Acting Desperate After A Breakup?

Acting Desperate After A Breakup?

The overwhelming majority of people that I’ve coached are acting desperate after a breakup and constantly doing things that they shouldn’t do.

Most people know that they shouldn’t beg and plead, but it is quite common for individuals to be needy in subtle ways without even realizing it!

That’s why I wanted to do this video, to ensure that you are fully aware of the negative behavior that may be pushing your ex away during breakup recovery.

As always we invite you to share your thoughts and questions in the comment section below!

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[JesusWinzs]

Trust me don't look back, my ex told me she can only be friends and no more intimacy. You know what I did instead of begging and pleading, I walked away. God has big plans for all of you, she or he is your ex for a reason, it didn't work out. Don't give them the power, someone is out there who will love you more, and longer then they ever will.

[tactics-mnk]

A technique that helped me a lot is to give myself what I need from others. If I’m forgiveness, I forgive myself. If I crave acceptance, I try to accept myself. This way you become totally independent of others and is in my eyes one of the recipes for a confident, independent life.

[andreawisner]

Talking too much about your feelings, what you are doing to change, about your regrets, constantly apologizing and seeking forgiveness... instead, SHOW what you have done and how you have changed that is inspiring.

[Ssengel]

This channel and another one have helped me thru my breakup. Whenever I feel down or have a sudden urge of anxiety I implement ways to calm myself down. One of those is by watching these videos. Its been since last Nov since my breakup. Implementing no contact and well ive been stronger and gotten my life a sense of structure. Here is my advice, you were happy and awesome without this person and you will continue to do so even after they have had left. Prioritize yourself and you will be the better half! Let them do whatever, even if it is with someone else. You have a lot more power than you think!

[mitchelljones]

My girlfriend of 3 years left me for another person and started doing drugs everyday. I tried no contact and lasted 2 weeks. I reached out and they aren't together anymore but she said she's over me, not interested in me and we will never be together again. I became needy and started begging again which got me no where and made it worse. And now we are in no contact again. Just hurts. I really love this girl, I know all these drugs and sleeping around isn't her. I miss my best friend and all our constant laughs we would share... I feel fine during the day but when night time comes and I'm alone in bed it kills me and tears me apart inside. Hurts me knowing she's changed and probably high right now on something or sleeping with someone else like she has been. It's been about 3 months now being broken up. I'm starting to lose all hope...

[sarahs]

I can’t stop. I feel so disappointed our relationship failed. Even we have 2 kids and I still couldn’t make it work.

[aninditasinha]

Thanks for this video, perfect video for the day. I was feeling low and needy but now all positive and boost up. Thanks again for motivating

[REALITYQOUTE]

Sometimes you get sick and you feel you never gonna stand up again.but still you talk too and smile and patient.
What I'm trying to say is if u accept that if they don't need me?
I don't them too.
When they say I don't love you or I don't want to be with you it's clear that they are strangers now.
Treat them as you treat the strangers.my girlfriend broke up with me we were about marry after 1 month it was my first relationship it really hurt me.
after i did everything was possible to make it work but it didn't.
So...now i accept that it's ok
If it didn't work with one it will work with another.

[petrap.]

I was completely unaware I was being emotionally dependent before the break up (over the past year; we were together for 3), but I can see how I could have been interpreted that way (pretty much wanted to do everything with him). I didn't beg and plead after. I think I was pretty gracious in how I have been handling things (we work at the same place). Any way undo" the damage? Can I make him see me differently? I have no problem being independent, but I didn't realize what I was doing. :(

[pabloponce]

I have 2 year ldr with my ex we were planing meeting this year.. we brokeup because I feel she lost attraction towards me... I beg her twice and nothing work she said stay as friend later work things out but seems she’s moving on.. A week since we split I was thinking on moving on as well since we far can’t do anything about! So I prayed to god since we always use god in our relationship to keep strong.. I prayed to god if we belong together I want sign and he sent it to me he did... we do belong together I just don’t know what to do now ? If I just tell her like this I don’t want her think I’m been to needy and maybe lying about the sign I don’t know... any help ?

[stevieragoobar]

I have neglected my relationship and I I have begging and pleading for two months now since my breakup is my chances ruined with my loved one

[hassibalhassanrizveredoy]

What if I already begged and pleaded got angry, insulted her and acted needy and suicidala afterwards. This all happened in a week. Is it possible that my ex will come back? I am initiating no contact from two days. Please help me. I did grave mistakes I know but suggest me about what I should do, coach.

[lexy]

My ex husband is now living with me to help me with the kids because of health issues. Says he doesn't want a relationship and wants to have sex with other women. I asked him to leave because I can't handle him talking and seeing other women while I'm going through my health issues . He hasn't left and hasn't brought it up what should I do?

[ahmedharneker]

Thanks coach Adrian. Been a month listening to your videos and it is helping. I am doing the no contact now but we have a child and I did the mistake of telling her I missed her and wanted her back in the first week. So I have started no contact again and just talk with regards to our baby. She likes to rub her new relationship in my face. And I try not to let it get to me but it does when I am alone. Oh she had an affair with my friend and left our home as soon as the divorce went through about a month ago. I am fine through the day but late at night I try to meditate and read but can't get her or her new life out of my mind. We been together for 12 years and divorced for over a month now. How do I get her off my mind. I am doing everything you say. New hobbies. Focus on work. Socialising and all that. But it is when I need to rest and sleep that I get it all in my head

[alysehiltbrunner]

So... my question is how to redeem yourself? If you have been needy several times after no contact ?? Can you win them back after that? He says he loves me. That’s good right?

[pranjalrockzz]

i have doubt that my ex is now with her ex again .. n it makes me so weaker more desperate n then i break the no contact rule n text my ex. with some shitty reason n she again annoys with me ! what should i do?? plz help me ! make a video on if ur ex is with her ex again after a breakup??

[Alexevii]

To add to Polars question, what do you think the motives are if your ex watches your snapchat stories, but their friends also watch your social media too even after you have unfollowed (yet they still follow) is this info fed back to the ex?

[LexinoBambino]

My question is, say you hangout with your ex for a little bit, but shes dating someone else, and you don't want to say the wrong things, what should you say after the meet up, if you really want to be with them, if yall are on good terms still?

[PolarBear-mjwt]

Hi, any thoughts on this? What does it mean when your ex dumped u but still view every single of your snapchat stories? I understand for snapchat stories you have to click manually for the story to be able to view it. I’m currently on week 4 of no contact with him. We have been a long distance relationship over 9 months & had plans to meet within this year.HELP! I want him back for another try

[warlordtrall]

Hi Coachs I failed to be there for my ex when she reached out to me ( I did the exact opposite I pushed her away and cut off contact) and she hasn't spoken to me since I did try contact via one email and two separate texts but with no response I haven't tried again. I am writing her a letter as a last way of establishing contact when I send it it will be about a month and a half since she spoke to me am I doing the right thing? I have been working on myself in the time apart