3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY

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On dating apps, first impressions matter.

And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . .

That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!

You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think:

Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination?

I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . .

Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by.

So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?

In today’s video, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.

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[carmenkamberos]

“If someone wants you in their life, they will make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never ever insert yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth.”

[buda]

The person who doesn’t want me is really important to my ego”
This is so powerful....

[iceangl]

Love the line: “the person who doesn’t want me, is really important to my ego, not important at all to my purest intention….” So beautiful. It really elevates you from feeling stuck in a place that doesn’t serve you.

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[wolfpack]

Just watched your “no contact rules “ video yesterday, now seeing this, Makes me confused and overwhelmed (I know this video maybe for a different circumstance)😅 but mutual love shouldn’t be this hard. Instead, I’ve been meditating and working on myself. I find it’s more easier

[cristinaclaudiacodrea]

Matthew, Matthew…you hit home EVERY TIME with your words! I don’t wanna have a day without your advice (even after I found “him”). Thank you for your messages and please don’t stop 😉❤️

[jasminegutierrez]

That was key when he said you want the person to see me, accept me and want me. It was beautifully said

[aleksandra]

Damn! You're so annoyingly right. Not only did you motivate me to give dating another try but you also took away most of my doubts regarding a creative pursuit I was considering. I was getting used to my misery. And now I will probably end up happier. Thank you very much

[catherineottilio]

intention rather than ego..
kind of being humble something like joe piccolo said..really like that.. thank you!
"i" over "e".
Great equation!

[consistencyiskey_]

My intention is to find real love. This resonated with me a lot. Thank you, Matthew! 😊❤️

[mschelly]

Wonderful and easy-to-follow insights. Your messages are so profound and relatable. Thanks for being the best dating coach.

[LiveOutsideNow]

Your mind set is so important.
And ego likes to take charge lol.
Intention is how we get where we want to go

[Macjoooy]

The difference between intention and ego when it comes to looking for SO, really matters.

[sunnysunflowerrr]

Just in the last part u gave me a mindset, thanks a million for that speech about ego and intention, soooo practical, wrote it all down on my notebook and saved it to remind myself everyday.❤️

[sharonmargaretstewart]

Thanks Matthew I have never went on a dating app but I’m just honest and I go for it whether I’m scared or not 🦋

[Wendywolf]

I love your video's, always make me feel so calm and connected

[clohanmom]

I came for the dating apps messages... left with the advice on see, except and want. SUBSCRIBED!!!

[Kravitzsz]

Haha tried it in practice, and it really works. More replies than normal.. 3 out of 4 responded…

[SDscrch]

here's a hint... actually putting ANY effort whatsoever in to a message
anything more than one word will show you put effort into it
the bar really is that low

[simontmn]

As a man, I do all this. Certainly works on women! 😄 I think for a man this is fairly basic stuff to do, but we tend to get less than we give so most men will be very appreciative of getting this sort of flirty text. It shows both interest and wit/intelligence.

[bchofdk]

I loved the tips! Thanks! Implementing in my life right now.