let my self loathing lead me into a marriage that went from, "ehhh", to why does this man behave like this?...
I DID lose myself and my kids have walked a difficult road....I have SOOO MUCH Guilt!

[davidnorman]

shutting down and hiding meant survival

[lillyrose]

I felt no grieve when my grandmother died, but I loved her dearly. Something must be wrong with me. It just hit me like a brickstone, but onky six months later.

[evolutiondez.]

I started getting spanked by my father at 3-4. He abused me until I was 23. In all ways. I had children and from 23-30 he still had a mental hold on me until he died of a drug overdose. Bad relationships to follow. Just divorced my narcissist abusive minister husband 😢lied, cheated abused me real bad last 5 years. He says take me back I was just dealing with things within myself?? So I got the punishment for his transgressions. My dad all over again. He calls 40-50 x in a hour. He supposedl to pay spousal support and insurance. I really need to go no contact completely. He's still abusing me outside the home. Manipulates me he can't afford the bills without my income. I'm medically retired cancer survivor heart attack survivor because of the stress. I'm struggling financially and need the support but it's almost not worth it 😪 what I have to go through to get it. He doesn't know where I live or he'd be banging on my door. I have a protection order I'm trying to keep it peaceful but he's stealing my peace. I'm at a loss. I have CPTSD he plays on that. Any advice?

[ambern.]

What types of therapy do you recommend. I'm good at seeing a lot of this on my own cause and effect. But no one's shown me or worked with me towards fixing it. Just acknowledging things only goes so far .

[jeankipper]

Have you addressed this question? Can you provide a link? If not, could you please do so?