7 Signs Someone is Too Immature For You

Are you in a relationship with someone who might be immature? In order for two people to be able to have a strong and healthy relationship, there needs to maturity. The level of maturity that partners have can make or break relationships. In this video, we'll be providing the signs to help you identify whether someone is too immature for you. Perhaps, you might find yourself being the less mature partner, but that's where you can learn your weak areas and grow.

Note: We would like to mention that this is meant for educational purposes only and not at all intended to attack or criticize anyone who may be displaying these signs.

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Credits:
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script editor: Rida Batool
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Sam Rain
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

Rate your maturity level from sponge bob to pizza below.

[nehameena]

8. When you're trying to explain yourself but they think you're arguing with them😐

[Skorpia]

AGE DOESNT DEFINE MATURITY. ive seen men at 50 acting like children and 17 year olds handling heavy responcibilities with grace .

[AndresAlonsoPerez]

Summary of the 7 signs:
1. They act on their emotions
2. They take everything personally
3. They lack self-awareness
4. They blame other people for their problems
5. They always have to have their way
6. They act passive-aggressive
7. They are overly possessive

[amelia.h]

I was in a past relationship where I was the immature one, and it ruined our relationship (partly), he taught me to be more mature by showing me my wrong behaviors and finally I was ready and mature enough for a relationship only after we ended our relationship. I feel so sorry for my ex for having to put up with me, but I am thankful and know that I was not the only one who had flaws. I am proud of myself that I grew and now found a healthy relationship with someone as mature as I am and its a perfect match.

[brittanyhernandez]

Signs someone is too immature for you
1. They feel attacked by this video

[jiajingzhang]

Not only for dating, these kinds of emotionally immature friends are toxic too

[jnikz]

Just ended my 8.5 years relationship and never felt so relieved in my life. She kept saying that I was immature but in the end, it was her all along. Walking on eggshells was on point. I used to think twice before I speak because she got hurt so easily over little things. Then she gets mad for not telling the truth and say whatever is on my mind. She gives me silent treatment all the time and when I try to talk to her, she said that I should know already like I’m a mindreader. I avoided my friends just to make her felt secure. I gained 60lbs so she wont get jealous of other girls looking at me. Now I will find someone who would truly appreciate me for who I am.

[fatimah]

This goes for friends too. I had a friend who definitely had more than a few traits from this list. She is five years older than me so yeah, like a lot of people are saying in the comments, emotional maturity is not at all defined by age. I do still miss her because she was really nice and fun to talk to, and she was really great in a lot of other ways. But her immaturity made it so hard and I did feel like I was always walking on eggshells around her.

[beryl.pretorius]

1. They act on their emotions.
2. They take everything personally.
3. They lack self-awareness.
4. They blame other people for their problems.
5. They always have to have their way.
6. They act passive-aggressive.
7. They are overly possessive.

[trishauntaylor]

When you realize that you were the immature one 😓

[teacherfromthejungles]

There's also one critical red flag of immaturity: often change of partners after a short period of dating. It means the person is only capable of the 1st stage of romantic relationships, but isn't capable to move to the next stages where you have to take responsibility and do something beside dancing and eating in a cafe.

[MrBern-exwq]

Never forget that this can apply to ALL relationships and bonds of confidence, not just romantic partners. Friends and family can exhibit this too.

[MrJoon]

A reminder for everyone, including myself: maturity is not measured by your age, it's measured by your experiences and your willingness to grow from them.

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes.”
― Roy T. Bennett

[lillyplayz]

Words can’t describe how much better this made me feel about myself, thank you🙏🏼❤️

[IkarusSteora]

Your videos have really opened my eyes to just how unhealthy the relationship I left truly was. I thought I was going crazy, or just making things up or misremembering behaviors and events wrong... that it was all my fault. I'm finally able to put things into perspective now so I can start to heal. Thank you so, so much. ♥

[chryzz]

Breaking up with someone with all this traits has got to be the smartest, most relieving decision I've ever done in my life.

[harshitakesarkar]

I was like this 2yrs ago. The fact that I understood those signes and I'm still learning to improve me 🙂❤️ thanks for it I'm saving this RN!!

[johnnyhearldonrocks]

Every point is absolutely spot on in my last two experiences 😂 if only I would of seen the signs back then eh? We live and learn 😉👍