7 Signs Someone Secretly Hates You

Do you suspect someone may secretly hate you? It's hard to tell when they are hating you in secret because they may try their best to act like they don't hate you. When pure instincts fail us, it’s time we use our psychological knowledge and examine the universal language that is - body language. To help you answer that question, we've made this video to discuss the signs someone may secretly hate you!

Writer: Michal Mitchel
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Grace Cárdenas Cano
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

[Psychgo]

Disclaimer: Some of these signs can apply to introverts, people with social anxiety, or are a little withdrawn as well. The key is if the person in question only shows these signs to you and not other people, then maybe they secretly dislike you.

[robeyhines]

I never seek to hate anyone. But I hate someone having an issue with me and not even telling me what their problem is with me. It can be immature on their part, especially when in a professional setting. Most people have to work with someone they don’t like. It’s part of being an adult.

[hutao]

1. Their body language is not open
2. They avoid eye contact with you
3. Intense eye contact
4. Their conversations with you seem fake
5. They don't mimic. Instead, they reflect the opposite of your body language
6. They are to the point, and don't tend to talk further
7. They don't get in touch, or stay in touch

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[rayan]

"Everyone is a bad person in someone's story."

[sbr.]

"If they hate you, they don't deserve you" I can agree with you on that ❤

[UglyDucky-dfxw]

I didn’t need this I already know that everyone hates me

[shadowfluf]

Honestly, I can be that person to nod along with conversations, but that's just me not knowing what to say 😅

[DB]

I feel like I do all of these things in social situations where I don't feel confident or comfortable... Not to say I dislike the other person, but I'm worried they dont like me so I act closed off. I was rejected a lot in my life so it's a way to protect myself... Social anxiety is fun.

[Konpeko-cjpc]

It hurts me more when people do these subtle things than just telling me straight to my face that they hate me.

[PlanetPsych]

“ A healthy mind does not speak ill off others”

...But bottling up emotions isn’t too good either I guess...

[lorettaborcherding]

I had a coworker that did all this stuff. The herder I tried the "kill em with kindness approach" the more she hated me. It got to a point that I would dread work when I knew she was on the schedule. I would go to a different space to do my work cause I knew she was gonna be pissed that I blinked my eyes or breathed the same air as her.

[LusciousBlackQueen]

Never understood why they hate me. Tried to be nice to them but it would seem like they would still find something to hate or/& upset w/me about. Well thank you for this video. Can't control others, you can only control your self.

[bipbeedippy]

I don't even need to watch the video to know people hate me.

[julianneferguson]

I know for a fact someone secretly hates me... I swear! Everyone thinks she’s the sweetest person but she always subtly put me down. Only me and my mom has noticed that, but she has legit made me cry before. Of course I don’t tell anyone (other than my parents because they know literally everything about me) Because I don’t want people to get involved and or dislike her. I’m just glad we don’t go to the same high school.

[froakie]

i hate eye contact with anybody, also people think that i hate them when in reality i dont like being touched, i hate hugs, i hate being latted on the back, i hate being kissed, i hate being touched on the shoulder, i hate people touching my hair

[frzqxn]

i avoid eye contact because it’s like when you look around you accidentally look at someone else and then they look at you and then it gets rly awkward

[caroline-jznp]

I already know someone hates me, you don’t gotta remind me

[saikikusuo]

Because of you, I feel like I have a little bit of self control of my thoughts and feelings. Thank you!

[ah]

So those were the signs that my family hated me! Now I know thank you!

[goots]

I secretly hate all of my classmate FR.
I don't know why actually.
I think it's because they are REALLY annoying