6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic

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6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic

When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally.

In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.

Those charismatic beliefs are

1. No matter what, I will be okay
2. I care more about my character than my reputation
3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity
4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything
5. I share my purpose proactively
6. I go there first in humanizing interaction

If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.

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[LeonLush]

Also, your lack of jump edits really speaks to your ability to be comfortable in front of the camera and get your ideas across in a pleasing manner without a lot of distraction. I'm sure there was plenty of prep that went into it, but it is commendable and I thought I'd point it out.

[NO-yxyl]

Thanks this will help with starting my cult

[aminferdous]

1) No matter what, I'll be okay.
2) I care more about my character than my reputation.
3) I have impeccable honesty and integrity.
4) I don't need to convince anyone about anything.
5) Put your purpose first.
6) Be the first person to initiate things.

[tabokamoalosi]

'When you lie sometimes you hurt your ability to speak with conviction ' i felt that.

[ivelinivanov]

You know I watched this video today and I applied this thing immediately. I went to a salsa party but when you come early everyone stays at the entrance and no one goes to the actual dance room. So it was empty up there. They just sit downstairs and chat and postpone the start of the party forever. And everyone feels awkward to go upstairs by themselves. They all have to decide as a group it's time to go. But no one does it. So i remembered your tip from your video. "Be the first to take the awkward action that no one wants to do first" And that's what I did. I went upstairs to the empty dance room by myself. I don't care if you wanna come or not. It's time to start already. And 1 girl followed me, then a few minutes later the others came as well. If I had decided to stay downstairs with them instead of immediately going upstairs by myself we would've just sat there forever.

But this way I triggered the start of the salsa party and it was very cool :) I loved it. I love your videos as well. Learning a lot. Thanks for them.

[MrWilko]

1. No matter what, I will be okay
2. I care more about my character than my reputation
3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity
4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything
5. I share my purpose proactively
6. I go there first in humanizing interaction

[nothisispatrick]

He's so good at speaking, I can't pause or remove the video because I feel like I'm disrespecting him ;-;

[mzjj]

A very good friend of mine is an introvert, but she told me the story of a time when she went to this dance. She knew no one there, so she wasn't worried about how she acted because she probably wouldn't see any of them again. She had always wanted to be a bubbly, outgoing girl, so that's what she did. That night she chose to be that fun, bubbly girl that stood out, and she had the *time of her life.*
Edit: the difference between an extrovert and an introvert is an introvert's "battery" is charged by having their alone time, while an extrovert will be charged by interacting with people. Both introverts and extroverts can have a great time socially, or a not-so-great time. Introverts just need to be charged beforehand, and extroverts don't.
Extroverts sometimes need breaks from people too. And sometimes introverts need interacting

[stevenpalty]

I like the fact that this channel includes the concepts of character and integrity rather than just winning.

[none]

"If someone is not treating you the way you'd like to be treated" don't try to convince them or change them, either accept them as they are or remove them from your life. This hits home.

[EfoulaMp]

its so attractive when someone is so smart and has self awareness

[jeremymaxwell]

"You build a reputation with yourself" when you lie. That's powerful stuff.

[HardcoreMontages]

This guy is the fucking human embodiment of charisma, wtf

[chlidera]

What a great video. I wrote the mindsets down on my personal development notebook and I know I will read them over and over again and more importantly practice them in real life. Thanks for this awesome channel and the great work you're doing for us. Olivier from Paris, France

[riyagupta]

I am revisiting this video after 4 years. This video had a really good and calming impact after my turbulent experience in high school, and helped me be a better person ready for college. Now that I'm done with college, I wanted to come back and thank you from the bottom of my heart, as this video was the corner stone for helping me to be the better version of myself. Thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge here.

[RYSEproductions]

The best word to describe this channel is "healthy". This has to be the healthiest channel on youtube.

[worldsbeauty]

I can be a confident person with strangers but not in front of the people I have known... because they have seen me as an unconfident person...I don't know what kind of psychology is this, which I am going through I just want to come out of it...so please make a video about this...

[Mar-mxzi]

I remember talking to my friend about menstruation, then she's like "It's impressive you are talking about that without being shy, most girls will not talk about it because they think it's weird to talk about or they are shy." Me: "Why would they be shy? It's normal, nothing to hide". I have this thing to be confident about these kind of subjects. My friend also told me: "It's nice to be around you because you don't talk about the usual subjects, like "how was your day", you talk about interesting ones." I am very flattered :3

[wreccen]

This information is very important and you are giving it away for free. Good on ya mate.

[sherrishah]

You are that intelligent therapist I have been looking for all my life! :)