6 Ways men regret losing the women they rejected

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[smores]

In my experience, most men come back and initiate contact again (usually anywhere between 1-4 months post breakup) and it is not because they truly love you. They are either bored, can’t find anyone else and need to be preoccupied for the time being, need an ego boost or miss the perks/assets of being with you. And they’re not even telling you they want to get back together. They simply want to keep that door open by breadcrumbing you with inconsistent contact and useless “how have you been?” small talk. More importantly, you’ll notice he isn’t actually putting forth any effort asides from sending a few texts. Move on and don’t let them keep their foot in the door.

[aneia]

I’m sick and tired of everyone in general.

[ak-intelligence]

If he rejected you, count your blessings and RUN !
He was never that interested to begin with.
In fact, he's expecting you to play the role of a ride or die. That's why rejected you.
To subconsciously enforce the fact that you're inadequate as an individual to date but you can sign up for doormat to be used, abused and discarded. Ruuuunnnn .

[chopsieflores]

A man dumped me when we were around 50. Twenty years later we ran into each other and was surprised by how "successful" I was. Then he wanted to get back togehter and start right where we were. I said "no" and moved on. Pissed him off. Dear G.

[alexiakelley]

I hadn’t spoken to my ex in what, four years? And out of the blue I get a friend request. Needless to say I blocked him. I’m with a man who made me his number 1 not number 20 backup.

[gerogep]

I always let them go, and I never take them back. No exceptions.

No regrets so far.

[mintberryXoXo]

I want to be a choice and not an option! If you´re just being an option to someone, do yourself a favor and walk away without keeping the door open. We all deserve someone that wants us in their life the first time around and not as an afterthought.

[marliesluyten]

You don’t get the same me twice . The second comes with no emotions😅😅

[isabelledeschamps]

the right person at the wrong time does not exist. It's always a matter of choice.

[sorarikufangirl]

I'm suffering from heart break right now. A man I was head over heels over rejected me. Pray for me.

[Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

I never take any man back - ever! I am the type of person to always move forward, never backward. If we broke up, he is no longer an option to me, and he will never have me as an option. I had a guy break up with me and try to come back six months later. He was shocked that not only was I not interested, but I moved on with another guy. If I regret breaking up with a guy, I don’t try to get him back. I take the L and use it as a lesson learned.

[drg]

Never again! That’s my motto. In my humble opinion, men leaves their partners when they have already alternatives. If they suddenly realise the alternatives are not as available as they thought them to be, they try to approach the ex again. Is that because they appreciate the values of their ex? Not really, they merely hate to be alone and to have no one that nourish their egos. Hence: adieu, never again!

[motivationstartsnow]

A guy friend once told me because of the Winter, he was considering reaching out to his ex. In his words, he wanted a "warm body." Be careful out there, ladies 😅

[Deci_Bella]

Not quite the same scenario, but one of the most useful things I've ever read was one woman's realization that the man who kept calling her after breaking up with her didn't do it so that he could keep loving her. He kept calling so that *she* could keep loving *him*.

I experienced this phenomenon as well, and it's too bad I didn't realize that at the time. I thought he kept calling because he cared - nope, he just wanted an ego boost.

[imagine_that_]

Right now, I'm soo tired out with everything. I'm 54 and tired of wasting my time with dead end relationships

[Jo-innt]

Be careful,
narcissists always come back ! It's called hoovering.
They come back just the time when you are feeling better.
They are predators, they smell it.

[Jenesis]

I proposed to an ex but was rejected. It’s been 25 years, he hasn’t found another woman he could trust to marry. We’ve been friends since and He keeps hoping I’d take him back but no way I will. It feels gross because I see him like a cousin. I am retired already and have been single for years. I am glad to be single. It suits me fine.

[kristinej.]

My ex, a narcissist, is reaching out after a year and I’m so glad I’ve moved on and now in a healthy happy relationship. It’s pathetic to see the situation he’s in now vs when he was with me. Karma is a bitch!

[karenolson]

When a guy starts being critical and rejects you, I think it can be a good idea to immediately block his number. In this way, the guy has to live with his choice and can't back track later on.

[chrgher]

I have always believed that we are either together and working on the relationship or we are done. No going back and forth.