Every Retroactive Jealousy Sufferer NEEDS to Hear This | RetroactiveJealousy.com

In today's video, I'm going to share an important message about retroactive jealousy that I think every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to hear.

00:00 Intro
00:58 Important Message for Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers
07:42 Outro

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[robinadkins]

Thank you Zac for sharing the comments about the woman whose husband passed away. When I read it, I cried and it made me stop and think how important life and love really is. I want my life with my new husband to be special every minute that we have together, and not waste one more minute that I can never get back. Thanks again Zac for what you're doing to help those of us who suffer from this horrible RJ. I still am having triggers, but I'm learning that they are just bumps that are not going to keep me from conquering this.

[shaylastevenson]

I feel so stupid for this. I know that it doesn't make sense and that it doesn't matter, and that I wasn't even around. But yet it just plays in my head, and hurts like I was there. It is a waste of time. I just wish I had better control. But it is comforting to know I'm not alone.

[lwr]

Just finding out I am not alone helps me feel some relief. This has been all consuming for me and I have a person who really cares for me. The bad part is these thoughts overpower what I have. I hate my brain

[mlfitness]

Guys I have to admit, I suffered from this for about 5/6 months or longer. I had it bad. I mean to the point, I looked up my girlfriends ex (who was married, even when they were together) this guy didn't know me, only that she had moved on to someone else. I looked this guy's address up and went by his house. Done a people search on him even had thoughts of taking this guy out or just beating the hell out of him. I'm ashamed and embarrassed to admit it but it's true. Thankfully this jealousy finally passed and I'm no longer angry or triggered by anything. Retroactive jealousy is real and it's a horrible feeling when you have it. Fellas you can and will get over it. If and only if you really can't deal with your girlfriends ex. Leave her alone, she doesn't need to be belittled because of her past. If you feel she's worth it hang in there talk to her and trust me it will pass.

[Owenjames]

Wow did I need this. I've been suffering for about a month, feeling threatened by my partners past, but things have eased over the last few days. The anxiety has gone and all i'm left with is a small amount of fear over losing the one I love. I'm just going to listen to this video everyday because it has totally opened my eyes. I'm not prepared to waste another second. Thank you.

[mariejohnson]

I spend my life worrying about the past when I should be focusing on and enjoying the present. RJ is so tough to deal with at times I get so upset and angry i have cried so many tears but I must not let it ruin things in the here and now i dont want to feel regret. Loved this video thankyou. ❤

[leom]

Wow this really hit home for me! I’m currently seeing a therapist about my jealousy but nothing he has said hit home like this. I love my wife more than anything but lately all we fight about are my jealousy outburst or episodes and it’s causing her to resent me and her talking about leaving me. I will use this strategy everyday to focus on what is most important, her and our kids, nothing else! I plan to set alarms on my phone 2-3 times a day for small reminders.

[MinusStars]

Zach I commented on another video that I’ve been watching all your videos but this may be one of the last I watch. You talk about RJ sufferers looking for that ultimate reassurance moment that won’t come. You are right on that, but applying this to your videos, I have been watching and feeling better, but waiting for that ultimate moment of clarity, the one video that will make me feel better, mean the most, give me clarity. This is it. Of all the great things I’ve heard you say and read in your book, this is the one that truly hits home. That made me step back and realise. I struggled with the advice of thinking of the wider impact of my life because id probably think of those stupid pointless RJ thoughts while doing it.

This has made me think not only about if my girlfriend who I love was no longer here, but also about my Mum and how I am lucky she is still here and do I want to waste time thinking about insignificant, and it really is insignificant, details of a partners past when people I love are in the here and now and won’t always be. I will watch this video many times in the coming days and weeks

I am sorry for your loss but so thankful for the message. You really are one of the good guys

[Virgofvmg]

Thank you so much I am dealing with this but the most important thing we forget is our time with each other on earth is short.. This message tops everything else... Thank you

[dorian]

This is the most powerful video on RJ that I’ve ever seen. Life changing.

[SoundsSilver]

I lost the love of my life because I couldn't get over my retrospective jealousy, and I had many unhealthy coping mechanisms. It feels as if she died, but I am glad she is alive and happy away from me now. I only wish I had this awakening earlier while we still shared the most beautiful love.

[ahuffsfaster]

This gave me a lot of perspective and comfort. Thank you for taking the time to make this

[maxwellyamane]

Thank you for the reminder to hold onto what is important and learning to let go what is not.

[myriadsofstarstarot]

Thank you for this video. I started to struggle with RJ not so long ago. First 2 years of my relationship were perfect. We were madly in love, enjoying every moment. I was aware only of his 8-year-long relationship, which seemed pretty normal to me. He was very unhappy and broke up with his ex after many years of suffering because there was no love from his side. Everyone has some kind of experience, so I was okay with that. His story made him seem like a loyal man looking for a long-term commitment, willing to fight for a relationship. How surprising it was when I found out about his "dating" history in between those two serious relationships... Ignorance is bliss. I realised that he's done things I'm not okay with. I was truly disgusted. I didn't want to get intimate with him. His body seemed dirty to me. I've never been an obsessively jealous person, but hearing those stories hurt me so much that I couldn't stop thinking about it. I'm trying to heal, meditate, and think positively, but I'm not sure if I can completely forget.

[billy]

Bought the book yesterday, read it in one day, I will continue to read it over and over again, for sufferers of RJ it's a god send, pack full of common sense, I read a comment somewhere " this is a couples problem ", it's definitely up to the sufferer to sort out.

[eddiebaby]

Still doesn't make it easier now. I've been with my partner 30 years and I still think of her with her previous partners. It been one of the worse things in my life all those years. Ive really had some bad times because of it and still do. It's a massive thing I've had to live with. I have suffered depression because of it.

[angelsilva]

Hello, sir. I’m a young 22 years old who recently got out of a friend zone. This girl and myself have been friends for seven years, and from the start I’ve been interested in her in a romantic way. Unfortunately, it wasn’t the case with her. She got into a couple of relationships and now she’s with me. The relationship is perfect and even all that I wished for, but I have these moments where I start thinking of her past relationships and the explicit details which I know, and it just kills my mood. I try not thinking about it, I try to tell myself that I have her now and that I want more, but when I’m thinking like this…Well I don’t feel anywhere close to that. I’ll continue to watch your videos and hope they can help me as much as they have helped everyone in the comments.

[yazz]

Hello zacrhry I love your idealogy on life and I believe thinking like that is the secret to eternal peace !

[Goldton]

Even with death you can’t invalidate a persons feelings.. only through time, assurance from your partner and self development can help you with this struggle

[ChelseaDisney]

Very humbling and grounding, thank you for your directness about death. It has made me really reconsider my irrational feelings and RJ. You’re right - death or “loss” is a motivator for positive change. I feel that.