WHY NO CONTACT WORKS

Why no contact works. No contact allows you to recharge yourself and allows your energy to return. It allows your clarity to return. No contact sends a message to a person that you want nothing to do with them. This is part of the healing path. No contact will help you to move forward. Watch the compete video for reasons why going no contact works.

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[wiked]

Best channel obout narcissistic abuse! ❤

[pamlangley]

2 1/2 years no contact; life is now peaceful and beautiful.

[ERnarcfree]

The narcissist is the worst drug we became addicted to. When you go no contact you have withdrawals at the outset but eventually you feel great !!!

[clarencehoover]

No contact is the way.
Anything else feeds them by vampiring your energy and disturbing your peace.
Love to all those recovering. 💜

[awakenedjaki]

When you finally find the strength to go no contact on these jokers, it's such a liberating and empowering feeling to take back control of your own most importantly, never let them back in!

[u.s.]

My abuser went to jail with court ordered no-contact. No-contact is amazing. No-contact forever.

[i.l.]

The way you describe being in the narcissists fog is so spot on. To be used for all their crap, taking the burden of life for them ... and getting nothing but a feeling of being not good enough is so exhausting. No contact is the way to peace and freedom.

[gab]

Bottom line, you Do not have to hear their voice and never have to see their evil eyes. Dot, period, end of story.

[sanjmalik]

Yes no contact works. Its only language the narc understands.

[ERnarcfree]

I spent 25 years trying to explain to him how his actions were hurting me. But one day I discovered Andrew’s channel and now there is not One word I will waste on him.

[ginnyoshea]

A total state of confusion no matter how level headed you normally were. It takes you totally by surprise and makes you forget who you were.

[ifoundthecodex]

Don't forget, narcissists can see the LIGHT in chosen ones. Moving can eliminate one narcissist, but more are around.

[pavanatanaya]

I do not miss the inability to say NO
I do not miss the inability to finish a sentence
I do not mis the inability to have a preference

[louiseedwards]

He can’t have his power over me anymore. The peace is lovely 😊

[teresafraser]

I am a true testament that NO CONTACT is the answer in completely dissolving these toxic relationships.
I walked out in 1988 from a 13 year marriage and never looked back. I then walked away from my siblings whom also were Narcs and never looked back which essentially I set myself FREE to be me that lead me back to my authentic self. I created a magical existence since then. I met my beautiful husband and have two beautiful children with. Until this day i am deeply grateful that I found the strength and self respect to leave along with maintaining NO CONTACT

I’ve been no contact for 1 year and 4 months!!💪🏾💪🏾

[blmnbshbvr]

"...be the Generational Narc Abuse breaker" perfect!

[rebeccalucas]

Mine bluntly said to me out of the blue while he took me on vacation to meet his parents and family he said "I'm wondering WHEN you're going to leave"
It was just the 2 of us in the car, and according to him, his ex-wife left him for someone else, so I took it as his cry for reassurance that I'm not leaving.
I responded with "I'm here as long as you want me here, unless you are physically abusive to me, I'll never leave you"
Little did I realize that is exactly when the devaluation started, while on vacation!
I wasn't allowed to open my own door, suddenly, he would walk to his side, get in, and leave me standing there. No longer holding my hand, and at his parent's house if I sat beside him, he would suddenly get up and move away totally ignoring me!
His excuse was "I'm not being all lovey dovey in front of my family (parents, daughters, brother, grandkids, ect) out of respect for them.
He made me feel like I was just a tag along he brought with him. Not even walking with me, he sped up walking so fast I couldn't keep up to make us look like strangers!
Whereas we would normally walk arm in arm.
He even got short, and cursed at me when his dogs ran out the door! His daughters laughed when he cursed at me. I'm now realizing that was how he typically treats women after the love bomb.
Only 3 weeks after the vacation, he left for the night "going to one of his daughter's to spend the night and visit"
I questioned why because it's a 5 hr drive, and he just saw her 3 weeks earlier. He refused to give me a reason why. He came back the next day 3 hrs earlier than expected, was even colder and distant, stared at the TV, and just said to me "we need to talk, I need my space" he never gave a reason, just repeating I need my space.
I packed up and moved out.
Before the vacation, he wanted me to look at houses for us, and get one with a 2 car garage so I would have to leave my car outside.
He gave the impression he was going to propose asking about my ring size, favorite jewelry, have I ever been on a cruise, ect to suddenly devalue and discard 3 weeks later 🥺🥺.
No emotions, no hug, no I'm sorry while I packed up just sat watched football and drank burbon.
He can become a raging alcoholic (he probably is because his drinking ramped up right before the discard)
I wanted the earth to open up and swallow me when this first happened back in August, I haven't text him in weeks (he would only respond with a thumbs up, sometimes just ignoring me altogether)
I now realize it's nothing I've done, nor anything I could have done to prevent it.
My confidence is improving, and I'm healing since no contact. I'm glad I didn't put my house on the market, I would have been homeless after his discard. No matter how kind and generous a person is, always know there is a hidden motive that lies beneath their loving but temporary demeanor.

[The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

Almost 8 months no contact, stronger every day!! 💪

[dennishaas]

I went radio silent when my narc ex dumped me for a coworker. I have been radio silent for 18 months and I haven't been tempted to contact her. Being alone doesn't bother me one bit, I can do what I want, when I want !