Does She Like You Or Does She Like The Attention?

Does she actually like you or does she just like the attention you give her? In this video, I’m going to go over some signs to look for and ways to tell if she genuinely likes you OR if she’s just a fan of the attention you’re giving her….

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[Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

She only talks to you when she needs something and pretends to be nice to you. If she doesn't do anything in return, stay away from her.

[ajtaylor]

I was recently in a situation like this not too long ago with a coworker. Thought she was interested but quickly realized she actually liked my attention because she hung out with me a ton, then completely went cold when another guy came around. I cut my losses and moved on only for her to start feeling some type of way and having the nerve to ask "Why didn't I come after her?" That let me know I made the right decision 😂

[drip]

Fellas, I don't mind repeating this as it may help a lot of people, choose women who choose you and invest in those people whom invest in you

[David-qpbq]

She just wants attention,
She don't want your heart,
And you should've known this
from the very, very start.

[mrdanno]

The No Emotional Connection point is a sure sign. I went out with a woman years ago who never made the effort to get to know me as a person. I, on the other hand, made the effort to know everything about her and her drama. Long story short I cut my losses and ran.

[turbowissl]

Time stamps:

0:37 You don’t see her
1:47 It’s one sided
2:15 Fishes for Compliments
3:08 Gives you Instagram @
3:33 Asks for Stuff
4:08 No Emotional connection

Best wishes lads:)

[dillonc]

Honestly the best kind of relationships are the ones where you both can safely get off social media and be yourselves. I feel a lot of being used revolves around social media attention.

[philochristos]

You're so right, Courtney. I decided a long time ago to stop staying in one-sided relationships (even one-sided friendships), and I've been much better off since then. I lost a few "friends" because of it, but I have no regrets.

[joshuarichardson]

Wanting someone who puts in the same amount of effort and energy as you isn’t being needy, don’t ever feel like that. If anything, it shows that you know what you want and you know your self worth. Don’t settle for less, actions speak louder than words. There’s someone out there who will appreciate you for you without draining you for your attention.

[VideoGameRoom]

If you are always buying a woman at work or college lunch or coffee and she gossips about her fellow co-workers or college students, avoid her. I had this happened to me at a previous job. If she's gossiping about other people she's gossiping about you, too

[itsfredestai]

I was talking to a girl for two years, went into it not knowing much. She took advantage of me, nothing was enough for her. Fast forward, I’m now with someone who reciprocates and is a keeper. Looking back on it, I’ve realized so much to where now these women don’t phase me. Those two years taught me a BIG lesson 💪🏾

[BangMaster]

If she likes you, she will find excuses to text you or hang out with you, otherwise, just block her, and move on.

[borislibaque]

Yes, these are good tells, and thank you for sharing Courtney. On a practical note, I would suggest to guys that watch this to work on pulling back generally when you see behaviour you don't like. Desire lives in the space between people; give her room to chase you. Don't you want to be in a relationship where you're loved and wanted! Pull back, let her win you over, not as a game or a gimmick, but genuinely, if she's using you, treating you badly, or you're just unhappy. And by that same token, if your going to compliment her, if you're going to buy her a gift, escalate off a positive, not a negative, and certainly not silence. By actively move towards joy day to day you'll lose the people who aren't right for you, and just as importantly create the relationships you want to be a part of. Thanks again for sharing Courtney!

[thecowboy]

A great way to figure out who a woman truly is character wise, or anyone for that matter, is observe how they treat someone who can do absolutely nothing for them. If they treat them poorly, especially behind their back, like talking trash about them or etc; that's all you need to know.

[Introvertedalpha]

Great advice, especially loved the tip to evaluate if the relationship is one-sided. Thanks for this video!

[masonmiller]

I had a female friend whom I would text her a joke every now and then and that was our only social interaction. We made plans to hang out twice and she canceled out both times.

She’s gone.

[topper]

This has always been my experience with women. From the time I was a youngster to today. Women only want attention from me but give their hearts and body’s to others. I finally learned a new word in the English language. “NO”. I finally learned to say, “no”. My wallet thanks me. My heart while lonely is not always broken. Sweetheart, all girls are like this. All of them.

[georgewiel]

Such great and authentic content, Courtney! Listen up, guys! Don’t waste you time with women who show low-interest.

[michaelmossad]

I follow alot of good men dating coaches. You by far are my number one woman dating coach for advice. Helps to have a woman’s perspective.

[brego]

Wow. This just happened to me and I just cut it off. On point. Especially everything you said in the beginning