Will Your Long-Distance Relationship Work? Men Need THIS!

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Get Him To Commit Before Sleeping Together (The Dating Vow)

Have you ever heard the saying: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment?

The "Dating VOW" Before Sleeping Together

I ___________________ agree to explore the process of getting to know you with the intent to declare something serious in the next 3 to 6 months.

I ___________________ agree to be monogamous sexual while we have regular sex together

I ___________________ agree to not actively seek to meet/date others while we are in this dating process (include taking down dating profile)

I ___________________ agree to speak up if this isn't working for me vs. pulling back, ghosting or disappearing

I ___________________ agree to invest regular time in this process of getting to know you which looks like this _______________


90% of men will bail on this because thousands of women will have sex without any commitment/agreement whatsoever. If all women are banned together (going forward), this will change how men treat/view sex, but in the meantime, if he does agree, you have a better chance of commitment than without it.

[debragoforth]

To quote you " You cant say the wrong thing to the "right person!!" I believe that too. All others will fall by the wayside for one reason or another!!

[brendamacdonald]

Once again, your words make so much sense. I loved your final summary with the point of living life to the fullest and stop wasting time on relationships going nowhere. Your words are very pertinent to me right now. Thank you- just what I needed to hear! I am so happy for you and your girlfriend- I know you have been wanting this and you have manifested it- you’ve done that self reflection and created a wonderful life. Thank you for being a role model and living/practicing what you say!! Best wishes, Jonathan!!

[annabell]

I've been in a long distance relationship for 18 months. Met him in 1995, we wrote letters and called on the phone for 3 years before internet, then it fizzled out. We were young. We reconnected 18 months ago but, alas, still long distance. My kids are grown up, his are small so he won't be able to move. We have never been physically intimate but are such good friends that it's painful to be away from him. We can talk for hours on the phone and time flies by. Hoping for a happy ending in a year or two.

[winxclubstellamusa]

I wouldn’t consider your dynamic a real long distance relationship because you have met in person and went on many dates and felt in-person chemistry from the very beginning. You guys weren’t only seeing each other through the phone.

Also, it’s a wonderful thing that your girlfriend wants to move to your city! That means it was always meant to be. I feel so happy for you as if you were my uncle or teacher. You deserve to be happy, and to prove that your methods are healthy and do work, lol.

And you will ALWAYS be relevant, Jonathan! You are an absolute gem. Everything you are and teach is golden. Age is a number, youth is a mentality!

[EMuro-wuuy]

I've never had luck with long distance relationships. The last one I was in ended rather quickly. Good luck for anyone out there. I have heard of ones that work.

[theresabaker]

Sooo Happy for you Jonathan !! You deserve it!! Wishing you both much joy and love!! ❤️👏🏼👏🏼😄

[robinpehle]

I’m happy for you. My boyfriend is a long distance relationship! It has been challenging but we have been both be open and transparent and honest. It’s very good and healthy. He wants a long term relationship and ready to commit to me. It takes two willing people who are open and willing to

[tmcginnis]

Ladies look for old fashioned maybe older man. Someone who takes time off to be with you. Someone who tells you they love you. He trusts you and believes in you and tells you so and visa versa. You have something in common. Opposites do not attract really. You need each other and your useful to each other means you do things for the other person. You give each other Goose Bumps! You need to be together and phone is only a tool to check in.

[robinemery]

Long distance is somewhat hard. My guy had to go to Sweden for work after we met. It has been 2yrs and we have talked about marriage when he returns. I hope by the time he comes back, all of that is still there! We talk daily, and all feels well, but I'm getting frustrated that he isn't back yet. I understand the job, he wants to retire. I support that but I want to get busy BIG HUGGS Jonathan ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[debragoforth]

I just thought of the song "The Gambler" by Kenny Roger. You got to know WHEN to HOLD them. KNOW when to FOLD them. KNOW when to WALK AWAY, KNOW when TO HA HA

[joyful]

Hi Jonathon
Sooo very sharp view on the real facts of the matter!
For me the fact that you even mention the differences in men and women is very helpful!
Thank you
And congratulation with your love
Greetings from the Netherlands

[alicebergett]

Excellent and absolutely true. You have to be intentional or else you're fooling yourself and the other person. Thanks Jonathon.

[gerimitchell]

That's awesome that you found someone to share your time with.💞

[lisae]

I just started a long distance relationship…. 3 hour plane ride. So thank you so much for covering this topic!! ❤

[empower_angel]

Thailand you are welcome. I love your videos, inspire and very helpful. Yes being power in life

[iamgoddessoflove]

How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship.
💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[PurpleChurchMouse]

I'm 2 years behind to see this, of course I didn't need this 2 years ago. But great stuff, ordered the books...I'll keep on with this advice. Thank you!

[gene]

Ladies he is on point and I can state had I known this I would not have wasted 5 years of nothing

[annabellacrewe]

1:08 Wish it was ! There are as mane kinds of relationships as there are people....I am to tired this morning to tell about the long distance rs, I 've had for more than 2 years two people passed 70' it is still "situationships" and old wounds, that somehow are the the tough subjects...and this one has certain issues, I should like to tell you about some day, Jonathan, Love, Sophie in DK❤

[Finding_The_Light_Within]

Thank you for this video. Your videos are always so helpful to me. 👏