Depressed, OVER 30 Single And No Kids? Here's How To Cope

Are You Over 30, Unmarried, Childless? Wondering Has God Forgotten About Me? Here's The Answer

When you're over 30 it is easy to get into the mindset of I'll never have kids or get married and you may start to get into the feeling too old to get married or have a baby. That may be what the world or other men may tell you. But that is just a mindset. I hope the answers in this video will clear everything up or you.

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[blessednhm]

Thank you so much for talking about this. I'm 34 and single with no kids. I suppressed my dreams when I was young because I fell for the myth that a woman who is too successful will end up alone. After getting my BA at 23 I decided not to pursue Med-school or a Masters because I wanted to avoid coming off as an ambitious, strong black woman. I've always wanted to marry and have children so I settled for a basic corporate job in Healthcare. I wanted to focused on my "Feminity" and becoming "wife" material. 11 years later I'm still not married. I realized I focused so much on becoming a wife before 30 that I let so many opportunities pass me by. I was so afraid of being alone that my vision became tunneled and set on one thing. To my younger sisters out there, it is God who blesses you with your hearts desires. Do not limit yourself or try to force yourself into some box that society has created. The Proverbs 31 woman was a productive and proactive woman. She took advantage of every opportunity to improve her community and support her family. Focus on mastering the fruits of the Spirit and take advantage of every opportunity God affords you. Do not run away from your purpose in fear that no man will want you. Who says you can't be both virtuous and hardworking? Do not let your desire for a husband become an idol. When you put God first he will fulfill your hearts desire. We just have to walk in faith, trusting in God. It is God who join man and woman together so the desire for marriage is the will of the Most High. Just as he did for Elizabeth we must have faith in the power His holy spirit.

[kaylahood]

I’m 32 never been married I don’t have any kids and yes I feel like God has forgotten about me. I feel like life really passed me by quick. I feel like nobody wants me. I’m really hurt by my ex boyfriend still. And I’m doing the best I can to move on. I don’t know how to get a man to be committed to me and also not do the bare minimum. Most of the time I think it’s me Or the man. I’m thinking about closing myself off from love. I haven’t been with someone who is willing to pursue me. It has really mess with my confidence and self-esteem. My ex was inconsistent with me. I couldn’t take it anymore.

[TheBubblyBartender]

God has not forgotten about you. He will give you what you are meant to have. Keep on trucking and keep on speaking life into people.

[jfoxbeauty]

I'm 30, getting a divorce, no children. My husband was abusive, and I left. Thank you so much for posting this video. It helped me a lot. I kept thinking I was old and unwanted. You're right though, I'm not unwanted. There's nothing wrong with me. I'll be okay.

[stayundergodlsm]

Girl I'm 35 no kids single it's a struggle you feel like life is slowly passing you a fare of missing out even tho fare is not of God ive become okay with just trusting God trying not to obsess over my womb because statistically they say the older u get ya know but God has the final say so

[monetenglish]

I have a daughter but I never married. I gave the ring back. I'm 45 single mom. I did some evaluation and it realized I tend to attract the same men. So I let my recent friend go after not getting my phone calls returned. He and I are not on the same page anymore. He is divorced I known him since I was 18 but I was too young and his aunt told me to leave him alone.But to make a long story short I left him alone because one minute he wanted a relationship then he said he didn't. He is three years older than me. But I decided to just take your advice to back to school and get my own school. And if God wants me to be married it will happen on his time. If not I will be fine. Its a whole world I wanna see with my daughter and I'm not ready to give up my independence just yer😁

[brittanywestmoreland]

Thank you Jesus. I needed to hear this video. God bless you!

[to-ubrf]

Thank you for doing this video. It is truly uplifting!

[Dr.SophiaReed]

I know this can be a sensitive topic for so many women. Is this something that you struggle with? Do you feel like God has forgotten about you? Do you have faith that you will ever have kids or get married?

[donsummers]

Great advice, girls don't settle for less that what you deserve 🙏

[shundrickastudstill]

God is some bull shit he has robbed me of all 3 of my children and I’m 35 still not with child! I did believe in him but this keep letting me down is taking a huge toll over my life at the point is why am I still here at this point

[MW-qvox]

This is the reason you shouldn't focus on career as a young woman. It's more important to find a man in your 20's and find your career after children.

[oscarlubilanji]

Are you still single, Please? am 41 and single too

[ghostghost]

God has forgotten you sister! He blesses the just and unjust alike. Go ahead with egg freezing or adoption or whatever, live your life. I was really Christian for many years, am now in my 30s and regret wasting my life instead of having fun .