FIRST DATE TIPS 📝✨

[rem_chan.]

the fact that im a Muslim and don't do dates but am still watching this video because i love her energyyy ✨😂

[cringnez]

jazmine please stop giving bad advice lets me list your errors and elaborate on them

1: High standards: If you say that you have high standards then that means that you dont accept low things not everbody can even provide a good dinner and some people may prefer coffee cuz they want to see if you guys match saying that you have high standards can be perceived as you looking down on them

2: Princess Treatment: Please let go of this phrase for crying out loud it implies that you consider yourself above other people and makes it look like you want to be given everything without giving something in return please just use a better phrase like treat you well why cant you give the man "prince treatment" you two are equal so deserve to be treated the same

3: Dating other people: This is downright dumb like lets say a man starts dating you and his best friend starts dating you too if that one of the friends find out it can cause rivalry and chaos and it will make u seem like a ho and men will want to stop dating you or make the other people stop dating in any case this wont turn out well if u get a man who wants to date you don't date someone else or accept it when someone else is dating you

4 Blessed to be in your presence: your not a goddess. your not a celestial being. your not higher than him, your on the same level your a human and he's a human so you guys are equal he is not blessed to be in your presence you both are blessed to have each other like I said earlier this makes him think that you put yourself higher than him which may annoy him and make him leave you or he thinks he's better than you the scenario that will never happen is him worshipping you and bowing down to you don't be delulu use common sense

[AaradhanaFernandes]

Anyone is here to hear her calling you babygurl❤😊

[fallen]

"don't hold up the line bro" .... ehh. I physically cringed when I read that. I understand the joke, but it lands wrong for men. I would remove that line. It sounds like your goal is to sleep with a different man every night. It's not implying urgency in the way you think it is.

If you reject coffee, and request dinner instead, it suggests that you see a date as a transaction rather than a chance to get to know someone. You really do not want to imply there is a financial requirement to dating you. A lot of women think they are avoiding "broke" men, but i'll be honest with you; I currently make 400k and would never go on a date with a girl that rejects coffee as a first date. The goal of a first date is to see if the two of you click at all.

Please let go of the phrase "princess treatment." It used to mean, "I want to be treated well", but now it sounds a lot like a woman who wants to take as much as she can while offering nothing in return. It implies you think men are beneath you. I assume that's not what most girls mean, but how it's received is more important than how you intend it.

"think he's blessed just to be in your presence." That's just objectively terrible advice. You should feel worthy of each other's time, but "blessed to be in your presence." Come on. Selfish narcissism is not a brand you want to wear. Any man worth spending time with will find it repulsive, in the same way that women want a confident man, but they don't like extremely ego centric men.

She seems young, so is still working through some flawed views of dating. Understandable, but damn please do not follow 50% of this advice if you want an actual relationship.

[JessieRed]

Naw, don’t let the first date pick me up at my house. Safety First Ladies. ❤

[firakina]

I'm a guy with high standards and the whole not coffee but dinner thing is wrong and arrogant, as men we know you girls have many back ups on your phone, and so we filter out the fake arrogant gold digger types, with a simple coffee date too see if the girl likes me enough to happy with a simple coffee date, that's how we filter out the bad girls. If the girl expects a dinner especially an expense dinner on the first date when we don't even know each other that well, that's is a red flag. It just shows you care about the experience more than the guy himself. We needa make sure we not being used for a free dinner or for just attention. Social media has made women so arrogant to the point men think "she's not mine, it's just my turn"

[earthwormsally]

Nah. Dating multiple guys/gals just shows you're just looking for options and aren't interested in getting serious with them.

[yanisdiary]

actually, i think that some people would prefer go for coffee rather than dinner

because if you just want to meet someone for the first time and just understand what kind of person they are, chit chat with them

ofc you can do that on dinner date but i think dinner date is more like formal event while if you just go on coffee date and you and person have something to each other after that
than dinner date can be less awkward and plus you already will have things in common to talk about and etc)

but ofc it’s just my opinion, if you feel and think otherwise that’s cool too!

[mrniceguy]

For the guys out there, this girl is a great example of a red flag

[j.vantae]

So basically your "high standard" means that a guy should spend more money on u . If he asks u for a coffee date, may be that's all he can afford at that time. May be that guy is really a great guy who will understand you and support you. But u r going to reject him cuz he didn't offer you dinner and instead asked for a coffee date?... And "he should be blessed to be in your presence"... What if men think the same way that the woman they are seeing should feel blessed that she is in his presence. What if he says that he wants a prince treatment and that you should obey to him. You'd call it a RED FLAG.. but all this crap is ok when it comes to yourself because u think u are privileged enough

[emberya]

She is very attractive so she will land plenty of dates regardless of what she writes but an average woman is going to struggle so bad with her advice. Which is why don't take advice from winner on how to win, listen to the story of those who failed and what failed them. Then find your own way for winning.

[xakushonx]

Dating multiple men at the same time is a big no. If you are interested in someone take your time for him, if it doesnt work out okay, but its not the same like trying on clothes at a store lol. You talking about people

[madshader]

ok that last tip is a fail. Men literally don't want a narcissist.

[noneofyourbusiness]

I have serious question
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He:- sushi on Thursday
You :- sushi sounds great, pick me up at 7 pm....
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It's fine but it's a first date we don't know each other what if he comes out creepy or criminal or catfished . What if he takes you to some weird places not to dinner
Please answer this how you filter this out and your safety measures

[coco.caramelz]

Ever since I found ur channel, I’ve been OBSESSED 😭💓

[puffii_]

Jazmine I just wanted to say thank you for being the supportive big sister I never got to have. Even though the rest of my family has abandoned me at least I know you never will.🥰

[DarkDemur]

Nothing wrong with coffee dates its great to break the ice and get to know the person, also if the dude finds out you’re going on multiple dates with different people he’s just gonna see you as a hole. He’ll sleep with you, but you’ll never meet his mother.

[_catulus]

“Men don’t get a lot of compliments.”

Why is there tears in my eyes when I heard this wtf

[dienzer]

narcissism and delulu is the trend these days it seems lmao

[talyakooper]

“Don’t keep your eggs all in one basket” lmao I died 😂