4 Things a Narcissist NEVER Gets Over

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Narcissists are incredibly insecure people, and these 4 things are the key things that keep them feeling that way. By understanding these concepts, you can start to heal the damage that has been done to you.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
02:29 2. Losing control over you & not being able to use you again
09:23 The conclusion

[Eric_Young]

What’s even more sad, is dealing with a narcissist for the first time and not knowing it. You realize something isn’t right, but you just can’t put your finger on it.

[nichellenunya]

1) hating you for exposing them. 2) losing control over you and not able to use you 3) loss of supply 4) not understanding how you didn’t see how great they are

[karenolson]

It makes me sad to think that other people have been tormented by a narcissist the way I have been.

[saddamdontsurf]

Its impossible to describe being abused by a narcissist, without sounding like a narcissist .

[LP-jntw]

Amazing how narc parents dedicate their lives to making their scapegoat children feel worthless without them. What a joy to get clarity and the freedom it can bring.

[Emily_Paris]

I’m an empath and codependent who attracts toxic people. I’m so glad I will never be in a relationship again. I’ve been through so much. Freedom is good.

[lindarosebuchanan]

The healing has begun. When I listen to this channel, I feel seen and heard. This is a powerful healing and strengthening experience. I am most grateful.

[laurelwarner]

My mother is a narcissist. I went gray rock and I watched her crumble. She lacked her narcissistic supply and she was so mad that I figured her out and shattered her false image. I can relate to loving a parent so much that the mere existence of living without them is unbearable. Who would've thought that one person I thought I couldn't live without is the one person I'm better off living away from. Thank you for this video.

[paulaplanslife]

I Left a narcissistic relationship after 30 years. Took me that long to figure it out. I'm sure that was a blow to them. I went cold turkey. They've got to know the real reason I left!

[norcal]

If narcissists could be made of stone, they probably would. They never change even when the world all around them is constantly moving in bright and new directions. 😢😱

[mauiskater]

So after 23 years with narcissistic husband I’m going to file for separation. For me it’s the first step
I told him how devastated I am by this. I feel like the last 23 have all been a lie. He literally had no reaction. Feels NOTHING. And I think he may have a gay side as well. I’m not going to delve deeper into that because it’s just too much to deal with.
Left my father last year and now my husband. My sister as well. I am proud though because I’ve raised 2 amazing young men age 18 and 13. I’ve broke the cycle with my kids and now I’ll be the FIRST woman in my family history in the last 150 years of abuse to actually stand up and change it! My great grandmother killed herself or was killed by my great grandfather. He disappeared her until I found her grave a couple of years ago. I’m terrified. I’m 56 years old. It’s taken me 40 years to get to this point. THIS channel is what has given me the knowledge I need to continue toward freedom.

[michaelgpartridge]

“You should be struggling...”
My god, this is so real and so chilling. These people are complete cowards who want you dead. Pure and simple, they hate themselves and cannot love anything. I am so sorry you share the same family type, Bashir, but I appreciate your position tremendously - parents who wish for your pain and stagnation are utter destroyers, evil incarnate. Pray for them - at a distance!!! Thanks for your terrific content!

[sanjmalik]

Its hard having one narcissistic parent as ive seen the ex husband literally destroy our children with his meaness, cruelty and literally not caring at all. I cant imagine what it must be like for you Danish having two narc parents. I am so sorry and hope you have found peace finally.❤

[felicitybywater]

I carefully concealed my preparations to run away from home as a teenager and, when I had somewhere to live, I took the first opportunity I had to grab my suitcase and go. I have never regretted it and I know my narcissist father never got over it. I had convinced him that I was too depressed to reach escape velocity and all that time I was just waiting for a launch window.

[Earthoceanfire]

The sunflower 🌻 example was well worded.

[lh]

This video made me think of something my mother said to me when I was newly married. When I asked about getting together with her and dad, she made a comment to me about how shouldn’t I be spending time with my family instead? It was an unnecessary dig to which I replied “aren’t you my family?” She muttered, “I guess so…” Instead of being direct about feelings, passive-aggressive comments became the norm. It was clear to me that she was feeling replaced, but the more I’m learning about narcissism, it was more about loss of supply. Incidentally, I ended up marrying a narcissistic psychopath, which was well masked at the time. We’ve since divorced. Being an empath, narcissists are drawn to me like moths to a flame. As I’ve aged, I’ve learned the importance of boundaries and no longer feel badly about enforcing them.

[kerrym]

When my twin lost access to hurting me…she started ramping up hurting others. All my life I never understood how she could be so intensely cruel and then act like she never hurt me. Bizarre behavior and I’ve only just figured out who she is. We are now in our 50s. This is very real and it is not just partners / spouses. They’re in families and they will lie, cheat and steal and laugh at you as they do. Evil.

[yamiletvazquez]

Growing up with a narcissistic mother who in turn raised my brother to be a narcissist I grew up in that household and I didn’t even know how lost how broken how unprepared for the world I was. No contact!! Once I finally realized it I was done! Now to get my sister out of the cycle it’s starting to affect her health.

[ericlondon]

I was a witness to a narcissist multi-millionaire losing it all. Literally, he became homeless.
He ended up in prison a month after he was in the gutter.

[Thandiwe.]

There is so much power in learning about narcs tactics. What I have learned ( over a lifetime of pain) is that they have weak egos and live for external sources of admiration to feed their empty shells. And they hate anyone who values themselves ( just as a human being). I have learned to pity narcs and never try to educate or fix them. It’s about educating myself, and healing, and treating myself with dignity .