How to Help an Angry Person | What To Say to Someone Who is Upset

How to Help an Angry Person:
Asking someone who is visibly upset whether or not they are "ok" is not a great way to help someone. Instead, learn what to say so that you can be a considerate and kind communicator. Your friends will thank you for being so thoughtful.

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[TitaniumTronic]

Bruh, I came here cause my mom seems to be taking out all her anger out on me, I don't know what happened or why she is so stressed and I just don't know what to do anymore

[ivomaltine]

thank you very much for this simple tip, I currently have a very close friend that is going through a tough time because of her job. I saddly did the mistake to ask her the basic questions you mentioned, but I hope I can still offer her my help without irritating her even more.

[mitchscroggins]

If they're mentally disturbed none of these tactics work. I deal with a mentally disturbed family member every day that has major anger issues, and the only thing that does work is trying to get away from them, either by leaving, or going into another room where you can lock yourself in and lock them out !

[creativecompanion]

When they do talk, a compassionate response is to listen quietly or use concise, reflective statements that validate their feelings and experiences. Or simply say thank you for sharing that with me. No advice or arguing. If they lash out at you, use de-escalating responses like - I can understand why you would feel that way, or agree and tell them they are right, thank you for pointing that out.

[angelinajennilia]

I watched this video today to see if I handled my friend's anger right. And mostly i did well🤩. I didn't even touch her, but was with her most of the time and listened to most of her problems and shared my view about it as I had faced something like it before too.

[queensinyourarea]

I just hug that person and let that person anger go oon and let them cry on my shoulder or in my hug 🙂

[ramireznico]

Good to know new techniques to avoid confrontation for bad behavior.

[kimberleebrooks-trakis]

The problem with this is, I might not have the time to talk when they are ready to talk. I ask when I have the time to earnestly listen. I am a psych nurse and often work in the childrens ward. Time is a hard thing to come by. Hard t\o be authentic if you are denying them the time when they are ready.

[drekaflugan]

my problem is my friend gets angry at something at least once a week (usually multiple times) and they expect me to get angry with them, when i couldn't care less about the thing they're angry at. they're entitled to their anger, and i'm entitled to my non-anger right? and then they guilt me and are annoyed at me for not having the reaction they wanted???

[Ranpo_Edogawa]

My friend get angry and upset really easily, and u want to learn how to hell her, thank you for this vid

[onealprice]

I’m here because I broke something and I want to get her In a happy mood💀😭

[abdelkrimsoualmia]

AWSOME ! Thank you that helps me A LOT ! A BIG THANK YOU

[brians]

Great but what to say if someone is angry and potentially violent. I work and take care of such people.
If yelling .. I just repeat the last thing they said. They usually calm down because of the affirmation they get.

[johnathanmartinez]

How can I help you? If not right now come and get me. 😊

[Nisa_amal]

This is very useful , Awsome . Thank You Buddy .... I am just beginner of studying psychology ....

[zackmorrison]

My friend likes to be angry and beats up some of my friends at school for talking to him.

[ZiggyLu-ogzp]

If I purposely want to piss off and frustrate the narcissist I’ll walk way and later come back and say: How are you doing today because I know you were having a rough day yesterday. Though they were being a total a-hole to me for no reason.

Are you doing better today? Yesterday was a rough day for you. 😅

[thanar]

Well my father didn't show up until now he is going to fight or we are in a big dangerous problem

[meile]

I came here because I made my cuzin mad😢

[jamesdickson]

I can be here for you if you'd like. I hope things get better for you. I hope you're day gets better. Do you want me yo join you, or would you like some space and tine to yourself. The kingdom of heaven has come near to you.