HOW TO: BUILD CONFIDENCE & SELF ESTEEM | KNOW YOUR WORTH & LOVE YOURSELF | TRINDINGTOPIC

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Hey girl! In this video, I’ll be sharing 5 tips on how to build confidence and self-esteem. Hopefully these tips change your life, because that’s exactly what they did for me years ago. It’s time to know your worth & love yourself, unconditionally ❤️ Let me know how you guys enjoy this video & dont forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE! 🫶🏾

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TIME STAMPS
00:00 intro
03:18 stop comparing
09:47 stop worrying about opinions
12:10 spend time alone
15:27 invest in your appearance
18:20 fake it til you make it

[jheanellestylish]

Great video. What self - help books do you recommend?

[EmaniYasmin]

One affirmation I always tell myself “another girls beauty is not a absence of mine “ 💕

[kzincognito]

-don’t compare yourself to others
-no one can be the exact same embrace who you are
-if you can look at other people in high regard LOOK AT YOURSELF IN HIGH REGARD if you can compliment and admire other people COMPLIMENT AND ADMIRE YOURSELF
-notice the greatness in you
-life isn’t a competition there isn’t a prize for being the prettiest so who cares
- beating yourself up won’t change or do anything just embrace yourself
-there’s always going to be someone “better” in SOMEONES EYES it’s all objective someone may think your the prettiest
-you don’t have to be the best in everything just be your best
- hating yourself is a waste of life 🤷🏽‍♀️
-God created you the way he wanted you to
- train yourself to think this way that your beauty and perfect the way you are
-people think what they wanna think 🤷🏽‍♀️ don’t focus so much on it if you like yourself then your fine who cares
-don’t put emphasis or focus on things you don’t like about yourself and watch the insecurity fade away
-if your focused on what other people got your never going to live up to your full potential
-be confident regardless of who you’re surrounded by
-stop worrying about other peoples opinion whether they like you think your pretty etc etc
-worrying about other peoples opinion is pointless you can’t control peoples thoughts
-opinions are just opinions not facts they’re so subjective that there’s no point basing your life around it
-don’t put your value or self worth into other peoples hand !
-form a strong opinion about yourself that your pretty whatever etc so strong that other people’s opinion don’t affect you
-how do YOU feel about yourself what if you never had validation youd only have your own opinion on you
-if you think your pretty you pretty if you like yourself that’s enough
-learn how to validate yourself
-learn more about yourself yo know yourself
- do what pleases you not what pleases other people
-push yourself out your comfort zone and try new things
-be your own individual
-take pride in your appearance
-when you look good you feel good
-don’t look good for other people but do it for yourself
-invest in your appearance
-wear what you feel comfortable in regardless of your body
-fake it until you make it
-it’s not gonna happen overnight you have to practice being confident
-take note of what makes confident people look confident and practice it
-affirm to yourself your confident and that girl
- speak affirmations to yourself
-speak it into existence for it to happen
-tell yourself your beautiful and confident till you believe it
-walk into the room like you won’t the room

(thanks for the vidoes i like taking notes to look back)

[tatianadavila]

“ Speak what you seek, until you see what you said”. Just a whole word. Thank you, sis. ❤

[SimplyTatiyana]

“Hating yourself is like a slap in God’s face” yikes ! I’m subbing
Sooo relatable and right on time for me thank you queen

[MISS.RUTHNIE]

“ somebody got to love you why can’t it be you “ words of God

[aracelismith]

My confidence comes from my relationship with The Most High🙏❤

[theresabennett]

Blessings! I am tall, skinny, long face, and flat behind. I wake up everyday and Thank God for life! I am healthy, hard working, God fearing, respectful, caring, well read and very confident. I know I am beautiful. People opinion do not matter. God love's me.. Be blessed Queen. God bless you. Listener's please know you are a Ten!🙏🙏

[xotwod]

My biggest self esteem issue is having pictures taken, we live in such a technology reliant world it’s so hard for me to go a day without worrying how I look inverted or all the “what if somebody takes a picture of me” thoughts 24/7 😒 I love my mirror self but camera me is another story

[locstarkg]

i needed this. i’m 19 and i was always the girl that stood in the back and felt left out. i always compared myself to others. i’m gradually becoming better at gaining confidence 💕.

[jadaso.grg]

This is beautiful. As a black teenage girl, this video is VERY relatable!

[vanessacote]

Hating yourself is like hating gods work hit me so hard! Thank you for that! Totally motivated me today! Thank you for this video!

[yamelkis]

Soon as I heard God was mentioned I was sold😩 thank you love❤

[LadyALCO]

I swear Im bouta start a self love playlist with your videos & listen to it everyday until it's stuck in my head. Thats the hardest part about healing, is being patient and consistent with the process. You are so real and relatable. Can always listen to your entire video! You are so gifted and beautiful❤

[laurynn]

I’m 24! This video just spoke life to me ❤️ we locked in for sure.

[breadwinner]

This was good, esp for people of color. We are not in competition & when we realize this we will love & respect each other more. We need that ❤️

[jasminejenkins]

Its so crazy how we don't see our beauty. All I see is beauty when I look at you, it literally makes me want to cry because I do the breakdown to myself, but from a plus size perspective. I wonder if other people see beauty when they look at me. I am trying to learn to love myself. Thank you so much for this video and your honesty. You are absolutely beautiful I hope you know and feel that always.

[KayKaysWRLD]

im 15 and i always struggle with confidence and when you said the stuff about changing yourself to fit what others like. THAT WAS SO REAL. like i genuenly would change how i dress or look or act so i can hang out with a specific friend group, or i would dress a certain way to get someones attention.. ALSO THE VALIDATION THING OH MY GASH. like its so hard for me to feel pretty in myself and i always ask how someone else thinks i look especially when theres another person to compare myself to. i understand that i need to fix it and i know these are problems but its so hard finding what to do to actually fix these things. so thankyou so much!!!

[cutie]

I’ve watched two videos… and girl I appreciate you for being real and supportive. It’s hard to find a young black woman on this platform who speaks facts and give solutions

[vikm]

This happens to me as a latina. I was always comparing myself. Especially because I grew up in a mostly white area so I thought that was the beauty standard and it was like hating my race. But then I moved to LA area. And the pressure to look here a certain way has gotten to me. I needed to hear this. Thanks.