Avoidant Exes ALWAYS Come Back If You Do THIS

I’m sure I don’t have to tell you that dealing with an avoidant ex can be really, really hard. All you want is closeness and it feels like they’re just trying to run away from you every chance they get. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

In fact–and this is the good news for you–avoidant exes are actually FAR MORE likely to come back than your average ex is. And that may surprise you because there’s something that nearly everyone gets wrong about avoidants. Watch to the end and you'll understand...

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[philipramsden]

They do come back. I even chased mine for a couple weeks, and even got blocked. She came back after almost 3 months apologizing. It sucks and makes you think all sorts of crazy stuff, but once you understand them and where it comes from, you can see the signs and back off a little.

[mmbovilladardh]

Weird way to describe avoidants socially. Every avoidant I know has a lot of connections and friends. They struggle with love and commitment in romantic relationships.

[schmohawk]

700+ days into no contact and I'm starting to think it's over...

[PB-mdnt]

Avoid the avoidant. They're just going to run away again, unless they have received some serious rounds of Therapy. They need to come to you, and eventually they most likely will. I' used to chase my avoidant ex, but finally said enough after this cycle kept repeating. I've gone rounds of 4 months, and 47 days, and currently 32 days of No Contact. She reached out the last two times, but honestly at this point I'm good in my life if she returns or not. Her loss if she doesn't.

[movingsaudade]

I say (ofcourse who am i).If you are lucky enough to be dumped by an avoidant count yourself lucky and acknowledge that the trash has taken itself out.Imagine living like this for the rest of your life.The person you truly love doesnt want anything to do with you occasionally.What the hell is that.If yiu are not an avoidant leave the avoidant and give them space to go find another avoidant.That way they can be with someone who really understands them and can cater for them the best way.That they beat themselves because they are unable to fully connect is not a valid excuse. If it bothers them so much why dont the seek help?Avoidants are horrible in relationships and you really have no business wanting thrm back if the dynamics in your life do not force you to be with them..Go love yourself better and be with a person whi actually values human connection.

[grantsherwin]

Coming back to these videos about a year after being addicted to them. Your ex isn’t coming back. I really thought mine would, we haven’t spoken since May 2023. However I just began dating a girl who I find more attractive than my ex, and does more for me than my ex. I finally moved on about 9 months after the breakup. It gets better and you will be able to feel for someone again.

[lovingu]

Hurt people hurt people. These people usually have severe narcissistic traumas, and will hurt and hurt and hurt. Move on and find and healthy human. ❤

[MTG]

What he is leaving out they always leave again after coming back.

Think about that if that is what you want, it is exhausting and not good for you.

[sda]

I’ve had about 10 break-ups. This last one is it. First of all, he didn’t reach out for my birthday yesterday. But he started a fight, saying I wanted a break up. What? It took this for me to realize that he is a monster. He’s insecure, jealous, petty and childish. I want a man. Over it. Happy birthday to me.

[russellhobbs]

A dismissive avoidant is a nice way of describing a narcissist.

[carlashupe]

This sounds extremely traumatizing to the normal healthy functioning person. Asking a person to sacrifice and give up half their life or even more to stay with someone who has so many psychological issues is not fair! This will slowly break a soul. Get away from these people.

[ChadEAult]

They are in arrested development. The only things you need to do is leave. After a string of bad relationships if they can’t self reflect and dobthe work you shouldn’t have to bend around them because they won’t address their issues. Go no contact, heal from this incredibly selfish person, and find some that doesn’t value their independence from you as their number one thing in life. Their is no point in being in a relationship with someone that gets to have their cake and eat to while you get their breadcrumbs.
Move on!

[chrislim]

A "quirk" of an attachment style? My avoidant is now divorced twice. She has ruined lives. Stay away from these people.

[citizenoz]

It so sad that society these days seems to accept it as 'normal' to reward bad behavour. No better example than how an avoidant behaves destroying their partners and happily moves on assuming that it's all OK. Been on the recieving end of one. Survived. Never ever again. Narcissistic holograms... looks real... but there is actually nothing there.

[KR-ouqo]

8:37 An anxious person can trigger avoidance in the other person and an avoidant person can trigger anxiety in the other person. In time, they become an anxious and avoidant couple even if in the beginning they were not anxious/avoidant. Attachment behavior is fluid, unless one person's attachment style is extreme to one end of the spectrum.

[TheKinsWay]

I don't see why I should manage my needs because my ex is dysfunctional. He has ruined my life....wasted years. Lied and cheated. Good riddance

[MoloSaidu]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[nyevreklabarnabas]

I wasnt sure if my ex is avoidant or not, or the mix of secure and avoidant, but after watching this video, im pretty sure my ex is avoidant and im anxious. You pretty much described my situation😂

[HudZeraPlay]

Jut block they from all social media! Go make money, work, live the dream life and ignore they when they come back.. a better woman who like you and love you will come. Dont let she come back to destroy your life again, she will leave again and again... 5 months is the max to start change again.

[sda]

I didn’t go no contact. I wished him a happy Independence Day.