10 Reasons You Were Targeted By a Female Covert Narcissist

In this video, I explain 10 traits that a female covert narcissist looks for in a partner, from high levels of empathy to unwavering loyalty. You'll learn how a female covert narcissist manipulates her partner using emotional tests and tactics. If you've found yourself trapped in a one-sided narcissistic relationship, this video can help you understand why you were targeted in the first place and why you need to stop taking her emotional bait.

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Lise Leblanc is a Therapist, Author, and Life Coach with over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles.

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Video Chapters:
Introduction (0:00)
1: Highly Empathetic (0:33)
2: Accept Her Manipulation (2:04)
3: Someone Who Will Defend Bad Behaviour (3:44)
4: Obsessed With Her (4:20)
5: Unwavering Loyalty (5:09)
6: Confusion (6:09)
7: Low Self-Worth (6:58)
8: Afraid of Conflict (7:40)
9: Financial Stability (8:39)
10: Emotionally Provoke (8:55)

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[dimitristelianidis]

"A narcissist is someone who wanna make you give up everything just to be their nothing."

[wmhhealth]

I've been targeted by BPD/NPD women my entire life but I have finally woken up and have developed stronger boundaries so even though I still attract them I get rid of them very quickly now.

[michaelking]

You give. They take. Then they hate you. And you become a pathetic try hard.

[roberttorres]

Nailed it. She baits, and waits. You are the victim, not her.

[TheRealTJErnie]

1. Highly empathic.
2. Buy into her love bombing.
3. someone who will defend her bad behaviour.
4. Obsessed with her.
5. Unwavering loyalty.
6. Some one she can easily confuse.
7. Low self worth
8. Afraid of intense emotions.
9. Financially stable.
10. Some one she can emotionally provoke.

[hardywatkins]

" ... and project her own negative qualities and intentions onto you".

[jcsrst]

This behavior happens in friendships too.

[Alexein]

I lived with a woman like that for nine years... now I have a normal girl and I had to get used to a normal relationship, quite a shock. I now see those 9 years as a fog or a black hole in my life.

[PoyTroy]

This was too spot on. I know my ex targeted me, cause I didn’t care. It was almost like a challenge for her I believe. I went through all these motions with her. She started off fun and friendly and happy go lucky. I later realized it was all an act, and that she was a truly unhappy depressed individual.

[koopa]

Lise is so spot on. I lived in this exact type of relationship for a year. It is extremely difficult to break, and you might second guess yourself, but I can promise you that 1. No contact is best, 2. Time heals everything, stay patient, and 3. Remember, you were just fine before you met this person, and you’ll be even better after.

[aachtung]

My relationship was over the moment I started to work on myself and I put up boundaries.

[rjlacroix]

My EXACT experience with my undiagnosed ex wife . I'm still experiencing PTSD 2 years later but the good news is I'm away from the abuse, gaslighting and infidelity .I now live in peace 🙏

[yekutiailblaustein]

I love Bill Burr's point at the end: when they start bringing up irrelevant shit and trying to aggrevate you on purpose, iTV means that youve won, and they cant handle that

[realistrick]

Basically, you have to be one of the best men, a truly good one. But also unaware and naive. Helps if you're hot too.

[hurricaneaquatics]

Thank you, Lise. I really wish this information had been available 30 years ago. I'm so glad it is now for future reference for our younger society. Thank you for all you do and the immense help you provide us.

[dmgill]

I suddenly feel like my ex-wife targeted me from the very beginning. 😕

[williamj.dovejr.]

I would say that every single woman I have dated has done this..I stopped dating ten years ago. I'm done.

[tmamma]

Spot on! My mother is a narcissistic person. She was the victim even when I was 5 years old. She brainwashes, manipulates and cannot have one normal day. Took me 43 years to set my no contact boundary. After 2 yrs, her manipulations and her "love" for me have stopped. I stopped giving her the bait and I stopped trying to "reason" with her. It's like grieving for someone who is still alive. I'm finally finding myself. Thank you for your posts. It's reassuring ❤

[zandig]

My neighbor does nothing and says nothing, as soon as you take the bait and try to help her, she cajoles and harangues you. as soon as you do anything, even distance yourself from her she's a victim 😂😂😂😂 right now I'm the worst man on this planet for merely distancing myself from her 😂😂

[andykalnins]

Paying attention to facial expressions is key, the trademark narc half-smile when they get what they want is something they can’t hide.