how to build REAL confidence: self-worth tips, magnetic confidence, beat insecurities and glow up!💖

This is how you ACTUALLY become confident. On my confidence journey, I have had the craziest self transformation. I literally went from introvert to extrovert and camera shy to model! I'm so passionate about helping you achieve your highest level of self-confidence so I've outlined 7 in-depth strategies on how you can become your best, most SECURE self! say goodbye to insecurity and hello to being THAT GIRL 😚

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📄 ABOUT ME:
My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

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FAQ:
Filming equipment: Canon g7xii

[tamkaur]

Apologies for speaking so fast in this video! I got way too excited 🤣 I appreciate your feedback tho! Watch it in 0.75x speed if you need 💓

[vineetaagarwal]

It hit me hard when she said, " When you think others are judging you, it's actually you judging yourself. "

[swanne.]

I had a glow up at 24, but still it is hard to be confident after feeling an outcast for so long. It definitely requires consistent effort.

[morkmeinyourheart]

one thing that helps: DO BETTER. eat healthy. drink water. take vitamins. work out for health. go out. take a walk. sunbath. start fixing things internally and you will feel better and you will gain confidence from the inside. when you feel satisfied with yourself, it will be easier to be confident and go out, make new friends.

it is NOT that easy esp when you have depression LMAOOOO (me) but starting this year, i really put effort because im just sick of being depressed for a long long long time and im just sick and done and i want to live life. AND IM LIVING LIFEEEE

[blzywilson]

1:29 external vs internal
2:52 The truth about affirmations
5:20 your proof portfolio
7:09 embarrassment is a choice
9:53 be authentic
15:22 confidence=real self love
17:27 meet your younger self

[MjayBaby]

When I speak those beautiful affirmations to myself I also say “I believe every word I just said to myself, amen.” It helps me sleep @ night 🤣💖

[Milaa]

As an insecure 15 year old who does ALL the things you mentioned in your "before", this is SO SO INSPIRING. With this one video u have literally revived my confidence and given me a new sense of self. I CANNOT THANK U ENOUGH. "When you think others are judging you, it's actually you judging yourself" and "embarrassment is just fear" hit me the most. I needed this video much. I literally can't thank u enough for uploading this!! You have a new very passionate (and newly confident) subscriber!!!

[ellacaulfield]

Confidence:

1 - trust your own opinion
2 - build a portfolio of proof for yourself (choose things that I think will make me confident that are aligned with my goals)
3 - stop judging yourself (have a conversation with myself to be kinder)

[_youdontnomi_]

I used to be so incredibly shy and lacked self confidence and even though I’m still on this journey and consistently growing/learning, I’ve come so far. My younger self would be so incredibly proud. I wish the best for everyone’s self love/self confidence journey 💝

[adeliaforte]

This year I'm really focused on my glow up. Tired of not doing what I really want bc I feel insecure and put others' opinions first. Thank u beauty <3

[IrzaArias]

My jaw dropped when you said you are 22 years old omg wow, I’m 22 too. I love seeing a beautiful woman embracing her roots, herself, and with an abundant mindset. Currently I’m heavily working on myself and definitely took a lot from this video alone. I so resonated and it really put things in a different perspective. May I add that this is my first video of yours that I’ve watched!! Thank you so much, you’re going big places beauty✨🫶

[chloefreestyles]

disconnecting from unsupportive people (including family) helps with your confidence too
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[barraquinhadepa]

usually I get an ick from videos about self confidence, but this video feels so different from other "self confidence influencers" videos. like, there's so much honesty, she speaks like she truly understands that it's so easy and so difficult at the same time to love yourself and be confident (bc she does!)

[dagorad]

16:14 I never thought of it this way, I’m very attached to academic validation and place all my worth on how I’m doing. Any time I get a bad grade I find myself not being able to make eye contact, not wanting to make conversation, having bad posture and overall hating my life. That comment was really enlightening, thank you

[juliak]

Aw the younger self one made me cry cause she was so cute and had such big dreams and now I'm pursuing them! My younger self is such a fan of me! ❤️

[MoyinoluwaLaoye]

Normally I don't like to reply to videos because I think of what people will say or how they'll react but I'm stepping out of my comfort zone and doing this right now

[anniegrace]

Her voice is a booster its a burst of gratitude and positive

[estephanelia]

i think alot of us the problem isn't lack of confidence it's lack of humility. same difference but we have to just be aware of the duality. if we're too confident in one situation or dynamic, it leaves room for us to lack confidence in another and vice versa, of course. balance is the key. ⚖️

[roselinelee]

"It's better to be me, than to be liked by everyone"

[fouziapasha]

I used to feel so anxious whenever I had to go outside to get something I used to beg others to come along, now it's not even a second thought most of the times. I remember feeling so insecure with the way I looked or the clothes I wore that I couldn't bear to interact much with others. Seeing your video made me realise who far I have come. Thank you so much Tam. Love you ❤️