6 Signs She Only Wants Your Attention! (Female Attention Seekers)

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Signs she wants your attention...

#1: Hot and cold text and text you on her time and agenda only.
#2: She calls you late at night after she's done partying.
#2: She talks about herself often and wants your validation.
#4: Makes you feel confused but pops up here and there and not consistent.
#5: You're providing something for her.
#6: She recently got out of a breakup.

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[kevinmalone]

She can also pretend to be interested in you to try to get a boyfriend or husband jealous that that has lost interest in them, so they will turn their attention back on her, then ditch you once she has successfully used you.

[Caseic]

I didn't understand this when it first happened to me. I definitely learned from it though. As long as you know your time is just as good as hers, you can avoid people like that.

[stacybyrd]

Man that's what I'm dealing with right now. Thank you

[TheDestroyer]

well thank you, i think the more i released that she had no interest the more i noticed she seems to just want my attention. my main sign was the fact that she never tried to start a text conversation nor be curious about me when talking.

[bobbynewb]

The most fun, most powerful thing a man can do is ignore a woman, especially a stranger who is assuming you're going to want her. I just had one walk to the end of the train car we were in JUST to stand in front of me, to be seen, and get a reaction. When you ignore this--and she's totally not prepared for you to ignore it--she will not know what to do with herself. It can be quite amusing. Women just assume that you're going to be appreciative of her glances. Naah, open your mouth and prove yourself worthy.

[HoomanxD]

I think sometimes it’s linked with anxiety and mental health issues which could be due to previous relationships or bad parenting. As a man you should detect that and make sure you don’t see her as a bad girl instead a sick girl and verbally treat her right but also not fall victim for drainage and abuse. Help her as much as you can, let her know she is perfect the way she is but also cut contacts entirely when it’s time. It is important to not be hot and cold as a man since it’s a sign you aren’t in tune with your emotions and your your words won’t have the same impact.
Remember it’s not their fault they need attention, it’s a need they can’t overcome, show them that life is beautiful without attention and it will change them trust me.

[leandroaires]

You nailed it.

I met a woman who did exactly what you said - In our first date she mentioned how self-accomplished she was, the many properties she had bought, the stocks she invested in, the many men running after her etc. Then she would constantly say she was fat (but she wasn't, she just wanted validation). Even worse, we got laid twice and she would always ask if I enjoyed it. She asked me twice about the characteristics I appreciated on her. She would cook food and deliver it to me just to get my compliments.

Then she started to get weird (tip #4!!) - She would say things like "let's go out tomorrow, it's a friend's birthday, I'll text you with the details", next day she would disappear. A few days later she'd invite me to her place to watch a movie (it happened). Then she'd arrange a dinner, but cancel it 1 day prior.

All that happened in a period of 3 weeks. That's when I cut her off. I had known other women with similar behaviour. I let it go on because I got what I wanted ;)

My advice, folks - be familiar with these signs. Attention seekers are dangerous, they can be very skilled in manipulating people and even modifying their personalities based on their surroundings. People like that uses backstabbing and lies to get what they want. Be smart, as soon as you see a pattern forming, jump off immediately.

[icebergchaincoop]

Fellas just ignore her keep that same energy every time or dont pay her attention at all

[jamesdavies]

This is a great video, the first 30 seconds taught me everything I need to know about someone in my place of work that has very recently been trying to get my attention (and probably that of other men too) but never actually wants to engage... namely, she is type 'a' of your first three points 1) Blows hot & cold 2) Isn't interested in a conversation 3) She is a party girl... Today you helped me avoid someone I don't need #timesup

[iverymathias]

That's the same way I think about women that flirt with me alot and it won't go nowhere else.

[chaddouglas]

if you are a mentally healthy man, than you you understand this, ALREADY

[michaelgates]

I believe I’ve got my first attention seeker. I’m so confused! Very hot and cold usually communicate briefly on her terms and definitely pulls back when I Pursue her

[MosesEmmet]

Not too many guys care if they get used or not... only if they give time/money/attention and get nothing back in return.

[oteleaionutbogdan]

Yep, I realised this after 2 months of constantly texting to a girl. At first she was very open to me, then got a bit colder. Always talking about herself and her needs. Wasting my time just to validate herself. Never experienced it before so it took me a while to understand the situation.

[mlogan]

This is all True! Nice to have an attractive woman telling us great stuff!

[michaelbonnette]

Just gave me this revelation watching your video. I just ended a relationship and now that I see the 6 signs, she checked 5 boxes. Good riddance, thank you for this video and as always, you rock!

[thelasthourgetready]

Guys just let then initiate eveything, let them ask all the questions and give short answers, never ask any questions and take AGES to reply and use them back it REALLY frustates them lol.

[go-goakins]

This is intriguing! I haven t heard of this phenomenon ( so a guy is just feeding her ego ) Interesting segment🎯thanks appollonia 👍

[foreplayfreddyp]

These are good one's for a man that just wants sex & doesn't value his time .. A real a man should "NEVER" only become a woman's "DO BOY" or "Registered Servant" if he values his time & non-sexual attention .. Most women loves a man's non-sexual attention, flattering compliments/entertaining conversations & financial benefits so if this is all your getting then your getting disrespected & used .. Always value your time & don't just jump when she tells you to just bcuz she wants one of her needs satisfied .. That seperates the real valued men from the Simps in her life ..

[michaeljackson]

Some narcissistic traits. I never contact them first. Never.