20 Surprising Things Men Do That Women Love

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I'm launching my course in 2 days! 5 years ago, I started down a journey to understand why men do the things they do, what they deeply want in a good woman and how to bring out the best in them and in turn I learned a lot about women as well. My own process and how I relate them.

I used to get so frustrated by their actions but once I gained this invaluable knowledge, it allowed me to let down my walls and truly see men for who they really are. Kind, protective, loving and fierce warriors who just want the woman in their life to be happy.

By and large, relationship skills aren’t taught to us at a young age so we end up throwing darts at a dart board hoping something will stick.

Many of us grew up seeing dysfunction play out and we crash and burn only to find out that we repeated these same patterns in our love life that we saw growing up.

You have the power to fix this, you might just lack the tools. Come and find out how to fix this!

Much love,
Sarah

[phatmatt]

I did a lot of these things and my wife never acknowledged them. Later, after I stopped, I learned that she just kept expecting me to do them, even commenting "I want someone who is going to take care of me". Only thing is, I didn't see the point anymore. The damage of not acknowledging was done and left scars.

[matthewwilsonn]

Been there and done all this. If fact, most men will do just about all these things when they love their woman, ….all this is very common. The big issue is that doing all these things doesn’t make a woman stay, it doesn’t keep her in the relationship as much as people would think, most women never truly appreciate the acts of kindness and still tend to treat their men as second-class.
When the society of women change, then maybe one day they will get all these things from men again.

[TexasSweetheart]

My husband played a country song that reminded him of us. I am not a Cryer and I started to tear up. When we first got together and weren't even living together. I was having a really hard time with my mother( we don't have the best relationship) he asked me if I wanted to stay over. Which ironically that lead us to end up living together. After a week I went home and we missed eachother so much. The first time we were intimate afterwards we looked at eachother and smiled . He put his head on my chest and I rubbed his back and just cuddled for awhile and we still do that to this day. We tell each I love you everyday and we say it to eachother when he leaves for work. Sometimes we will pass eachother in the hallway and embrace and kiss. When I ended two childhood friendships he sent a message to me saying "I shouldn't have to change make some one else happy" He is so patient with during my time of the month. He will picks up prescription for me. He is such a good husband! I love him so much!

[liammaxsmama]

I just sent this to my husband and acknowledged that he did nearly every single one of these things and that I appreciated them all. I made sure to mention a few of my absolute faves. Please do one for men! I always appreciate the new perspectives and sometimes I can add little things to my toolbox to take care of him. ❤ Love that man! He’s the absolute BEST!

[buffuniballer]

One of the best things I heard from my wife was just last weekend. She was telling her best friend from school that at first, she was a little disappointed that I wasn't a romantic.

But after 16 years of marriage, she appreciated the safety I provide her. Or maybe a better word is protection, as safety sounds boring. We've been on adventures all over the world. She feels protected then. She feels protected when I make sure her car is in good working order and safe to drive, full of fuel, etc.

Or when I ensure the house is safe. That the furnace is going to work, that we have fuel for the generator and it's been recently tested, etc.

I think many women (and men too, they think Porn is the scenario they should seek) have some unrealistic expectations. Everyday cannot be a RomCom.

But if you appreciate what he brings, you can coach him to do things that are more romantic and perhaps a bit out of his character or comfort zone.

[duncandmcgrath]

Helping men and women understand their dynamic...thank you Sarah.

[TrapShooter]

Not flinching at the sight of another woman is admirable, maintaining situational awareness in today's world is mandatory. Always scan for potential threats. Not paranoid; I just live in the real world and have been ahead of several situations following this approach.

[Southland]

21. When you drop her off and pick her up at the airport because you know going to the airport by herself is stressful for her. 22. When you always use good manners when addressing her.

[Sonicstillpoint]

Hearing this is like Reading a book or watching a movie because I can’t imagine a woman appreciating any of this. Very beautiful script. Thank you.😍

[Last_one_before_I_go]

#21. When you both search out your divorce lawyers together (you're not married yet, but she "knows" that's coming), but you stop and then tell her: "I know...lets just use one !...and You can pick her out... !" She'll be gushing !!!!

[Acerthorn]

As for #4, that's true. If only women would be just as trustworthy when men are vulnerable around them.

[andrewsmall]

Here's one for women, when he's been driving for more than 2 minutes and she hasn't assumed the crash position because there are other cars on the road doing normal car things, that shows that you feel safe with him and you have faith in his driving skills to keep you safe.

[Mounty]

Great stuff! With one caveat. I'm a retired cop. I sit against walls and "read" everyone that enters a room as threat or non-threat. I can't just stare into her eyes and not notice anyone coming in the room whether male or female. The trick is not letting my gaze extend on an attractive woman.

[petermarchi]

What you're talking about goes to the heart of a core belief of mine, "Being in love means seeing all their scars knowing the stories behind them and appreciating the person even more because of them."

[biren_biroo]

i don't think doing most of these things are a waste. on anyone. it is love, and love's way of saying (to any human, and yes, especially a woman) they are worth it, they deserve it... especially when that person might secretly be feeling undeserving. which is what most of us, most of the time are harbouring deep, deep within us.

the way you shared these... your voice especially... was a treat. it was a soundless sigh of a longing deep inside you - your vulnerability was palpable.

thank you for showing up in exactly the way you did.

[sargothi]

I'm almost 42 years old. I tried to be romantic multiple times. I wish I could say in my experience any of this was true. I hope the rest of you do better than me.

[robertcole]

Hi Sarah, I’ve been married 21 years. These things are helpful. Thanks

[EMHernandez]

Number 5. I remember burning songs on CDs back in the day, and my wife and I still have them in our house. Times were simpler back then. Number 19, knowing your SO’s love language very important for long lasting relationship.

[MarufoVega]

Like the new spin you are taking. Helping men and women meet each others needs and understand each other is a worthy mission.

[levihorn]

I do these “little” things because that’s who I truly am. Unfortunately they can’t make someone want to be with you. They don’t make someone appreciate you and your thoughtfulness. As a matter of fact most women think I’m doing them to get laid. It doesn’t stop me from doing them and being genuine. Hopefully there’s a good woman out there who appreciates a man like this.