5 Easy Steps to Be Instantly Charming!

Today you’ll learn how to be charming and charismatic instantly. It’s really all about the first impression and how you communicate who you are. If you want to charm a girl or a guy (or someone of a non-binary gender), then this video is for you!

Sources:
The Tricks to Make Yourself Effortlessly Charming

How Anyone Can Be Exceptionally Charming

Charisma: the phenomenon and its psychology

Psychology of Charisma

Inference of Competence from Faces Predict Election Outcomes

Facial Features are the Key to First Impressions

The Effects of Body Characteristics on Perceived Competence

Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO), HowlingCreations for helping to create this video!

[dilandolando]

5 Easy Steps to Be Instantly Charming
1) The power of a genuine introduction 0:18
2) Instant Facial Judgement 3:09
3) Losing Social Competitions 5:52
4) Strategic Unraveling 8:04
5. Standing on common ground 9:44

[stmoviefan]

Some good points especially about letting the other person shine and not having to compete

[deeplyhappy-go-lucky]

I’m done with making people feel like a winner. I stepped out of the spotlight for so long and it dampened my self esteem. Now I no longer live for nobody but myself and make myself feel like the winner

[unleashingpotential-psycho]

Have confident body language and you will be instantly more charming 🔥

[jackiek]

I just came here to tell you that your thumbnails suit your video perfectly. They're not to be taken seriously, they're actually comical.

[zakuro]

Normally I don't like these kinds of videos, but this was mostly very smooth and overall educating.

[PowerMatrixAnime]

Charisma: Charismatic is being magnetic and inspirational. Magnetic is perhaps the perfect word here because it describes the ability to attract people. More so, being charismatic implies that one has the ability to inspire people.



Charming: Charming is essentially having the ability to make people feel good. Unlike being charismatic, you don’t have to necessarily be passionate or inspirational to be charming.

[Mensmentalwealth]

Sounds like just being a decent human being with healthy self-respect and and empathy for other people. It's sad people don't know how to do that intuitively.

[poet]

Charming people is a little bit more difficult than he makes it seem...he left out the surprise effect...the surprise effect is when for example at first connection you appear to be gloomy or depressed, and the person judges you by that, and then on second connection you're exactly the opposite... people love that because it gives a sense of mystery, everybody likes to think that they can figure people out but when you show them that you might be a little more work to figure out it's a challenge they will love to accept

[saranox]

1. improve your physical appearance
2. don‘t one up everyone, let others shine
3. loosing social competitions,
ask questions
5. standing on common ground

... lost my patience.

[terraiznajem]

Some times it depends on the situation some people never ever they will charge their personality and the images in their mind about physical appearance

[Kw-svmo]

I always like it when someone in the comments makes a summary of the 10/15/20 things either so you know whether the video is likely to be shit or worth watching or because you can't be arsed watching the whole thing for whatever reason.... I'm not that person and I'm extremely disappointed that there isn't a person on the comments with the consideration to do this for

[PracticalInspiration]

Aim to embody how you want to, taking action to be the person you want to be tomorrow... But today

[celestialcircledance]

Of course its more charming and genuine to " mean it " but not everyone's a naturally warm, demonstrative smiley person . Some people have to fake it just to get ahead and not be a social outcast .

[legendaryzet]

"Real charm isn't something you can lie about" Ever heard of sociopaths?

[DonGivani]

Losing Social Competition is a very very strong one.

My personal mantra is " Give value to the other and never care about the positive or negative response, with keeping your boundaries in check"

[shenequagrant]

Hey man, Houdini said it best! A friend is somebody you judge for yourself! Just like beauty. This is all scientific. The world has changed so much since the last study. I'm just giving my opinion like everyone else. I found out that you should mind your business and if it doesn't involve you, the hell with it! I wish everybody well!

[lovepeaceisneverguaranteed]

This is the realist thing I have seen thus far thanks top think.

[wandaleczynska]

Having trained as a Counsellor we were taught never to ask 'why' it is preceived as childish behaviour. e.g. children constantly ask 'why'. Instead ask an open ended question, or mirror back the sentence or wording to the person you are chatting to.

[ivan.r]

This makes me remember a novel called "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale caniege