7 Signs Someone is TOO Into You (Limerence)

Are you wondering if someone's affection for you might be crossing into the territory of obsession? In this video, we delve into the fascinating world of limerence, a state of obsessive love that can often go unnoticed. From the early stages to full-blown infatuation, we explore the seven key signs that someone might be just a bit too into you. Whether you're navigating the dating scene or already in a relationship, understanding limerence can shed light on those intense emotions.

#limerence #love #relationship #dating

Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon
Animator: Amy Arendolff
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References:

[Psychgo]

What are your thoughts on Amy's animation? This is 2nd time working with us! Please provide honest feedback!

[M_Uchiha]

1. Constant Contact
2. Physical Clinginess
3. Grand Gestures
4. Idealizing You
5. Loss of Identity
6. Can't take no for an answer
7. Extreme Jealousy

[skyworld]

Someone who can’t take no for an answer is one of the biggest red flags

[TheNurray]

Not me watching this just to find out that I'm "the bad guy" 🥲

Thought I'm trying my best not to be like this, but low self-esteem makes people do desperate things sometimes 🥲 And that's the learning curve.

[wangcheng]

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

[ressab.]

“And to any one on the other end experiencing limerence, maybe it’s time to stop seeing love where there is none and move on to find real happiness and real love”. PERIOD. That’s a bar 🔥🙌🏽

[Psychgo]

In Psychology, limerence is a state of involuntary intense romantic desire for another person. Did you know Limerence is similar to love in some ways, but it's not quite the same.

[ElPaume]

Happened to me for 2 years. This girl had a crush on me and at first, I thought that it was just a small crush and she'll get over it after she tried finding ways to talk to me or randomly popping up where I was. After a while, anyone would notice. I thought she'd give up when I displayed absolutely zero interest in her but it got worse. It got to the point of her lying about us being in a relationship and telling people that *I'm* the one whose infatuated with her and that I only see her despite us barely ever talking. One girl even noticed this and asked her then why have I not looked or even talked to her to which she kept quiet. People who dream of having someone whose obsessed with them shouldn't. The person is obsessed with the image they have of you. This girl even once claimed to her friends that I had some sort of abilities. Yes, I mean superpowers. How? I'll never know. If communication doesn't work, ignore them, seek help from friends, talk to a guardian or a trustworthy adult. If all else fails, consider reporting it to officials. Honestly glad my case wasn't those ones where the person stalks or kidnaps you. Won't dive any further into detail just in case she finds this

[_skills]

it’s surprising how quickly I clicked on this video when I’m well aware that I’ll be single for life

(HOLY SHIT, MY CRUSH ASKED ME OUT THE DAY AFTER COMMENTING THIS !)

[Pizzathing]

I was scared of being like this but then I realised, that the difference between a obsessed person and a person who truld loves you is that a person who is obsessed only cares about them and that they have you, meanwhile a person who loves you truly, wants you to be happy, and if you are in a relationship or ended a realtionship they keep a respectful distance and make sure that they dint cross bounderies

[asexualpanic_]

I feel like everyone has experienced or have done this at some point in their lives.

[thelordcommander]

My limerance-antics came from my attachment wounds. I have c-PTSD and recovering. I was very exhausting to be around with and it also took a strain on me because I was desperately searching for a safe home and love outside of myself, especially from emotional unavailable people. It felt like an addiction and I believe I was addicted to my own stresshormones without realizing it. Now I am single for about two years now and I have to say: I like myself more.

[amyj.]

I'm guilty of limerance, I can own it out loud

[郝宝妍]

1. 0:47 constant contact
2. 1:09 physical clinginess
3. 1:37 Grand gestures
4. 2:13 Idealizing you
5. 2:38 Loss of identity
6. 3:04 can't take no for an answer
7. 3:32 extreme jealousy

Hope this helped!

[M_Uchiha]

Watching this to see if I'm too obsessed with my boyfriend haha

[BookFreakyTube]

This vid made it clearer and easier to identify behaviours of limerance than most 40 min long videos I've seen in this website.

[AC-nigt]

Ah. That will explain my one dating experience in university. I had one person who was that way and... to put it simply: I was terrified.

[ThunderDawg]

I was watching your videos yesterday and I cried so hard. I feel like a failure for not getting my ideal grades and I’m afraid I would not have a bright future.
I always wonder what went wrong with my life.
That was the first time in a while I cried so hard, and so much.
Thank you Psych2go for making me realise there is hope.

[SuperAngel]

I don't know if the comment I made a few videos ago is what inspired this video to be made but either way I'm glad that you shed light into this topic.
A lot of people should know about Limerence and how it's different from real love, thank you for the great video! :D

[jeisonaguilar]

I just find out that I was limering so hard, almost every sign. Damm 💀💀