How To Permanently STOP Self Sabotage

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[briantobias]

I do this to myself alot without even knowing it. I learned that the reason why I do it is because I feel that deep down, I'm afraid to fail. Only way to get over this is to get out there and do it anyway.

[faiza]

"Everything you want is just outside your comfort zone." - Robert Allen

[TheLifeFormulaa]

Love the animations. Sometimes we self sabotage ourselves because the person we want to become does not align with who we are right now so there is an internal struggle

[mina]

I was afraid to fail. I didnt know it until I actually started doing things. But I used to fear failure, fear that even if I would give my all I will actually fail. That is so wrong. I'm stronger than that, you too. Give your best. Whatever. Fear is a waste of time. Work more on your happiness and your dreams. With much love. Mina

[unleashingpotential-psycho]

Having a negative self talk will sabotage your own success.

[wiskrzysztof]

I am sabotaging myself right now by watching a Youtube video, lmao

[ChessMasteryOfficial]

*Do you really want to look back on your life and see how wonderful it could have been had you not been afraid to live it? %*

[christophernettles]

Embrace fear!!! You’re always going to be afraid, and when you feel afraid and uncomfortable that means you need to do it... This famous theatre artist (forget their name) throws up before going on stage because they are fearful of performing, but they go on stage and perform anyways and do an outstanding job. But, if you fail keep going because guess what, you got an outcome! Rather try and fail then not try at all, that’s the truest failure...

[Alexcutspie]

My Self Sabotage/ Fears:

• I fear targeting my ambitions because just as the dogs in the Pavlovian experiment would salivate at the sound of a ringing bell- I would *panic* anytime something good would happen to me and fear it being taken away. Like there’s a curse that the inevitable would always be somber; or a hidden motive was behind someone doing something nice for me
• I chose to partake in long distance relationships and it’s become a pattern. I have that sense of security they’ll fall for me before allowing my sexual urges to take over. I grew up in a devout Christian household and I’ve felt that suppressing my sexuality only made it worse. I deliberately chose people out of my reach because I’ve also been raped 😕 so it makes me feel like I’ve got more sense of control of not being touched even when Physical Touch is my highest love language though that was violated in the past and I get conflicted
• I revel in self deprecation jokes too far
• I’m scared that getting fit will make me relapse my bulimia
• and my worst self sabotage is knowing what’s bad for me I go ahead and do them regardless of what my brain is screaming at me to do


WELL THEN. Just dropped my baggage online. 😐 anyone do what i do?

[TheHappyWanderer]

"A thousand fewer dollars to spend on myself every month" damn bro, I wish I had that much disposable income

[Robin_mackay]

For the 2% that read this, I hope you accomplish your dreams and make them better than you imagine. My dream is to become a successful youtuber one day

[ZoeyArielle]

I love the animation!!! How creative and helpful. Thank you Charlie 🙏🏼

[Oridan]

this is BRILLIANT! I always figured fear of failure was the thing freezing, but I fail all the time and It's just a normal thing to me. It's actually when I'm doing good that I stop myself, I can't put into words how accurate this fits my situation. Thanks a lot for making this video, I'll get to working on improving these associations!

[Discoveringbandsbymichaelnagy]

Stepping out of your comfort zone on a regular basis is one of the best things you can do to help make you stronger!!

[IHeArTrOcK]

I take my failures and dwell on them, it’s hard for me not to tell myself stuff while I see myself failing and my co workers doing better. I try to do affirmations, have positive attitude, and do everything to focus on here and now but it helps only to a certain degree. This video is exactly what I needed, a compass TY. You da best <3

[JaceJacobs]

✋🏼👊🏼😀❤️ I used to let fear run my life. Meditation really helped out in my situation. Much appreciation and love.

[alexandraviola]

Every fear is somehow trying to protect us! Being compassionate with it is super valuable!

[wanhope]

Work as hard as you can. Try to achieve the most amazing thing you can imagine yourself doing. You probably won't reach it but getting pretty close to that is already crazy good.

[StimpyRM]

One of the most eye-opening and practical video I have ever seen. Thanks!

[MindNow]

*Really well broken down brotherhood. Self sabotaging is to protect us, but in a bad way*

Thank you man!

Winny out... _for now_ 😉