The Problem With Short-Term Relationships

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[dawnbishop]

Married at 22, husband is 6 years older, three children, celebrating 32 years of marriage next week!

[ideaWorld]

He mentioned a 'Sex in the City' dating life. People should remember that the star of that show, Sarah Jessica Parker, has been in a committed relationship with 1 man (her husband), since she was in her late 20s. In other words the character who many women see as something to aspire to, herself lived a very different life- a life committed soley to one man.

[alqoshgirl]

Im glad Peterson clarified on men are NOT designed like that. I absolutely despise that description and find it an absolute insult to masculinity, men and God’s design making men out to be animals that is women tame. How do you justify that and then claim men are supposedly leaders, logical, rational and moral. But yes immature men act like this because there’s a difference in having a higher sex drive vs being designed to be an immoral animal ‘sowing his seed’.

[nobys]

I don't know I really wanted to see this 2 humans talking to each other!! This is gold for everyone obvy.. but more for younger generations....in my opinion!!

[debrafarwell]

I too married at 22 and my husband was 30. We have been happily married for 46 years! I also had finished University and had a well established career when we got married. We have 3 children and 4 grandchildren. It is a wonderful full life 😊

[PheobeFredrickson]

When my mom left my dad for another man, my husband and I went in for marriage counseling for ourselves, simply because we wanted to be sure the same thing didn't happen to us. Commitment is a decision we make every day! Also I highly recommend counseling, even if there are no issues. It was amazing and super helpful for making our relationship stronger.

[rickgonzalez]

Loneliness and depression is what you get when you sleep around

[liannemarie]

I always thought it was so stupid when kids in school, like Elementary school, would say they were dating. My mind was so black and white and to me, the only point of dating someone was to get married and who was going to date all throughout school?! I know that it used to happen but in this day and age, it is clearly rare. I never dated some guy just because I wanted to have fun. I would date him because I thought I would maybe be able to have a future with him one day. Or at least I was testing it to see if they were someone id want to marry

[hughcurran]

Jordan peterson teaching by example all the time.
I have never seen someone who embodies valour and integrity so clearly.

[susieq]

Part of the problem is that so many TV shows and movies push the myth and engender the zeitgeist that a serious relationship can come from engaging in hook up culture— when in reality you need to avoid hook up culture to find a meaningful relationship. It’s more about people not knowing how to build intimate relationships anymore than it is about people solely wanting to short term relationships.

[MisuZama]

I got married at 23, though sadly divorced 9yrs later, but marrying in my young protected me so much from heartbreak, promiscuity, emotional trauma & recklessness. Which for women has horrible effects.

[JadeNowitz]

He's right.. I've met a guy exactly like this and he would always go call his mom and his mother would be okay with his behavior. He had a high body count at 19, Muslim, was manipulative, narcissistic (always taking selfies), lied/ told me half-truths without telling the full truth. Just look at Ali Abulaban. It's true and I wish I knew better but I had to learn on my own and now I do my best to avoid these types of people.

[broony]

Hats off to Jorden for clearing her misunderstanding. I think it's not only her but most of young ladies even older ones belive that men are designed like that. Cause they were taught like that by the society in order for the benifit of men. So they can easily manipulate women. It's the best example for when Jordan said "Where men go, women will follow" Men say somthing for the benifit of themselves then these young immature ladies belive it and get used to living with those bs while bearing the pain.

[shweshwe_k]

I have always had this desire and still do. You keep yourself pure and only date to marry however, in my life it doesnt lead to marriage.
You open and tell men that these are your conditions and what you want.
6mts - 1 year you find out that the character and values are not aligned.
Then you have to start all over again.
For those who met there true partners on the first try congratulations but its not everyone's reality

[NathanFella]

What an interesting conversation. Love that this lady is so mature in her decision. Though I am 22, I desire similar things. Sort term relationships will hurt any human being

[darkspartan]

I have a bro-in-law who spent his 20's sleeping with different girls every night. When I went to the bars & clubs with him, I was so impressed how easily he picked up gorgeous girls. Now in his 50's, he's jobless, not in very good health, and still lives at home with his parents. I'm really glad I stuck with my guns of pursuing LTR'S.

[naupoleond]

daaamnn, being 22 y/o a keep a deep conversation with Mr.Peterson is impressive. I am 36 and I would be afraid of dealing with that kind of responsability 😅 Good Job Lady!!

[jaytan]

I agree with JP's view of mature and responsible men.
I am 60, married for 35 years and don't mess around with women.
We have 2 daughters and they both married similarly serious men.

[JavierCR]

Her husband is a truly blessed man. A woman can either build a man to his full potential or destroy him, she she will make him whole. Jordan is such a brilliant man…

[eitlqds]

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.