Why Short Term Relationships Are So Hard To Get Over- And How You Get Over Them

Sometimes short term relationships can be more difficult to get over than long-term ones; why is this, and what can you do about it? Relationship expert Errol Greene shares aha moments and insights into why this is, and more importantly, what you can do if you find that you just can't get past someone you only dated for a short period of time.

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[timbob]

Think for me it's the desire to see where the relationship could have gone if it'd had more time... That's really hard to let go of.

[fucdbpv]

I saw him only 3 time but the damage was so heavy on me... I was in a rollercoaster of emotions when I was with him, he would ghost me from time to time but when he did give me attention I was over the moon. The butterflies were so brutal I didn't realize they were actually signs of red flags. After I ended it, I was (kind of still) in denial that he gave up on me so easily. I looked for reasons why, and questioned how he moved on so fast from the pure love that I gave to him. There's no need to find explanations, sometimes things leave out empty in life, and it's okay to feel lost and confused and not feeling shame that it's taking this long. We're human beings and there's no math in these things, not a proper solution, not a adequate time range to heal or estimating the reasons and so on. Life happens and we live through it. At the end of the day, I feel grateful that I have the chance to "feel" and "be alive" and hopefully this pain won't be so brutal in future and my prayers for the true and healthy love will come my way ❤

[katemorrill]

This video is the first to finally help me after several months of struggling to get past a 6 week relationship. Thank you! I’m finally feeling better. Please make more videos like this.

[junie]

Heartbroken over someone who I only dated for a little over a month. But I spent so long being single, and he made me feel so special. I hate that I'm so heartbroken. I wish people were willing to work more on relationships. He's only 24 and had two divorces clearly he was a walking red flag I ignored. 💔☹️

[yolandasession]

After 2 months of dating.. all of a sudden it’s over.. this hurts so bad.. He just walked away..

[lunasmokezim]

I have been in so much pain over someone I went on 3 dates with. I have been so ashamed of my heart break, my pain felt out of sequence with the length of the attachment. It's been 6 months and i still feel broken sometimes. Thank you, i really needed to here this.

[theodoreroberts]

When you put your heart into someone, and we all have, you break up it hurts!
Woman will tell you it's different for men and that's not true. Remember men are brought up not to show our feelings. It absolutely does not mean we don't feel the hurt.
Get through it as best you can...

[KendraGraceT]

It's because you barely knew each other and wanted more time.

[sirg-had]

I projected onto her like a million watt spotlight. This video is an eye opener.

[sagovana]

Met a lady for two months, we were in a relationship for just over one of them, had wonderful times together. Everything was there, the chemistry, the attraction, the affection, the feelings. She would always tell me how much she loved me, planning the future with me, calling me her person... the morning after I got home after visiting her for the second time she discarded of me by text message. Her reason was she wasn't ready for a relationship but she was the one who pursued me the night we met, initiated saying 'I love you' and initiated us getting into a relationship. We never argued or fell out and always had a great time together. Brutal. It's been 6/7 weeks since and I still miss her. I really believed it was special.

[genevaelyse]

Oh my god, I went through the same struggle. When I break up with my first ex after a more than one year relationship, After 3-4 months I was doing ok. I kinda easily got over it because every time I got that feeling of nostalgia I reviewed the red flag list that I had created. But after that I had a fling with someone. We flirted a few times and never got into a relationship but it was so hard to get over them because I had created this perfect image of them in my head but later on I realized that they weren't that great anyway.

[mrtrrIV]

dated for 4 month but were with each other everyday. Sadly she had depression and was on anti depressants. she ended it 2 days ago cause she was in limbo.. i miss her very much. im not mad at her just wish her the best..

[HerrmannBurger]

I'm turning 33 next week. I'm heartbroken, it was only 3 months but we had multiple amazing weekends away. Speaking each day and he meant so much to me. Last two weeks I noticed he was being quieter, I drove to see him 4 hours round trip and it didn't feel right. Texted him when I got home and the crux of it is he's found another person he's connected with when he went on holiday for a week. I love him so much and want him but he doesn't want me. The pain in my chest is immeasurable, I can't sleep, I can't eat. I just wish I could be at peace. Whatever higher power please help me! 🙏

[lynnesunshine]

Well said. Shed new light on recent heartbeat. Thank you .

[pamk]

It was 2 weeks for me and a year on of completely no contact, I still think about him and feel some type of way? Genuinely don’t understand it and wish I didn’t but let me get to the end of the video.

[jonbanks]

Thanks for the excellent explanation. It all makes sense now.

[sjohnson]

We dated for only a short while then he passed away suddenly leaving me in grief, holding on to what we had in that moment and what could have been. The hardest for me to get past thus far 💔

[YoutubeUser]

Great voice, great content. Content is overall topnotch!

[bunnybeetle]

It’s been 2 years since our short relationship. They’re engaged and I’m still hurting.

[ashley-vzdt]

i've only had three relationships in my life (i'm a 24-year-old female) and they were all short. for the first two guys, i got over them fairly quickly, it took about a month for the first one and about 3 months for the second one, but it's true what you're saying, i got over them because i realized they were really not compatible with me.

the third guy, however...i was with him officially for a little over a month, but we dated for abt two months in total. fast forward six months to where i am now... better, but still not completely over it. i think of him almost every day and, at times, i still feel unbearable pain...whenever i pass him at uni, my heart falters...i've noticed a few of his bad sides i guess, but i feel like i love those too. thinking of him with someone else cracks my heart into smithereens and the thought of never speaking to him again is unbearable. i was hoping that by now i would be completely over it, but idk why, i just cannot let it go no matter how hard i try. now that i think about it, i don't think i was ever really in love before he came along bc what i experienced with him was something so very spiritual. and it hurts that he could let it go just like that.

anyways, i'm rambling, but has anyone ever been in the same situation? any advice on how to kick this out of my head? thanks in advance 🙏