Is Narcissistic Abuse Real? #narcissist

[Loretta]

Absolutely 💯
My ex husband was an angel around other people, but behind closed doors, he was a evil monster, and people thought I was crazy

[dzpiwit]

I didn't realize narcissists are everywhere until I became the victim of a smear campaign. They are so good at hiding behind their masks and appearing normal. And they're usually friends with other narcissists, so they help each other's image of being nice and friendly. One way to tell if they are narcissistic is to see whether they dominate conversations...it's usually about themselves or they're showing off. Also, they tend to be very critical and judgmental of others, as if they are superior and above everyone else. And they always claim to be the victim of someone (their boss, child, parent, spouse, neighbor, etc.).

[thephilosophicalpugilist]

Yup. Financially trapped. If I leave I will be homeless. No family or friends to help.

[KatieW]

Thank you for what you're doing raising awareness. It's hard to recover from because there's very little help and understanding.

[oliviamiller]

That’s my story exactly. I tried everything to make a good life for us. I started giving up and settling for a tolerable life for the children’s sake. That deteriorated too. Narcissists never find a place of equilibrium and they poison every scrap of happiness.

[franvillarreal]

I wanted to leave the narc when I was pregnant with our only child....he prevented me physically from leaving that time. Afterwards a few years later, he shoved me, out the door and I became homeless. Before that he made sure I didn't have money, a job, a home.( I owned a home in another state but couldn't go to it because he had a tenant and a contract, he managed my rental home and financially devastated me, ruined me, as he was in charge of my rental house and the bank repossessed it eventually thanks to him. He told me later he made sure he got rid of my house because I wouldn't leave him if I didn't have somewhere to go. The narcs plan, always plan to steal, destroy and kill you if you dare to go against them, they will do anything to you, even unlive you.

[MintyOreosx]

I’m scared of relationships now and scared how they will turn out to be when you get trapped whenever it’s too late whenever it shows up without you knowing even tho you thought you knew the person.. that worries me. I just want to be actually loved and at peace not no difficult arguing I want a 50/50 relationship someone who can listen and vent and be yourself and joke around and laugh and spend memories together and be in a relationship with for the rest of your life with that 1 and only 1 person… it seems rare to find that… mental positivity matters it’s what helps people love again and not be afraid but it won’t be easy.. I wish I had someone to actually talk to someone who’s actually good and not fake or who will do you dirty

[zoespiteri]

That's the fact isn't it. They've found loopholes in everyone's life that makes them tick so they can be used. I wonder what the real numbers are.

[daljitvirdi]

This is true facts 💯. Forcefully making a marriage has been dead for long time...In time the love also dies for the person... Your only their because of the kids and finance's....I totally disagree with society saying stay together even if it's TOXIC!! 😊💖🙏.

[lindalou]

Yep
My truth
Everyone knows his true colours and still has enablers in both families.

Scapegoat still lol
❤😂🎉

Was alone in trapped situation.

Same outcome
Unbelievable

[AnaM.F]

I am a survivor almost loose everything, almost living homelessness after 16 years living with a malignant narcopath.

[gingerspice]

I just realized the past year my mother is a narcissist and it all started with how I was allowing myself to be treated at a job and then getting close to one as a “friend” then couple narc friends later and my mother divorcing my dad and treating me horribly where I realized how much of the abuse I normalized and breaking through the narrative that she tried to paint me as and seeing her for who she is hurt so bad but I know now that being around them makes me physically ill and I’ve never been happier to enjoy life with my partner and his parents. Now wish me luck as I separate from an investment she tied me too.

[sherriolson]

Thank you for this wonderfully clear amd absolutely true message.

[constancejenkins]

That is CORRECT.. I was a Married SINGLE MOTHER 🙃🙂😔🥺😭😱 and my children's father Is a Pastor

[peacebewithyou]

Excactly!!!!
Afraid because of my child 😢

[VICTORIOUSINCHRIST-buog]

SPOT ON. TONIGHT HE TRIED TO HIT ME IN THE. HEAD WITH A HAMMER.

[achlorophyll]

Right on. Thanks for validating what’s happened in my parents and now my own house. It’s so very important that they are being exposed so our society can spot them and stop this horrible cycle in families.

[AlmaWells]

I'm a victim, and the corrupt judge at Family Court in San Jose, California has declared me as the aggressor. 😢 I complain to our Almighty Creator daily.😢

[GloriaGonzalez-zzwp]

Minneapolis for any of them I see how people how they are and I'm going to do my best to figure it out and the first day when I see there's something is not right it's time to turn around and walk away thank you DANISH

[JustineSpider]

Agreed their three narcs in my job, 2 covert, 1 overt. You can you usually tell when you converse with them the conversation is all about them self, they never ask real genuine questions about you. Never express your trauma and personal life with no one. I don’t care if it’s a rabbi or priest or imam, Guru. For them they will weaponize it and use it against you. They want to live in your head. Remember peeps they are fear base, the shame voice always in their head. Destiny for them is end up alone.