Afraid to Get Back in the Dating Game? This is for YOU (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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“I’m too old…”

“I haven’t dated in 10 years…”

“I’m divorced and don’t know how to be single again…”

In my years of coaching I’ve heard all of these fears. And let’s not lie about it: they’re tough things to get over in your mind.

But it’s so important you break through these worries and get back in the game.

This week, I’m going to share an inspirational story that proves the truly attractive mindset that will make you magnetic again in dating.

If you’re stuck now, start here…

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[Romiraf]

When you said "in what area of your life did you stop dancing?" I got emotional. Dating IS hard but I have to keep dancing in life and enjoying myself because it starts with me. Thank you

[Aneszy]

Im 25 got baby and divorced .. Why am i saying this ? Because all these past 2 years ive been hiding the truth that i was divorced from ppl .. This is my first time saying it in public.. And im ready to move on now... Because of this video.. Thanks matt ..

[almostbroken]

I actually cried. Im in my 20's and feel like i lost part of my youth since becoming a single mother. Tomorrow i shall dance again. Love ya Matt!

[How.Dare.You.]

problem is men don't invite you on dates anymore. they effortlessly write a few lines on the app and then expect you to plan the whole meeting hoping you will sleep with them fairly soon.

[SuperPhoenix]

Maybe women wouldn't be so afraid to get back out there if men behaved better. It's hard to remain enthusiastic and optimistic when the dating scene has such an abundance of bratally cruel and insulting creeps to filter through in order to meet one guy who is slightly less disappointing. It would be great to meet a guy who is willing to at least put in a little effort. They seem to want perfection when they are far from it themselves.

[pennyqte]

I don't think I'm old I'm just tired or burning out

[geekista]

beautiful story 💖 Im 30 and im bitter. im just tired of not being good enough, everytime I tried, my self esteem got kicked. I wish I was like this woman, but im not. im protecting myself, maybe more than I should. if life were a movie, the man of my dreams would wait for me to open up and trust, sadly life is not that generous.

[annechristinerivera]

stopped dating but will never stop dancing

[RosemarySprings]

I've stopped dancing....and singing in the shower. Stopped dating too. I pray everyone whos stopped doing what ive done gets another chance to change and start doing those things again. I don't even care if i don't ever get that chance again. I rather someone else be happy and joyful than for me to even get the chance to sing off note in my shower ever again. You all have a bless and beautiful day or night. I love you all even if i don't even know any of you. 😊

[veldina]

I just woke up this morning and I see this it put a smile on my face and tears in my eyes ! When he said have you stopped dancing !!! Really strike me !!!
I just went through horrible break up !!
A man I known for 10 years ! We been friends for 7 dated long distance 3 and I left my entire life and moved across the country for him he was absolutely perfect and than something changed ... just after 4 months living together he comes home and tells me he loves me as a best friend ...
I am still broken hearted considering therapy ...
I moved to Miami and its helping so much positive energy ...people ....I am doing everything to keep busy and positive as much as I can but sometimes it truly hits me ... when all the anxiety pain anger all comes back to me and I become overwhelmed all over again ....

[ginettecarter]

I'm 52 and single again. I've used Matt's advice - watched his videos sometimes over and over and boy! do I dance now. Everybody I meet tells me I exude happiness. I am continuously told that I look younger than I am... strangers talk to me, I laugh daily and even my boss said I make her happy every time she sees me! I glow inside and out now and I have learned to love myself. I've been on a tough journey of depression, anxiety and medication but it's all behind me now. Keep on laughing, dancing and enjoying life. Rock on!Thank you Matthew x ps. This video made me cry.

[TheTalitaDione]

I'm 29 and I feel old for this now. I've given up on passion. I can say I'm not passionate about anything anymore due to frustration. I'm aware it's a defence mechanism (cause I've always been the one to inspire others), yet I have to keep reminding myself that it's ok to move on. You were the reminder of the day, Matt! Thank you! Beijos x

[josephhein]

As a man, this is still very inspirational. I have become exactly as you describe — overwhelmed with a loss of hope. I don't dance like I should. I've been told that I take life too seriously. Somewhere along the way, the struggles of life overpowered the joys. Thanks for this, Matt.

[christianc]

omg this is so sad all these comments of beautifull wimen.. girls please there are good guys out there alone who need a woman to take care of dont do that to your self dont quit dating just see out of the box and try to find that guy who will take care of you and treat you nice! take it from a man who was with bad relation for 4 years that was the best school class of my life!

[OfficialRotevatn]

Matthew, you are my man crush, no homo, tho! Can we marry?

[TizaDeVas]

Oh Matthew... I was maintaining a facade all up until you asked; " have you stopped dancing?" I just broke down. ... I'm barefoot in life right now. I need to do something, not sure what but something. Thank you!

[gracelewis]

This is Beautiful Matthew, thank you. Brought me to tears - what a wonderful woman! And what a wonderful man you are - it's so clear from the video that you were fully engaged with her and felt no shame about dancing with her - what a gift. I feel sad about writing that too - that I expect less of other people, especially men. Perhaps that's where I stopped dancing - trusting more, leaning into that. I can learn to dance again! Even if my muscles get sore from not using them for a while. I can do it again, it just takes practice. I LOVE this metaphor. Thank you again!

[aurientawl]

Thanks Matthew. This video was more than just "getting back in the dating game" for me. I've recently gotten out of a relationship, and all I want right now is to discover self love again. I've been eating really healthy, exercising, finding ways to cope with my anxiety, learning to live life to the fullest and being happy with myself. Somewhere along the line I was putting more effort into someone else than I put into myself, and this is me "dancing" again. Dancing with what made me who I am. Thank you.

[lizb]

Always been single and I'm 29. No one has ever shown interest. I've tried to "date" but men get turned off because I'm chronically sick. Ironically I have helped friends find their now husbands/wives, their soulmate, partner, love of their life etc. For some reason I guess I don't care about dating. People think I'm weird when they find this out about me. But to be honest it's my fault. And I'm not even picky. It's just me. I'm just meant to be alone. Without feeling lonely. Love makes me happy but it's oh so complicated. So those who find love..cherish it, enjoy it.

[MrSamisos]

As a man i have been subscribed to Matthews Channel for a long time. I love to learn a lot about his loving, respectful yet honest and direct way he communicates with Women. What a classy and enriching Man!