How To Be More Charismatic

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[thisisntallowed]

An authentic person has nothing to hide. An authentic person is also more honest with themselves.

[aellalee]

I struggle with this at jobs. When there's an awesome crew I do well. If they bully, obviously I pull back and mask more and it creeps into my life outside of work too. This is why I've left so many jobs.
Probably why people thought I was weird at the last two jobs but complimented often at the third last one.

[johnrivers]

I've always noticed that if I feel good and I'm feeling confident in myself people are way more likely to approach me. Even one time I had someone say to me, "wow, you look great" " I feel great"

[rileymachelle]

I feel like I'm halfway there. The only thing is that because of how quiet and socially anxious I am, there's an initial barrier that makes it hard for other people to get a proper read on what kind of person I am.

Based on my experience, and according to some of my friends, I'm not a very approachable person at first but once they actually came up and talked to me a few times, they found that I was a pretty easy person to trust and be themselves around. I just have a really hard time feeling safe enough to be myself around new people so much that I basically hide behind being dead quiet

[Sizzane]

As a campfire, I did not expect him to use that of all things as the example

edit: not a casual comment being my most interacted "content" as of today....

[thenineironman]

There’s a great book called: “The Charisma Myth, ” that breaks charisma down into three elements:

1. Warmth-are you comforting/positive to be around?

2. Presence-are you engaged with the activity of the moment?

3. Power-are you in control of the situation and, more importantly, yourself? Can others trust that they’ll be okay when they’re around you?

Keeping those three elements in mind has worked wonders for me. I feel much-more confident in social situations now that I have an idea of the, “formula.”

[Gilsworth]

I grew up as a huge nerd, into things that my peers never liked, and preferred the company of older people.

So I knew early on that I wasn't going to be one of the popular kids, and at first I wasn't - but I as I got older I just cared less about impressing my peers or "being cool".

Somehow by giving less of a shit people became more friendly. I developed confidence in myself and am now a nerdy introvert working as a socialite host where I talk with strangers for 11 hours a shift.

EVERYTHING can be cringe, to somebody, so instead of killing the part of you that is cringe, instead kill the part of you that cringes.

[Some_guy_with_a_beard]

So true, the moment i stopped trying to be someone i thought others would like and instead just focused on being myself was when everything changed for the better

[Jiji-ynky]

The "fire broou" face crack me up 😂😂

[hawnEX]

THANK YOU for putting out stuff like this, theres so many predatory "seduction" and "male improvement" channels, that its a breath of fresh air when someone keeps it real

[aeshi]

the more i fake myself the easier i get conversations and fun with people, when im myself im alone

[deyjaacterius]

Next video: authenticity versus oversharing lol

[CivilChev]

This is absolutely based.

Either you're truthful about yourself to others and you realize people like you for who you are and feel much better about yourself.

Or you're truthful about yourself to others and find out people like you less and less which allows you to realize you are the problem, not others, which gives you the power to better yourself.

[minidialga]

Yup, as someone who struggles with social anxiety, specially as a kid this gained me respect and friends, just this alone makes people feel so secure, so people who aren't interested respect you cus you aren't a threat as they completely understand you but also know you don't hold anything back and friends similarly but they also vibe with you so they stick near to you

[Rocketman]

Be grounded and happy while socializing. That will make you charismatic. Easier said than done

[GigachadMann]

This was clickbait, I already knew I had to be Ryan Gosling 🤦🏻‍♂️

[derdefender]

Damn I love your voice.
Soothing yet always with a point. You choose your words so careful that every sentence matters and people just want to listen to you.

[Techno-Tanuki]

I naturally radiate charisma though I am anti-social, due to being myself 100% authentic and level headed. I also always have a good story to tell.

[croc]

I am so glad that Tectone meet Dr. K.
He help him do much.

[frostphoenix]

Caveat- being authentic is polarizing because the truth is often unpopular. Some people WILL be drawn in, but others will be alienated. On the other hand, trying to please everyone usually pleases no one and erodes ones own psyche.