Top 10 Most Common Mistakes Women Make on a First Date (Number 4 RUINS 49% of All First Dates)

Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and the top 10 most common mistakes women make on a first date.

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First dates are hard, especially when you're entering the dating pool and unsure of where to start! Make sure that you are setting yourself up for success and not making one of the 10 most common mistakes women make on a first date.

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

Directed and Editing By: Luke Dejoras
Written By: Mathew Boggs

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[Sbannmarie]

“The purpose of a first date is to determine if there’s a second date” - A smart woman in Calif.

[enna]

I've been out with both men and women who do not look at the waiter/waitress while ordering or asking questions and it always bothers me. I think looking at someone acknowledges them and is therefore respectful.

[jenniferl]

Rejection is Protection. I've had many one date wonders recently because the guys I went out were having issues in their life (Covid has made dating difficult) and they don't do any inner work to heal wounds and trauma. One guy laughed at my self help work. He texted me the next day to say he felt no romantic connection - I told him I felt the same and then he got mad lol. I dodged a bullet with a narcissist. Thank God.

[Loganslifewithme]

One question people ask on a first date that is a big conversation killer is “so, why are you single?”. It’s the most odd question … are you suggesting being single is a bad thing? Or, that there must be some reason that I’m single that I’m supposed to explain to you? Is there really an answer to that question since we are all single for a variety of reasons! It’s personal and invasive. It’s so common though!

[dennystockfeld-strong]

So True, Mat. My first date with my future husband Rick was lunch at a restaurant I said I liked.

He was chivalrous - opening doors, etc - which I love. After we were seated, the 1st thing Rick did was ask our server for his name. Rick spoke to our server by name for the duration of our meal. I Loved that he treated that person like a person. It demonstrated respect, humility & gratitude.

My husband did that every time we ate out for the 36 yrs we were married - until he passed away.

[SouthBrxBaby]

It's a big turnoff when the date starts asking about sex: when was the last time, what position do you like, etc. Dude, I don't know you well enough yet!

[yurimaperez]

Table manners
Negativity
Questions about your current online dating
Being late for the date (huge turn off)
Using bad worlds (slam) on the first date
.. and the list goes on lol

Thank you so much for sharing this video 😊

[tinamexico]

At least 35 years ago..I went on a first date, I still remember not being able to eat my dinner because he was grilling me so hard, I just stopped eatting...dont remember his name or even what he looked like, but years later remember the anxiety of that date !!

[jillg]

If I walk away from a first date and I know way too much information about him and he knows nothing about me it’s not a good feeling at all. I feel I could chalk it up to being nervous, but I’ve actually realized it is his fault for not wanting to know more about you. Moving along…..

[campfireaddict]

Throwing litter out the window of the car. Total deal-breaker. Said a lot.

[cindyhissick]

The biggest turn-off for me on a first date is when the man doesn’t listen to me when I talk.

[mellissiad]

. Checking other women out or expressing how he thinks that someone else is hot while with you ! Big turn off to me

[rezotydnic]

A first date, I've learned is this.
To see if there's:
1. Chemistry.
2. Things in common.
3. Learn each other's values, standards, deal breakers.
4. Goals and if you some in common.
5. If you see/feel red flags, listen.
I had a first date with what I perceived as a nice guy. Church going, deacon in the church, etc. Ohhh boy was I wrong. First date he was way too forward, talked about himself all the time, never asked me questions etc. 30 minutes into date, I knew this was never going anywhere.
End of date he was forward and asked for a kiss and a hug. Nope.
AND then texted me all night long as if we were in a relationship!!! Had to block him on everything.
Now another first date, the man was sweet. Nice first date. We laughed etc. But by end of date we both said there's no chemistry here but boy we could be best friends.
That's been a few years ago now. I'm in great relationship with a great guy and I'm soo happy. 😊

[paulahaller]

A bartender actually saved me on a first date by showing me the true nature of my date.

My original perspective of what happened:
Date took me to a bar he was familiar with. The bartender filled my date's drink a bit too full and when giving it to him, a small amount spilled on date's hand.
My date blew up.
I attempted to calm him down telling him it was an accident but he was so arrogant and accusing the bartender of doing it on purpose.

We left shortly after and date was horrific to the bartender even as we were leaving, all the while the bartender was looking at me in a very calm manner.

I was young, 19, but it all struck me as odd. I ended the date a bit later and declined further dates even though the man was clearly wealthy.

Found out much later the source of his wealth was illegal activities on the side of his legal business ventures. He drugged women that were naive and had no relatives near and entrapped them into prostitution.

I realized that bartender suspected or was familiar with this.

I now wish I had gone back and thanked him.

[tjj]

I went out with a guy who was extremely rude to a flight Attendant and called her a B and I never went out with him again. He came from a wealthy family too.

[marionandrews]

This was excellent! I think people, particularly women, feel like they need to figure out how to fix men instead of just realizing “this person is not what I want fundamentally”. This especially happens when we find a man that checks are boxes for looks, profession, financial status, etc. I’ve seen men do what I call the hard sell on dates, ie. “I have my own business, I make ___ amount of money, etc.”. I think that’s such a turn off. I’ve also experienced the guy who lists all his requirements for a woman…an even bigger turn off.

[jammiedodge]

Thank you Matt!! I actually can't say I get asked out at all on dates anymore but than again I feel I've been attracting the wrong men once again. I'm sick and tired of repeating the circus circle and I'm gonna in a sense stalk your post this morning and cram as much knowledge in my head as possible. Just want to say thank you very much for your help and advice. It's time I change my life and become the woman I used to be before I became a survivor of domestic abuse many times over. No more settling it's time to get real have fun and find my forever man!!! God bless

[lindacox]

I don’t understand why men give you BS after the first date about calling you and getting together again but then ghost you. Why can’t they be honest? Just end it by saying it was great to meet you and leave it at that!

[merrywalsh]

The #1 thing that I have experienced with guys is the dateview. I am older, and I just wait for those questions, because they come every time. Why aren’t you with someone already, followed by, how many times have you been married. The other inevitable one: do you like to cook? Let’s just say, I do not overshare, and I am not interviewing for the job of cooking.
#2 Expecting a kiss on the first date. It’s like, I paid for dinner, this better lead to intimacy. Nope.
#3 talking about themselves and not trying to get to know me. You might be nervous, but if you don’t show more interest on date 2, I’m out.

[angiesaoud]

Lift others up.
Don't complain.. Say good or stay silent.
Focus on how you feel and if YOU are having a good time. Be present.
If they compliment you, say thank you.. Accept it.
Keep it light.. Don't ask too mush.. Don't share too much..
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