How you Speak to Yourself MATTERS | @shadezahrai #shorts

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Your self-talk can either empower you and contribute to feeling motivated to achieving goals, OR it can undermine your confidence and reinforce self-doubt. ⁣

Here are two patterns to cognitively reframe to increase your chances of success:⁣

1️⃣ Avoid language reflecting obligation: Language of “have to…” and “should…” imply obligation. Change to “choose to”, “get to” or “want to.”⁣

2️⃣ Have a Zero-tolerance policy for self-criticism: Negative and self-defeatist self-talk can detrimentally impact performance and reduce your confidence. Shift to more affirming inner language instead.⁣

Changing what you tell yourself changes how you feel, which impacts how you show up and what you achieve.⁣



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Hi Shadè I'm a psychologist and I want to say thank you for using research and psychological science to support your points!!! 😀👍

gurjeetbara
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I love your vocals. The words you say are wisdom, but the way you say is magic!!

hemajha
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How you speak to yourself is one of the most important things in determining your success. Your inner dialogue is a mirror of your outer reality. If you're constantly putting yourself down, you'll find that you're not very successful. But if you treat yourself with respect and kindness, you'll be much more likely to achieve your goals.

It's important to start by building a positive relationship with yourself. Be gentle and forgiving, and give yourself credit for every accomplishment, no matter how small. When you make a mistake, learn from it and move on. Remember that you are capable of anything as long as you put your mind to it. And most importantly, don't be afraid to dream big! Shoot for the stars.

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You’re your own best cheerleader!
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AvecBella
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Thank you so much for such great insights!

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I'll definitely do that. Thankyou.

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Thank you Ms. Shadé. I learned a lot from you. You are a Blessing. Stay safe and more power to you. Sending love a trucker from Saudi Arabia.

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Sharing this with my daughter! Love your hair btw

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Hi shade! Firstly u had excellent vocals.
Whether above words like choose to would work while speaking to team members or colleagues.

vamshikrish
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Shade' you always encourage me to go through hardships and not to surrender! This world is not as bad because nice people like you are still around here ❤🌹

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your content is very helpful & supportive & i love your way of storytelling🥰🥰🥰🥰

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This has knocked me for six our words are so powerful thanks for sharing these tips they are a life saver.

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So amazing and uplifting Shade
Thank you for keeping us informed with positive daily vibrations for our highest performance 😊

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🎯💎🏆 Great insightful & fruitful video 🏆💎🎯

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I'm glad someone's speaking about this. I thought I was the only crazy one talking to myself.

paramthakkar
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Thank you for your content shade! Its great having you on the team!!!

FortuneCreations
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Some really good advice here, and especially the part about choosing words which make out your tasks to be opportunities rather than obstacles.

randomz
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Articulated perfectly. And it is so true.

Paulman.K
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Absolutely true & beautifully expressed as usual❤❤❤❤❤

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These videos lift me up specially when I’m in a slump. Thank you your advice is well needed!!

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