Narcissists Train You To Be Codependent On Them #narcissistic #narcissism

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[randystephens]

All codependent relationships involve narcissist and or.toxic people. I never knew where all my anxiety came from until several years away from my ex

[izawaniek]

Codependency is lethal, it is destructive to the core. Thank you Michelle.

[oldwhitedude]

They are constantly trying to knock you out your positive frame of mind.

[mzm]

When i finally had the strength to seperate myself from my entire family. Amazing how aniexty, depression and self worth + codependency fell away. Family is drilled in as priority, it isnt if its unhealthy. Im mentally the most healthiest ive ever been since i cut them all off. Life has become so much better 💛

[rgjr.]

Children are easy victims to codependency.

[noelcummins]

Yes.
That's how I feel.
It's horrible. Soul destroying.

[zeinmohamedali]

Manipulation manipulation They are so wicked. Imagine seeing your sibling behaving like her narc partner is the best thing in her life. She said she loved me but has no problem letting him degrade and humilate me

[obetztyranthunter]

I am dealing with this exact thing from my own mother!! And have for years!! I've finally drawn the line!! And refuse to have any type of relationship with her at all until she gets help!!!
I never in my life would have thought my own mother would be my worse enemy!

[Lyrielonwind]

Bravo, Michelle. The best explanation I have heard about co-dependency. ❤

[evolutiondez.]

Its a sick game they play. If they've abused you physically and mentally, cheated on you, lied multiple times and you still stayed?? There's nothing else they can do that will make you end the relationship or marriage and they know this. So they're confident, happy and secure knowing you're not going anywhere. This is a thick cord made of armor and it takes a construction crew to cut ✂️ this cord with God holding the scissors 🙏🙌i stayed for 9 years the abuse escalated 4 years ago he's a minister im a Christian woman who lives to please the Lord. I believed God wanted me to work on our marriage but it was me alone working. I divorced him it took everything I had and he begged me to stay and still believing God's going to restore our marriage even though he continues to lie and emotionally abuse me. How dare I protect myself 😢🙌🙏💔

[janesheridan]

That was awful. Finally, after 2 years NC, one incident was so bad, I finally lost interest. Whew. It caused a full blown relapse of vasculitis and respiratory distress. It was so absolute that now I believe all that stress caused the autoimmune response initially.

[peaceofmindofpeace]

Wow that's what I felt. My heart in limbo...only temporary relaxation.
And when I addressed my confusion he said he felt anxious bc of making me unhappy. This made me feel guilty. He ignored me for days after intimate / close moments.
In the name of busy.
I felt better today but i still have sudden heartaches and he is still in my mind
His last text was 3 weeks ago. I'm stil hoping for his text or call which is idiot but I allow these feelings as a part of processing and detaching.
I go from hurt, feeling humiliated to shame and wondering.

[liresto]

This is right on. I’ve always felt responsible for my own actions but when an NPD works on knowing how to manipulate your every vulnerability for years and years, you become caught in the web. After 50, male and re-married to a wonderful woman I can finally say I feel normal again. I have agency and I don’t have to worry about fighting hard for it. We both want the best for each other in every way! It took blood sweat and tears and a separation/split that was tough.

[lindatallon]

Sounds like the behavior of "cult leaders"....

[TurinTurumba]

The genius of Narcissists are they make U feel like they have all the power, when in reality they need U to believe in the false mask

[ramonabush]

That’s only when you give them power over you. Be your own person and know that you are in a war with them. Stand your ground.

[TurinTurumba]

Co dependence is the absolute worst, so horrible

[parkerschmitt]

Can't post exactly what it was....but it's insane. If they make themselves NEEDED you can't get rid of them and are walking around eggshells.

[jacquelinefroehle]

Dependent on the one abusing you're life. Almost like Dependent on Satan...

[gilliangiles]

Soo Trueee. I was like that. Always wanted to be around him. He said i was too Clingy. Didnt understand then . But i understand now. He never got a chance to discard me. GOD is Good. ❤❤🙏🙏