10 Reasons A Narcissist Keeps Blocking You!

Learn 10 reasons why narcissists play the block and unblock game. Although this video focuses on romantic relationships, many of these reasons apply to any type of relationship where the narcissist will block and unblock others repeatedly.

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Video Chapters:
Intro (0:00)
1: They Think You're the Narcissist (1:00)
2: Power and Control (1:43)
3: To Maintain Victim Stance (2:40)
4: To Punish You (3:14)
5: To Provoke an Emotional Reaction (4:02)
6: For Secrecy ad Distance (4:52)
7: To Condition You (5:49)
8: Lack of Emotional Maturity (6:10)
9: Reputation Management (6:52)
10: Impulsivity (7:57)

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[Ryuhayabusa.]

I was with a Narcissistic female for 2 years. Looking at this video after 5-6 months after our breakup and having landed myself in a healthy relationship recently is extremely eye-opening as to what the hell I was dealing with but so damn blind to.

For those of you stuck in the endless and vicious cycle please get out and seek therapy. I did, and I'm thankful for it. Friends, family, co-workers, all walks of life told me I was at insane for staying with someone who could devalue me in an instant. Looking back they were all right, but the person I'm with is tremendous in her efforts to comfort me, take care of me, and be the person my ex could never be or become.

It's a breath of fresh air being out of a toxic relationship.

[Marklimrn]

You are probably the best therapist for narcissistic behavior. 10/10 content

[ricoval]

That last comment got me. I've spent the last year obsessing about bpd and narcissism, in the hope for discovery of what the heck is going on. I've noticed ive forgotten about my own person, my own healing in this process.

[mathews]

I've blocked and unblocked them too. I get pushed to the point that i end the relationship out of frustration. Once i calmed down, i would unblock them. It was embarrassing. The hours, days, weeks of constant drama just overwhelmed me to the point that i pushed back hard. I noticed this pattern after i am trauma bonded and my mental health has eroded. I wont be sleeping, feel like i am in a fog and spending hours a day ruminating about the perplexity. I'm vulnerable to being emotionally reactive in this state

[MrRicardonz]

Great video. Ultimately they do it to hurt you. Being ostracised and rejected causes emotional pain. Narcissists are sick, they get pleasure out of inflicting emotional pain.

[Edmond]

This lady is good. Every video I’ve seen from her is spot on.

[mcough]

When someone blocks you or let you down, it's bye bye.

[I wish I had this kind of self respect, when I was in this situation. Please learn from my mistakes. Don't let them hurt you more/again.]

[davidrichard]

That’s amazing, because I’ve been blocked and unblocked by this particular lady for four years now.

[runnersluck]

Wow, these videos are so on point its scary!!

Amazing work here

[licmir]

When you don’t understand narcissism or never heard of it (which is what usually happens to most), it’s hard to explain this kind of behavior. The block and unblock makes you (mistakenly) believe that the narcissist likes you, but is just immature or too proud to demonstrate it in a healthy manner. Once you lean about narcissism, then you comprehend that it’s just a game of manipulation for them, and that there was never love or caring. Move on. Take the opportunity to learn about yourself, self-correct, and move on.

[Iron_Stark]

3 years of pure chaos like Vietnam war…today I’m feeling like a vet with PST 😢 !

[evoz]

It's very easy to end up showing narcissistic traits after long dealing with these people. I ended up doing the same same things back to her that she did to me...because it was the only way to cope with it. Ya know, sort of give them a taste of their own medicine. But the key is that a mentally healthy person will feel uncomfortable with this "eye for an eye" behavior after a short time. It creates too much of a dissonance to not be our authentic selves, which is empathic and caring...not resorting to childish games. But, the narcissist on the other hand, will delight in sadistically torturing you and not let up and will not feel any guilt or remorse for hurting you.

[AlexRyan]

#1: They think you are the narcissist
#2: Power and control
#3: To maintain their victim stance
#4: To punish you
#5: To provoke an emotional reaction
#6: To maintain secrecy and distance
#7: To condition you to wait and wonder about their return
#8: They don’t have the maturity to break up with you
#9: Reputation management
#10: Impulsivity

[christianrokicki]

Yeah if you make any small criticism or find any fault with their horrible self-absorbed communication skills, they punish you by stonewalling. You simply are never allowed to express any dis satisfaction whatsoever or you will be shunned…. Until they realize they need something. Then they pretend as if nothing had ever happened.
It’s a really disgusting way to to treat people. But of course they are the victim always…
And rationalize everything… always an excuse… and so offended…
“I lost my phone, my neck was sore, I hurt my finger, it was Tuesday… “ they say.
“How dare you suggest I’m inconsiderate when I stubbed my big toe, so of course I didn’t reply to any of your texts!”

[christianrokicki]

And when they do reply to a message, it barely makes any sense… and you have to ask for clarification, which of course they can never be bothered to do…

[alecclaire]

Can you please make a video on narcissists/borderline single mothers and how her upbringing affects adult sons?

[brianyerger]

Wow! I've been searching for answers to this question for a long time. Thank You

[thedominator]

Thanks for this video this is exactly what she does and the crazy person lives right next door to me this sucks

[rahulkukar]

What a video - been waiting for this one for 10 years!!

Nice one Lise - keep up this incredible work. Hitting the nail on the head with every statement - just perfect.

[YanceyMbadi]

I totally agree too with the last comment you gave us.
Actually I've realized my ex is a narcissist with you 6 months ago and you were already saying something similar. 6 months after I'm still affected by this toxic relationship, still I managed to take better care of myself: I eat more often, I'm going to the gym, I even gain some weight back.
Now last but not least I need to treat the trauma bond thing. It's awful. And though that experience really damaged me in a way on the other it has helped me understand that I'm codependent. I knew I had an issue from my childhood. I don't know if my Mum is a narcissist too but I've experienced some psychological abuse for sure. So thanks to all of you who are doing a great job or there for all of us. If you guys weren't there I don't know if I would still be here and I'm dead serious. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏