How to Stop Caring What People Think Of You

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[stargeneraldipshitdeturd]

Don't share your dreams or ambitions in life with other people👍

[Nihalshanu]

The more you accept yourself the less you care about what other people think of you.

[Where_is_My_Peace]

I need to write every sentence she said and stick them in my house on walls.

[forfor]

"I'm not a psychic- although people are very predictable- but I'm not a psychic!" Wheeew girl intuition at it's finest.

[n.]

“Do you trust yourself?”

Me: **firm** 100% No.

[DanceUnderInfluence]

"You're not in their equation." is exactly the one thing I needed to hear.

[nellyp]

i watched this video probably a year ago and just came back to it and realized how much it genuinely helped me stop seeking validation from others. thank you

[solikemiabackup]

“do you trust yourself”

i don’t even know what that means

[smithaphilip]

Experiencing the result of your mistake is not the same as learning from someone else's mistake.

[anitapevensie]

I came back! I watched this one year ago and look at me now! I got rid of my depression and gained a lot of confidence! I’m happy now! And I love myself! Oh and 1 or 2 years ago I really cared what other thought or talked about me but now I don’t give a fuck. People are always gonna talk about u!

LIVE UR LIFE AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT!!❤️❤️❤️

Love ya and thank u so so much!❤️

[kenniefae]

I've been confused as to why I care so much about what people think of me my entire life. I thought it was just an effect of social anxiety or something. I've been searching for ways out of that mentality, but I never found the right advice.

Finally, thanks to you, I realized one incredibly important thing: I always 'check' to see what people think. Even just yesterday, I was at volleyball practice, and there was a lull as everyone was waiting to start a drill. The coaches weren't saying anything, so I just said, "I guess I'll start..?" And what do you know, I felt better after seeing a nod of agreement from one of my teammates--a teammate I didn't even like.

Not only that, but I want to try cheerleading this year, even though I've never tried it before--and you know what I did? I went around texting girls from the team the year before "Was it fun last year?" "Do you think I could do okay?" And other stupid questions like that, but in reality, I just wanted to feel validated and secured in my decision to even just join the cheerleading camp.

It's terrifying how obvious it's been in my life; whenever someone else says their opinion, I try to ignore it if it makes me feel insecure, but it's still always there, bugging me ceaselessly. Half the time I'm asking for that opinion; I'm just ruining my day on purpose, and I had no idea.

So, new plan: I will not be asking for anyone's opinions. Instead, I'll be considering things on my own, then make my decision based on what I've researched and realized. I will always ask myself before doing anything, "Am I doing this to try to get validation?" If my answer is yes, then my next question--to myself--is, "How can I make the right decision on my own?"

Thank you so much!!! 💕💕💕

[islamlove]

I'm a girl of 19 years old almost 20, and I've been through bad times.. My family abused me, they did not support me, they let me feel bad and dumb.. And at some point in my life I realised that this made me really insecure. I realised that I was quite depressed, I was not ambitious anymore, I stopped with work, with school and taking care of myself... they hurt me so much... And after watching this video it motivated me to cheer up. To walk above the haters..


Thank you so much..

[ttig]

Here again after 2 years and I can finally say I trust myself

[grrrohmy]

her: “do you trust yourself?”
me: no.❤️

[umagatilla]

Her: Do you trust yourse-
Me (before she even finishes: No.

[muffingangayye]

*this is the best advice that I have ever had*

[eleanavarsou]

When she asked if we trust ourselves, i paused and then a gave a solid no. It's like i saw myself and my flaws in this video. It will be hard to improve but i know that the result will be liberating.

[anthonya]

"Do you trust yourself?"
*Awkward silence*
Me: *starts laughing*

[susanberner]

she's giving us clarity & advice, but we just love her necklace... O_o

[nimohassan]

I needed this! I don't need permission from people to exist!