How To Stop Caring What Other People Think Of You

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Whether we admit it or not we’ve all felt insecure at different points in our lives. And that insecurity can hold you back from things like pursuing your dream job, approaching someone you want to connect with, or just feeling good about yourself.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are tricks you can learn to actually use your insecurities to your advantage. To instantly look more confident and eventually to build deep genuine confidence and stop caring so much what other people think about you

That’s exactly what we’ll be covering today in this video featuring Pete Davidson, someone who has stated many times that he battles with insecurity, yet still has a lot of friends, relationships, and career success.

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - intro
1:05 - #1: Embrace that you are not good at everything
2:38 - #2: Use self deprecating jokes
4:23 - #3: Answer questions honestly where most people would lie
6:06 - #4: Raise the people around you

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[fatimasamira]

"nothing is inherently embarrassing." yes, this is the mindset I want to adopt.

[tranquilityrelaxationsounds]

Not caring what people think is one of the quickest ways to find inner peace and less stress.

[DDuffy]

"Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you."

[crystalfullerton]

It wasn't hard when I realized how deeply flawed all people are.

[taabishkhanself-improvemen]

*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*

Love from a small YouTuber💙

[haanhle]

*"kim and kanye, the cutest couple ever" LMAO THAT DIDN'T AGE VERY WELL DID IT PETE*

[milkbread]

Self-deprecating jokes to an extreme just ruins the mood.
My dad is overweight and he always makes jokes of how fat he is (when literally no one is paying attention to that) and it just makes everyone awkward; and he doesn't just stop but keeps going.

[itiswhatitiscat]

He is memorable and incredibly attractive in weird way.. more relatable than other celebrity. I love him.

[privateequityguy]

*5 things to quit for all people:*

1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not prioritizing your health
4. Wasting your precious time
5. Chasing meaningless relationships

For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)

[originalhazelgreene]

I love throwing people off by being brutally honest, especially about myself! They have no comeback and it is DELICIOUS. The truth does NOT hurt - unless you've been deceiving yourself/others.

[agga]

1:32 Kevin Hart's reaction is so genuine here, that it brought a tear to my eye. Love this!!

[quoting]

“We all love ourselves more than other
people, but care more about their opinion than our own.”
– Marcus
Aurelius

[shravankashyap]

One video suggestion I would like to request is how to get over, competing with everyone.

[Someone-ctck]

I'm sure the narrator watches every show with a notebook.

[HHicks]

"When you build the habit of seeing the good in other people, you'll have an easier time seeing the good in yourself." This resonates with me and I will always remember it.

[Cationna]

The bad way to do it is to make mean, overt, or constant jokes about things you're actually insecure about in yourself. It makes people super uncomfortable. It stems from the mindset that if you get there first, other people won't be able to hurt you. You present yourself as an ally in their making fun of you before they even start doing that, and in that way you think you're reclaiming control over it. But the thing is, people - especially nice people you actually want to get close to - actually DON'T want to make fun of you, are NOT thinking the mean things you're thinking about yourself, and in fact do NOT want to be allied in that. So it kind of presumes the worst about them, not about you. You're putting them in an unpleasant position, they might feel obliged to laugh at things just because you're saying them about yourself, but because it's obvious you're insecure about it (because you're being mean, overeager, or ironic), they might feel obliged to reassure or compliment you or avoid hurting you, and in general it's just super awkward and uncomfortable and counter-productive.
Bottom line: vast majority of people are nice, and a great deal nicer than you are to yourself. Give them a chance to be that.

[madnessbydesign]

I learned quite by accident that recognizing, embracing, and being able to make fun of your flaws and insecurities gives you power over them... :)

[special]

My mother was telling "what would people say" so often, I started turning her words from my head

[_FearNoEvil]

I will rewatch this over and over again in the hopes that I come out of my crippling shell of muteness and isolated detachment from the world. Thank you.

[CadaverQT]

As a fellow BPD, I always appreciate seeing Pete being himself and being successful.