How Women Want To Be Approached (THE TRUTH)

There is a right way and a wrong way to approach a woman... and the first few seconds definitely make a difference. Here's how to do the approach right.

[ToddVDating]

Hey guys, I hope you enjoy this video I re-uploaded from the archives now that I'm free and clear to do so. I've seen a few comments about the approach from the behind (in 2023 vs 2014 or 2015 when this was originally recorded)... if you'd like to avoid that approach and just do the "walk with" style approach instead, it's an option (though you won't get the girl to stop immediately, so you may need to go from walking to stopped later... which you can do by slowing down and planting your feet). Also, a note on the "tap" on the shoulder. It's extremely light -- no "grabbing" girls! And it also doesn't linger. It's to get their attention ONLY... by the time they know anyone tapped them on the shoulder, the hand isn't there, and the fact that they're walking means there is also space between you and her (so you're not in up in her face). Hope this helps.

[swaggybaconcheese]

With all the bad dating advice on YouTube rn, thank goodness we got Todd cause I'd be so lost without him

[Ghtxtgccdwwed]

You have changed our life with actually getting us results …

[TheMaleRoleModel]

The old pickup content is so valuable that you could re-release your original courses and just narrate your old approaches and old narration with 2023 updates.

[curiousconsultant]

Alternating between lesson and demo is an amazing way to convey a strong message and keep the audience's attention. You have gotten way better at that recently, I remember older videos I would dose off halfway through as you very meticulously explain everything. But a demo clip is worth a thousand words.

[sickranchez]

The first one is from Poland, they are normally so feminine and giggly when they speak English. In comparison with a lot of women I've experienced they're so much nicer to talk to.

Really good sets Todd, keeping it light, fun and totally chill as always.

Yes, I live in Poland :)

[peterken]

In the last 2 approaches, girls almost went away. I am sure 90% of men would just give up and let go, but see how Todd is being consistent and devoted. Also, 3rd one seems needy and does not look good, but as Todd said, we are not playing to look good, we are playing for win. At last, he won the number. We can learn so much from this short clip

[michael]

I like how you keep the initiative. These girls don't even have time to think. You are really fast. But I doubt that most of the men who follow you can do it that quickly. This requires experience. Slowing down my walking has worked well for me. To walk relaxed and leisurely. Then I stand out among people who are all in a hurry. The women notice it and then the ladies offer themselves. But I understand that it would be difficult to capture it on video.

[LtVadim]

4 minutes? C'mon, we need at least like 2 hours of this!)) E.g. what if she's sitting in a park and reading the book, what if she's in a train and you don't quite sure how much time do you have, what if she's talking with someone on the phone, what if its dark outside and the whole situation feels kinda creepy, what if she's in a crowd of strangers but alone, what if she's a go-go dancer working in a club, what if she's police oficer arresting you, but you really whish to have a coffee with her after the court... Or more wisdom on things like how to strategically plan the point of your path intersection, how fast to approach if she's in a hurry but not to make this too wierd, how to stop her if her bus/train just arrived but you need at least 10 sec to write down the number, how to engage is she's waiting for someone and it might be her angry boyfriend, what if she's dressed overly sexy or even is a topless girl on a beach and you may appear as a pervert, when and how to back off, whats the optimal "quantity vs quality" strategy, how to organize the contact list in the phone in order not to forget who is who in there... So many questions left unresolwed! We demand andwers!!!))))

[reubenxgotnext]

Hey Todd, I really love how you’re giving men advice on how to approach women. One bad mistake men can make however is approaching women from behind and touching them. In this #MeToo era that can be bad news. Be aware that everyone who watches these videos is not as polished as you.

[bostonkid]

Ah this is a classic video. Thanks for uploading!

[RabenKaiser]

Damn! Some live footage? That's new! Great idea

[Wabey-sabey]

More practical videos like this, keep it up bro 🔥❤️

[gunlock]

Love this style of video reminds me of your videos from 2018-2019

[nortongreeen]

Plain infield is the Todd we need more of this

[nightingale]

I dont think its the best idea to tap her on a shoulder from behind. It can work but ideally you should walk past her and than start the interaction from front/side.

[gmankox]

i really like your channel todd you're one of my favorites by far when it coms to dating advices!
but i would like to point out that most women do not respond to cold approach in a positive way - its at least where i come from, it really depends on the situation and enviroment
from my experience, the most practical way to approach a girl is to start noticing something about her - it could be her hair, shoes etc. and give a compliment and then reach for confort and closure.
keep up the good content bro!

[herculeeza]

The only thing I question here is how solid the numbers are, cold approach numbers are the most flakey and at least in my case I usually have to build a good amount of investment (spend a good few minutes) before I can confident it's a solid number. I think only the Polish girl looked like a solid number

[chrst]

i never did tapping on the shoulder from behind, usually walk behind her, then overtake her and walk next to her
easiest is still if she is just standing around (alone)^^

[juandarich]

The most incredible video Tood. Thank u for the value.