Why Do Narcissistic Mother Hates Their Daughter? #narcissist

[tzeniblond]

It is a real, very brutal torture to have a narcissistic mother...

[judyyates]

I lived this. I pray for any woman who goes through this. ❤

[anne]

Wow! This is 100% true. She always did this to me. Everyone believed her except for my youngest brother. She even wanted my children to be closer to her than to me. When they were teens she would say to me, “I try to get them to say negative things about you but they just won’t go there.” Who would do such a thing? She always saw me as the competition! Sick. Thank you Danish for your validation.

[gracec]

Yes! And you also get blamed for anything the mother does wrong.

[countrygirlbaker]

❤😂🎉🎉🎉 WOW you just read my whole childhood!!!!😢 yup, I was raised by a survived and am in therepy

[cinnamonrose]

My mother would impulsively cut off my long wavy hair & tell my father it was my idea. He wouldn't speak to me for weeks because my long hair reminded him of his beloved grandma. This went on for years. Always unpredictable from my perspective. 😢 Dad never believed me. Thank you for validating our experiences.

[pa_ernirahmawati]

They can even turn our husbands and children, our nuclear and extended families, our teachers, our friends, our neighbors, and even strangers who she met in a long journey against us. I've been living like this for decades. When I cut her off, she flew into a rage and made me the guilty one.

[true]

My mother used to belittle me in front of GROWN MEN when I was a child. It started before I was even ten years old. She ALWAYS had to have men’s attention even though she’d always tell me “men ain’t shit”

[krisluvsutube]

Danish everything you said here is 100% correct. The pain an NPD mother inflicts is not like anything else. I just love your videos.

[stephanielu]

You summed up my whole life! 🤯 Like wow, I am blown away. My Mom literally did every single one of these things and still tries to as much as possible. I lived in a big family but was always alone and ostracized. My mom blamed everything on me and made everyone in my family believe everything was all my fault. I wasn't able to have a relationship with my dad till after I moved away and here I am at 40 and she still tries to ruin it. My brothers don't talk to me because they still see me as the villain, praise my "perfect" mother and see me as a trouble maker who ruins the family.
Thank you for this video. It helps make sense of things and validates that I'm not crazy. What she did and is doing is real. I'm not crazy

[pepperjonesugoChristian]

These people set up the appearance of this type of problem and cause the child misdirection and profound confusion.

[danieljohnson]

Sick + Warped + Jealous + Evil = *Narcissist* .

[ladywhite]

Even the grand daughter. Experienced this first hand. Worst part colourism in Asian households makes it worst.

[warangel]

Oh my gosh - to hear it verbally … thank you.

[joyphillips]

Many times it is the daughter that tries to wake their father up to her mother's abusive nature.

[fluffytail]

My mother can’t stand my father (they’re still married only because boomers aren’t known to divorce even if they hate each other) but she doesn’t want anyone else to have him either. She once mentioned that she’s “sure” Dad will remarry shortly after she passes. She’s not sick. Many men do remarry shortly after loosing a spouse (men can’t be alone for a minute, especially if their wives have literally done everything for them).

Mother is jealous of me for the high quality men I’ve dated (then married), and has remarked, “how do YOU get such good looking men?” She’s jealous of my home, car, job, free time, geographic location where I live. She criticizes all of that at any opportunity just to create drama.

For example, we could both have EXACTLY the same microwave but somehow HERS would be better, even if I got mine for a cheaper price. It’s exhausting growing up in a house like that.

[nancysayad]

A narc mother make the victim daughter think whether she is her step mother 🤔

[lizh]

A gal gets pushed into the competition and guilted for being there.

[crob]

I was step father, and I wanted to help her daughter grow, well she made sure I won’t even have a little talk with her daughter😢😢

[Lapotadrt]

Resonates and once my father passed away, continued to target me with siblings