Survivor's Guide to Jealousy | Ali Hendry | TEDxKingstonUponThames

Where does jealousy come from, and how can we work through it? Unique observations and solutions relating to one of the most complex emotions us humans experience.

[alchemyflower]

I am literally in tears because I hate being this way. Thank you for showing me some hope.

[jasperjon]

I would like to appreciate all people who are watching this with me, we who is honest that we are jealous and insecure, this is the first step of admitting that we are who we are and we don't like how it feels and we don't like how it made us and for the people we love and care, tis is why we are here for the hope of changing oneself for better.

[NN-fzpd]

Risk doesn’t exist because none of it was in your control anyway. That’s a helpful point.

[patriciapat]

I love this, she unpacked everything amazingly and she had really good points. But it's much harder in the case of trauma and when you have C-PTSD, depression, separation anxiety and generalised anxiety... I wanted to apply her methods to my life, but it's not that easy. My mind will eat me from the inside out and I will probably jump off the nearest high bridge

[JaffaCakes-cd]

There was a time in my late 20's where I completely stopped looking at any form of social media and even YouTube because my chest used to ache seeing other people's success, holidays, nice cars and everything. I'm a carer for my mum so can't make any money nor educate myself because of her. It did help for a while as I kept busy wit other things. But now I'm back to being sad again that I never got to enjoy life

[danildasoto]

I lobe this thank you - just hearing you speak made me anxious and so vulnerable to embrace this area of my life that for years I have been fighting to unpack. It’s taken so much from me that I’m ready to let it go. I am ready to let it go and deflate this balloon that has no more meaning in life. I owe myself a new begging a new start. This is who I am. I am not jealousy or insecure. I love you for this and thank you for words. 🤎🙏🏼 Much blessings.

[candaceleonard]

You did an amazing job at explaining your root of jealousy and I love the survival kit! I just married a super hyper jealous person who feels the need to protect themselves…even from me…so every outing ends up in an argument and he is always waiting for me to cheat. It’s effing exhausting and it’s killing my fun loving, out going spirit. This helped me understand it’s really a fear of losing. I hate I put myself in this situation as life is short and I wanted a more fun loving relationship without so much baggage. Thank you. 💜

[sandraataylor]

I relate to all this self-torment. Thank you for your vulnerability to share this journey of your experience.

[ChrisP-nilz]

Mark Twain quote was excellent
and “thoughts are not facts … “
Wonderful discussion

[alexisdolan]

Charismatic, engaging, and vulnerable. I follow Ali and her work and I truly appreciate how she makes topics such as jealousy something that I can explore in a new way. I especially enjoyed the survival kit. Emotions are so nuanced and it is so empowering to see yourself reflected in others and having the opportunity to learn and grow through these shared experiences.

Thank you Ali for everything that you do!

[Smillasp]

It's all about TRUSTING another human's INTENTIONS

....and that is hard when you don't want your own heart to hurt more....

[nataliehuerta]

I feel seen, thank you so much, we are not alone 😔

[LisaFirestone]

Ali.... wow, ... I enjoyed this for so very many reasons. First, you are being totally transparent, open and forthright about something that has a high squirm factor. Your openness meets needs in me for Courage. Honesty. Your approach to feelings and facts are practical, spiritual, gentle, direct, and delightfully entertaining. And finding compassion for those who are jealous... : "love more, fear less".  LOVE IT.
Bravo, Ali... your talk is truly inspiring!!!! I'm a new fan!

[adymeneses]

The closure gave me goosebumps, great talk!

[charlypoos]

Absolutely amazing, you’ve unpacked this cloudy emotion perfectly and I felt so much synergy with much that you said. Thanks for an amazing Ted Talk.

[speedyspeedgirl]

The best talk on jealousy on YT! Amazing!

[sweetnessable]

Amazing insight and perspective; lets me feel i'm not alone and this feeling CAN be regulated to a healthy level. Thank u sooo much!

[stephaniefurey]

Absolutely LOVED this talk Ali Hendry, and could totally relate! I will use your survival guide and loved the analysis!! 🥰🥰🥰

[SigoGatt]

Thank you Ali. This has been a real eye opener and a great motivation to act on and, at the same time, embrace my feelings.

[pranav.-.]

SO UNDERRATED, IT DESERVES MUCH MORE.