The Problem with The Bisexuality Spectrum 💙💜💗

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[lu-zphz]

saw the title and panicked, don’t do that to me bestie

[HarpsiFizz]

We need to talk about ageism in the LGBT community... seriously. One day we will all be old LGBT's. We need to stop the age-shaming, the youth-worship, the "old = bad" mentality. The sooner, the better.
We owe *everything* to the LGBT people who came before us. They went through unimaginable hardship for us. Many of them didn't make it. But we need to get rid of the idea that once you turn (a certain age) you are done.

[dannietea]

Honestly, the best fitting definition I’ve found for my bisexuality is “attraction to my own gender and genders that are not my own”. It feels better to me than others I’ve seen/heard.

[ArdenBW]

As an omni person I’m pretty sure the difference between omni and pan is that pan people are often called gender blind but omni people have preferences in relation to gender

[tahraethestoryteller]

As a bisexual Native American, I applaud you for including the Two Spirit label
Since Indigenous people are ignored in general
But especially when it comes to these discussions

Also I myself am not particularly attracted to gender or sex as much as feminine and masculine qualities (physically, since I don’t believe that personality traits or anything people do are masculine or feminine)
And I must say I’ve always loved the bi pride colors more than any other

[absolutelynotellen]

Talking about bisexuality, until today i still find people who pull a "pick a side" when you stated you like both. It's pretty suffocating for me, because at some point i struggle with never ending internalized bi-phobia.

[carmenmercedes]

Someone told me that "Being bi is an apple, and pan is an orange. They're too different to be classified the same way"
And to that I have to say "No. Being bi is an orange, and pan is a clementine. Very incredibly similar, but different."

(Also, omni people typically have a preference when it comes to gender. Not quite as "Gender blind" as pan)

[bxnnies]

I have a bi friend (ima a straight ally!!!<33🏳️‍🌈) who developed a crush on this girl who said she was bi, turns out the girl was just saying that to fit and is straight, and my friend's heart got broken. I helped her through it and I'm hoping she's able to recover fully. She's still always my best friend!!!!💙💜💗

[nichyuu]

as my art teacher likes to say when addressing the class "Good morning, Ladies & Gentleman and everything in between", its very sweet :)

[Vinderayz]

sexuality discourse during pride month is so much brain rot, like lets just like who we like no matter what coloured rectangles represent us

[MusicJamSchauspiel]

I'm 28 and I never thought that half the people I "argue" with on reddit or YouTube might actually be literal minors. I'm really dumbstruck rn. Why do I always assume, people are my age? I feel so stupid because it makes so much sense. When I was 16 all I did on YouTube, Facebook and Twitter was rant about the world and I didn't even comprehend what I was talking about. Looking back I don't blame myself, I was sixteen! How could I know? And it's part of the process. In real life I'm usually very understanding when it comes to teenagers throwing a fit over things or getting overexcited about something because I remember how it was. I envy them in a way. How have I not made this connection to the internet yet? You literally saved me there a little, friend. I will better myself and breathe before replying to comments now, if at all.

[estellestar-]

WHY DO YOUR OUTFITS ALWAYS BE SLAYING MORE THAN MY OUTFITS I NEED YOUR WISDOM

[Mari-Yama]

I've dated men and women in my life but ended up marrying a man. I keep being told by non bi/poly/pan sexuals that I'm straight now. Can we please talk about this? It's so frustrating to hear from people within the LGBTQ+ community that I have to be either a lesbian or straight depending on who I date...when those two labels contradicts each other. It's hard enough trying to explain this to straight people.

[gummirwl]

I hope everyone is having a SAFE pride month. If you can't come out it's okay. I was privileged to have some of my family not care/be supportive, but if you are not lucky enough to have that I hope your friends are okay with it... Or at least that you have some sort of support system. If you don't, remember that eventually you will. I promise. I love you, and take care.

[Sunny-lbwx]

I originally thought I was pan for quite a while but then I learnt about Omni and a lot of the definitions of pan that I personally have seen have said that pan a lot of the times is when the person is “gender blind” and Omni is is when you sometimes have a preference and aren’t “gender blind.” This has helped me a lot actually made me realize that I’m in fact Omni with a preference for non-men! :)

Sorry if I butchered any definitions I’m definitely not the greatest at writing the right words

[ComputerChan]

here's my "finding out my sexuality" story:

before I started thinking about being asexual, I've identified as a straight ally. (as a child, I've been presented with only gay, les, bi and other stuff, but never ace or aro.)

once I found out about asexuality, I started to think about LGBTQ things. I started talking with my friend on and on about figuring out if i’m asexual. I kept saying stuff such as "well, i’m only attracted romantically to X crush.." and "I don’t wanna f* people, but idk". eventually I put myself off as questioning for a LONG time.

I was just chilling out, when suddenly jaiden animations posted a new video. it was about her being aroace. this intrigued me, so i started researching. eventually I found out that, yes, *i’m ace.*

but, I wasn't aroace. I started thinking, and I eventually found panromantic. still, I didn't really fit into the "attracted to anyone *regardless* of gender". I’m not genderblind.
and then.. omni.
omniromantic just kinda.. fit.

thanks for reading my omniromantic asexual story! sorry if this is kinda boring but might as well share it to the big wide world of the internet.

[lizardfishbird]

As a bi person, I’ve never understood the “gold star bisexual you can only date 2 genders” thing. To me, bi has always meant both sides of the binary and everything in between. It irks me when people tell me I’m pan because I care more about partners’ personality than gender identity, or that I’m any less gay because I’m in a relationship with the opposite sex

[candygirl]

So I’m 30 years old. And honestly growing up i was presented the strict 3 options of straight, gay/lesbian, and bisexual. Even bisexual was barely an option and often mocked as the choice for gays that didn’t want to be labeled as gay. Regardless of that crap I chose bisexual because it felt right for me. And now that I’m presented with more options, I’m happy just sticking with bi. It just feels right for me and I’m keeping it. I think it’s as simple as that. There’s no need to argue and nitpick. Just let people love who they love.

[cervelmola]

As a trans person I feel really uncomfortable with this. Some times pan people act like they’re the wokest for being able to tolerate me, when it just makes me feel othered. Bi people have always treated us the same, there will be bi transphobes but it’s not part of the label. Most bi people date everyone in the gender spectrum and outside of it (binaries and non-binaries), and not make a point out of dating us.

[mansikkapoika]

To me my pansexuality means that gender doesn't play a part in my attraction at all. I just want to exist and be myself and like who ever I like in peace haha. Great video Frederic <3