4 Things Confident Men Do That Women LOVE | Courtney Ryan

In this video I go over 4 things that confident men do that women love. Confidence is something we all struggle with at some capacity, but these are some things that go hand in hand with confidence. Thank you all for watching and let me know what you think makes a confident person.

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[detroitmichigan]

“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts. While the stupid ones are full of confidence.” – Charles Bukowski

[Jukeboxster]

"Just be confident" is like saying "just be thinner, " or "have more muscles." Just like having a slimmer or more muscular physique, confidence is the byproduct of engaging in a particular endeavor and producing a result. Confidence is built on successes. You can do one of two things, learn pick-up, which is fake confidence, or take the long road to improve yourself overall, your body, your career, your wardrobe, those will make you feel better, you'll get more looks, more opportunities because the laws of attraction begin to work in your favor. Don't look for a quick fix.

[cptgooter]

As a guy going through divorce at the moment I want to share my perspective of confidence. I agree with a comment on here that I saw. “You have to put in the work to be confident”. I think this dives deeper than just trying to exude confidence or just working out/ taking care of your body. So many men fail to take care of their mind. I feel like we as men don’t always take the time to sit in silence and have the hard conversations with ourselves of who we are and who we want to be. This going all the way back to past traumas from childhood usually. How you were raised, were you bullied?, were you belittled by a loved one for being sensitive or weak? I think we don’t always want to resolve our insecurities and work through them so we mask it with excuses out of fear which makes us lack confidence. I’ve spent a lot of nights since my divorce contemplating my life and what I have to offer. What things I can look back on In past relationships to make myself better for the next one. Looking at my self worth and how I view myself. Making sure I’m proactively changing the things about myself that were unresolved or that I don’t like. Actually unfucking your mind can help your confidence so much but it is an internal battle. You just gotta be willing to face those issues and sometimes even get help through therapy or through a good friend that won’t bullshit you.

[vanner]

I held a girls hand and danced with her for the first time yesterday. I really appreciate the work you do.

[noelkuriakose]

Reminder: Only pursue women who have returned the intrest/effort that you have given them.

[nicholaspowell]

Confidence is needed in all walks of life.

[harveymalice]

Eye contact, posture, and hygiene (grooming). These three things go a long way. As you watch how women respond, your confidence will grow naturally.

[markmyjak]

I like using the term "walking around like you own the place". It shows confidence, purpose, awareness, responsibility and it shows you know what you are doing. Connect that with dressing well plus manners. From my own experience, displaying this behavior, people men & women will chase you down for help, directions and advice.

[Arkane]

I want to add that confidence comes naturally from doing the work! You can't just tell yourself to be confident no matter what. For example, if you have an exam and you didn't study or do the homework, then you can't just tell yourself to be confident. Don't focus on being confident. Focus on doing the work and bettering yourself and the confidence will follow naturally.

[initiatorhater]

it reminds me of a powerful quote that changed my view on dating/relationships, here it is: "A Man doesn't need to respect a Woman in order to feel attracted to her, but a Woman needs to respect a Man in order to feel attracted to him"

[solomonmartinez]

The thing that has leveled up my confidence the most is being real with who I am and what I want in life. Once I said, forget everyone else’s dreams for me, what is my desire? That’s when I really noticed my confidence start to go up! Once you live your life honest with your self and what you really want, confidence increases so much it’s crazy. Never been this confident in my life. Recommend this to every guy and really every woman out there. Know who you are and what you want. Be humble enough to learn but go for what you believe in and be flexible to adjust along the way if needed.

[ballhawk]

Here's another *big* one: *handling situations.* If you can fix it for her when it's broken, or handle things in an emergency, it's *huge.* But it's also on her to be *appreciative, * rather than demanding about every little whim.

[StrollaLawDefense]

1. Be masculine
2. Be direct (make her feel safe and secure)
3. Have a purpose
4. Body language (eye contact and interest, and use charisma)

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[thepickles]

Just to clarify, dudes
Pursuing and Chasing are very different things. Pursuing is knowing the woman wants to spend time with you while Chasing is going after the ones who either don’t want to spend time with you or are playing hard to get but have absolutely no real genuine interest or respect for you. It doesn’t matter if you really like the hard-to-get girl in your vision, she needs to respect your time. Time you are offering to spend time getting to know her. Remember this and your confidence will increase dramatically.

[deanshort]

Thank you Courtney for these genuine pointers as it relates to men possessing & demonstrating appropriate masculinity that drives women to appreciate us. For myself personally, knowing what you want and pursuing it is a big factor. Not being apologetic about that drive. Be yourself but don't be creepy or rude. Also refuse the emasculating culture in social media it does not serve anyone. Don't be afraid to be articulate and expressive without showing off. Using your words as an adult is a great ice breaker. You don't have to re-invent the greatest lines ever, just talk. It also help to communicate with lots of different women even those you are not particularly wanting a deeper connection with. This will create the habit of communication so that when you do see a women you want to escalate with, it will be filled with greater ease. This way you won't be filled with approach anxiety or apprehension when you finally do talk. Women want us to give them attention but don't be a crazy fool. Men KNOW when chemistry is there (as well as when it's not) and having a bit of restraint makes the gentleman even more appealing. Any hoo, if she doesn't reciprocate take it in stride and move on, don't get stuck. Be easy going and playful. It never hurts if you can bring your sense of humor to share. Perhaps most of all believe in yourself (confidence is a great catalyst). Just some of the things that have worked for me.

[josealvarado]

I had to work on my Confidence because I wasn't born with it. I'm an Introvert too like you Courtney so I had to get used to putting myself out there so I did that in my past jobs and in my hobbies that helped me build Confidence and I'm still refining and improving it and I'm reaping the fruits of my Labor. I approached the most attractive Woman at a mall and I was so Confident that she felt nervous because she was into me but Never went further because she was already taken and I could tell she wanted to break the touch barrier with me because she was playing with her hair around me but I have too much Self-Respect and I I Integrity so I said Goodbye and I felt really Masculine when I did that and Loved it. The tips you give on this video are awesome!

[stevew]

When I feel competent, I feel more confident.

[charliedallachie]

Even if you’re not “confident” it’s better to be yourself than “fake” something you’re not. I believe true confidence only comes with experience so that means putting yourself out there and brushing off rejection.

[felixgarciacordova]

Courtney, you are so eloquent and you tone of voice is just on right picht. I'm a 58 year old man and what you are saying I learned through trial and error. I like to listen to intelligent and well educated people, you are completely right. Thanks and and sincerely congratulations.

[yvesgysel]

Confidence is important in life and goes a long way. Landing that job you always wanted. The way I boosted my Confidence, is by doing stuff I was afraid of. Making public speeches, take responsibility for my Actions... It helps.