Are You Emotionally Unavailable? ❤️‍🩹 How To Tell and How To Become Emotionally Available Yourself

One of the main reasons we end up in relationships with people who are emotionally unavailable is due to our own emotional unavailability. I know how uncomfortable it is to realize this.
I know because I was emotionally unavailable for a long time.
In this video, I share my experience with emotionally unavailability, signs you may be emotionally unavailable and more importantly, how to shift it and open yourself up to true intimacy.

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[TheSpectacledOwl]

I currently have feelings for someone who is emotionally unavailable.
According to a mutual friend, she doesn’t want to be in a relationship…
If this is happening to you, just move on. Do not put yourself in the same emotional pain that I am in.
For the record, I was also emotionally unavailable for quite a while - more than a decade.

[thecoolannishatk.]

So all of us dudes have been conditioned to bottle our emotions, which can make for some uncomfortable situations and unfortunately, burn bridges and cause chaos. It's kind of sad that I'm here, but also it confirms most of what I believed beforehand. The premise of opening up and expressing ourselves is something that is valuable and should be cherished. Thank for you wonderful content like this as always.

[salvadorramirez]

This is the real problem with today's society. I never knew i was stuck and this was the core of all my problems. Thank you

[absolve]

Emotional unavailability is a description, not an indictment. It’s what happens from patterns and conditioning. Some of us have multiple protection layers like addictions and drama.
Can be unlearned!!❤❤❤❤

[chloe-sunshine]

When she said to practice with a friend, I wrote up a script of me thanking my best friend for everything he's done for me. I did not expect to be drenched in tears by the end of it. I think this was a good first step. Thank you.

[manalovespink]

i finally realized that i am unavailable & my energy was attracting the toxic people then i found this video. thank you so much for breaking it down logically ! i’m now stepping into my healing journey.

[usersss]

emotionally unavailable relationships feels safe in the bad sense. no depth to communication, all are just superficial chats. this was how i felt when i was an anxious. after a breakup, i self reflected and am im learning to open up. meeting different people. yes, some would be kinda put off by what i shared. but there are those who can reciprocate as well. i think these are emotionally available people who may be secure too.

[je_suis_le_vent]

As a man this hits home for me like nothing else. I've always naturally been open, trusting, and love with my whole heart when I meet someone that I really like. Even if they're unavailable. My last relationship really did me in as the breakup was not my decision. I'm realizing that many months later, I'm struggling with emotional availability for the first time I can remember. It definitely feels unsafe to open up and express my feelings, which is backwards from where I want to be. The world just feels like such a dangerous place after placing my heart into someone's hands and having them cut me out of their life. It's like they walked away with it.

[nicole]

This is spot on…. I’m definitely emotionally unavailable.

[psycherevival]

Great content!
I think before sharing with others, in some cases it makes sense to start with journaling your feelings, or even checking in briefly with yourself a few times today and quickly recording how you feel. As someone who didn’t even understand their feelings, such exercises helped me learn to tune into myself and identify what was going on inside of me, so that eventually I could start sharing with others (which I am still working on).

[nanaabdul]

If someone is intetested in you you get turned off by that .this is a key phrase in this videp .this is due to low srlf esteem (if they like me its because they are not good rnough).

[makaylafriend]

I have always been very guarded with my emotions and personal feelings. I can definitely trace it back to my childhood. I finally met a guy who seems genuinely nice and like he cares but my brain just wants me to protect myself and run. I want to learn to open up to him.

[alexandermelchers]

This is hands-down the best video on getting over emotional unavailability I've seen to date! Thank you so much for putting this information out there!

[irida.k]

Thank you for this video it’s truly enlightening. I’ve been emotionally unavailable after experiencing long periods of immense emotional trauma, which made me numb. It’s not that I don’t want to open up about my feelings, or I am incapable of showing love and affection, it’s just that my body can’t respond to romantic feelings yet.

[gzelink]

I don't have problem with expressing emotions with my sister, or my friends but when it comes to relationship its difficult to explain. I have many crushes, and I don't have problem with finding people what I'm interested in, but when things get serious, I run. If someone shows interest in me and want to get serious, i lose interest.
I don't know what to do😖

[phoenixiguidez]

What you said is very painful, I needed it. Thank you

[ingridromero]

the way you explain this is so easily understandable for any maturity level. thank you for this. God bless.

[Mindsetolympics]

I just appreciate a coach that wants to focus on ME and working on ME not the other people.

[phoenixiguidez]

Because I’m like “I’m so pretty and smart and funny and I have a nice ass” but when someone I like says they like me my immediate reaction is “ew! lol anyway”

[mads]

What if you share and all you get is people being turned off or ending things with you altogether for even mentioning anything at all? Like being annoyed with something, don't even mean an argument. It's made me really unavailable