Life After Divorce: The Healing Process

Hey y'all! It's been such an interesting challenge to share these moments with the world but I remain led, convinced, and convicted to do so. I really hope it helps. I hope you see the possibility for you in whatever you are going through. I hope you see reflections of the way God shows up in your life through the way He shows up in mine. Keep going, God has prepared the way!
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Chapters:
0:00- Intro
0:59- Topic Series Intro
1:41- Healing begins...
2:31- Denial & Bargaining
7:48-Anger
12:53-Depression
17:44-Acceptance
21:16-Healing ends...

Scriptures:
Isaiah 41:12-13
Joshua 1:3-9
Jeremiah 29:11

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#divorce #divorcestory #depression #anger #acceptance

[allthingsicandy]

When you said "I lost nothing" - so powerful!

[rashellerolle]

My divorce finalized in March of this year and I thought I was finally in acceptance because I started the grief process during my marriage as you did. My ex called me today and I entertained his conversation, and by the end of the day I was in depression....I mean bad thoughts, unlike me. I saw this video and it helped bring me through this evening because I could not see the light. Thank you for allowing GOD to use you as a light in my darkness. It's ok to be where I'm at it's part of the healing process. 🕯️.

[Bernadean]

I cannot believe how this word was TOTALLY meant for me to receive TODAY.
God is amazing!
Thank you!

[keniavallejos]

Back at my parents at 37 right before my 38th birthday. I’m now going back to school. I grieve because I’m still hoping to bear children at my age. This is the hardest, most crushing experience. God is with us. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

[Kathryn_M]

Going through divorce after 23 years with an abusive, alcoholic spouse. God knew I needed to hear this word today. Thank you.

[MoncLD]

Thank you! I left a 32 year marriage. After listening to this I realize I am not insane.

[GaceandMercy]

Thank you so much. I’m divorcing a narcissist and this was very encouraging.

[sevynlayne]

I know this is 2 years late but I have never seen this channel before. But I was lead to this and it was mind blowing hat I was sitting here listening to a female version of myself. All the steps and feelings are exactly what I am feeling now. This was no accident. God used you to speak to me and others for years to come. Thank you so so much for allowing him to speak through you. You are a true blessing.

[lillyandrews]

Thank you so much! I needed to hear this! I’m in the process of a divorce and it is so hard. Even that this is my second divorce. I know the Lord is with me all the way and every day ❤❤❤❤ God bless you

[LoveDeeWilliams]

Thank you for this video, I am still going through all the stages of grief, also the one feeling that I am having the hardest time coping with is, The Embarrassment. I can't shake the embarrassment.

[brwnsknbabydoll]

Thank you for these videos. I’m currently going through a divorce of a short term marriage (11/2020). Once I told my family what was going on and moved back home, I felt a sense of relief and peace that I had never felt in my marriage. I felt it when we were dating but not while living together. We have a baby together so our situation is more complicated but I’m still so proud of myself and don’t feel like a failure at all. And I have nothing to prove. I know i tried my best as a wife and stepmom and there’s no doubt that I’m a wonderful mother. This is one of the most difficult times in my life but I still feel like I’m on the right path in giving myself and my son a great life! Thank you for this video again because I’ve been looking for inspiration from someone who had a short lived marriage during covid. I’m still and will be going through the emotional rollercoaster but videos like this inspire me to keep going. “I lost nothing”

[jessicalong]

Thank you so much for sharing. I divorced and 5 years later started dating my ex husband with the hope of remarriage, and it failed. It feels like divorce all over again. I am so sad, I am unable to express how much. It is overwhelming and constantly on my mind.
I appreciate when you said you were mad at yourself for not dealing with the trauma that led to the marriage and showed up in the marriage. Woah! That was me. I’m here now, picking up the pieces and trying to navigate this new life that I didn’t want but needed. I know Father God is with me, it still hurts though and I wish I could see the light. I am not suicidal, just wish I could fast forward to a healed and better time in my life. I am praying for anyone that hurts due to divorce and I ask that you guys just pray for me. Thank you again for sharing and God bless ❤🙏🏾

[healthiswealth]

Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. We have an 18 month old son and I am contemplating divorce with his father as we speak. God has shown me too many signs and it's time to leave. It's hard because I've never imagined my life to be this way and I don't want this affecting my child. Thankfully my parents have opened their home to us. Please pray for strength for me as I navigate this journey

[anicharlouis]

I needed to hear this. The healing process post divorce is the hardest time ever. The pain is so real, and I trust God to help me go through it. Thanks!

[melodyejohnson]

Girl this is deep and I listened to the entire video. This is literally where I am right now. Trying to address the trauma in my life that bought me to this marriage that showed up in this marriage. 🙏🏾

[imi_xo]

I love your lip colours! So gorgeous. Now - let me tune into the vid 😂

[karenburton]

I am 12 mins in and baby you speaking my story.. Recently separated 30 days today and I am so raw and emotional

[LetsTalkTrice]

This YouTube video has really opened my eyes and helped me. I am going through My divorce currently. This video brought me into tears of grief, but I have hope that God is with me and I have faith that he will see me through. Thank you for sharing.

[monicawilliams]

I am so grateful for this video… I too covered him and was drag through the mud with lies about my character. My ex lost not one but two military careers…. I am dealing with anger and feel like… God why are you not handling this man…

And angry with myself as well…

[LaTasiaspeaks]

Hallelujah! Girl you preached, you PREACHED. Thank you for sharing your testimony. People are being set free through you. Keep going. I so related to the depression. Love you.