3 Red Flags to Look For When You First Meet a Guy

Watch out for these 3 red flags...

Warning... Warning!

Does your internal warning system ever go off when you first meet a guy?

Sometimes it’s easy to pick up on the red flags... but other times it can be a bit tricky.

In today’s video I’m going to talk about 3 of these red flags that you absolutely MUST look out for when you first meet a guy.

Don’t let any more creepers, d-bags or flat-out weirdos fly in under the radar!

Look, not all red flags are FATAL warnings… but you need to know which ones to watch out for. The sooner you pick up on these signals the better!

Your Coach,
Adam

SUMMARY -

1. He’s really, really good at it.

You know, in my experience, the really good guys who are open to a relationship and really treat women well throughout the dating process are usually not very good at picking up women — especially when compared to guys who just want to get out there and get laid.

If a guy is really nervous when he comes up to you, I ask that you give him a chance. Because those guys who are super suave, super good at coming up and knocking you off your feet, making you really excited and attracted to them are probably doing it to a lot of other women. Watch out for this red flag!

2. He goes sexual really quickly.

Let me tell you ladies something. Every guy is going to want to hook up with you as quickly as possible because we’re f****** guys.

But there’s a difference between wanting to get to know you and wanting to hook up with you very quickly versus only wanting to hook up with you and nothing else. If the conversation only seems to revolve around sex, that is a dating red flag.

3. He won’t give you any information about himself.

If he’s pleading the fifth on every single question you are throwing his way, the dude is definitely guilty of something. Why is he not sharing information about himself? … RED FLAG!

Have you ever ignored one of these red flags and totally regretted it later? I want to hear from you below in the comments. What other red flags have you uncovered?

[sacmakiz]

I ignored the red flags because he was good in bed and good at sweet talking but I finally am done with that shit and I am in a way healthier relationship and so happy with it! Never give up on your own values, ladies!

[hayleylongster]

I think the biggest red flag is when they don't want to speak to you unless they're with you.
'Out of sight, out of mind'. :(

[x_obea]

I think we ignore red flags all the time especially when we're blinded by infatuation

[Tiffstylexoxo]

This is so true. When guys are super sexual/flirty and try too hard at the very beginning, it's def not worth it. And no one talks about the scary risks of getting STDs and such if they get around a lot...

[pinkaa]

I ignored the red flags and ended up alone in the middle of an unknown city, in the middle of the night on Christmas day ( empty city) with dead phone. I should be regretting that but it was very eye-opening and made me get over the guy instantly xD

[NomadicWanderer]

Another red flag is when he tries to guilt trip you into dating him,

[E-plunksna]

I always intuitively recognize these flags and never ignore them, but it's good to get a confirmation from a man about them, thank you.

[brisscrespo]

I ignored all the red flags and now I'm heart broken.

[Vertasoie]

I Ignored them soooo badly, but not anymore. Thank you. :)

[TKr]

I ignored the red flags, but after he got angry bcuz I wouldn't sleep with him...I quickly moved on

[gdgrl]

well I licked on the Clink... LOL! that was cute and funny! On a serious note, I really enjoy watching your videos Adam! You do give great analogies to better understand situations!

[NessahSimmons]

He introduced me to his friends and I thought he wanted to get to know me but I was soo wrong. Plus, he never kept in touch when with his family.

[mariamistretta]

I'm always, checking red flags. I keep my guard up, till i know if i can trust the person although sometimes it can get confusion at time because some guys unpredictable.

[laurenfalcon]

What's wrong with licking a link every once and a while

[abigailpanford]

Yes OMG thank you so much for this information I'm in the thing right now

[me-kyvn]

What should u do when u notice the first red flag in a relationship?

[karencarrisosa]

can you do a video on long distance relationship, having Alot of trust problems and miss comunication. we are good together but apart not so much.

[nowrnevr]

Hey Adam! Love your videos and am a subscriber! QUESTION for you, please!  Would you mind doing a video about painfully shy guys and how to tell whether they like a woman or are just not interested??  If a guy doesn't speak to a girl, steals glances occasionally but routinely ignores her, doesn't smile with eye contact, avoids eye contact or quickly looks down or away when she says hello or goodbye, etc., is he attracted but terribly shy (my hunch) or just not interested?  Is shyness a red flag??  Thanks very much!!

[krismas]

Hmmm. I used to ignore the red flags, and ended up broken hearted all the time. But this time, it's been 2 yrs that i don't entertain guys and i'm so happy coz i start to love myself first rather than finding someone that i will love. I remember last year, my boss (captain of the ship, young, good looking, single, very successful) was so interested on me and i never give him a chance coz i don't trust guys specially when they reach on the top on their career. Huh!

[kathryndavidson]

the 1st one. he ended up being married