Will Your Long Distance Relationship Work? Ask These 4 Questions

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Long-distance relationships are a risky undertaking because most of the time they don't work out. Let's face it, it's hard enough making a relationship work when two people live in the same city let alone hundreds if not thousands of miles apart.

This is why it's so important to ask the right questions before choosing down the path of a long-distance relationship... agreed?

In today's video, we are going to explore the DEEPER questions to ask before choosing a LDR if you want it to work in the long run.

Let's talk about... Will Your Long Distance Relationship Work? Ask These 4 Questions

[sandrakem]

The efficiency of this Soshu Tech is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work jack!!

[ancoisnaude]

Nope, rather be just friends, and nobody hurts... A friend is most of the time, always your friend... 🙏👌

[andreamartin]

Very helpful, thought- provoking, and great advice. The average long distance relationship lasts 5 months and people fall in love with their partner's absence, not presence. Also, that color shirt works on you, Johnathon. 🙂

[debbiesianturi]

Question :
1. What the long distance relationship look like to you? Do you have any thought or plan on how this work? People need connect to themselves before they connect to others
2. What is the committed relationship look like to you?
3. How do you know when you ready to commit?
4. What plans would you make after living in the same city?

[wildwoman]

Jonathon! I appreciate these questions to ask! I have stopped responding to long distance relationship dating app messages, because I have invested time in working on connection and eventually I just stopped because the whole thing seems so unrealistic to me. Now I have these 4 questions to ask if someone does look very appealing.

[jennifernorton]

I totally agree with all of this. Have just wasted 6 months in a LDR which when looking back and answering those questions was always going to end unfavourably. All I can do now is take lessons from it all so I don’t make the same mistakes again. 😔
Edited to add that yes we both wanted marriage but he had so much baggage and issues to sort with no firm timeline that it became pointless no matter how we felt about each other.

[deepdiver]

Any woman who finds herself in a long distance relationship, should be thinking " Marriage" and make it clear. Anything other than this is a waste of time.

[debbie]

Well i have had several of them. I meet them.half way. 50 miles is my limit. If it is somebody i want to meet..i will travel..i dont mind. The age demographics of the men in my area are youngsters. (Under age 35-40). I have only had 1 relationship where i was not willing to relocate from California to New Jersey. Basically your intuition and lifes wisdom will tell you if it is a good fit.

[lifeinlkn]

These are awesome questions to ask in a long distance situation. Actually they are good in general. Thank you💕

[crystalanamericaninsicily]

Answer. ONLY if one of you is ready to Moveeee. 💕

[elisabethshaefer]

ONE NEED TO FEEL THE ENERGY GOOD OR BAD I AM PARANORMAL SO I FEEL PEOPEL ENERGY AND THE PLANET ENERGY HEARHQUAKES JUST BEFORE TEHY WILL HAPPEN CANNOT SAY WHERE BU THAT THERE IS GOING TO BE ONE SO SAME WITH PEOPLE I THERE ENERGY DO NOT NEED TO BE CLOSE SENDING U A HUG DEAR JONATHON

[rowenasuarez]

John you resonate on this matter .Continue on your bee stinging advice.You mean well .I get so much fullfillment from my long distance relationship.My Precious Man is in New Jersey.I am here in Southern California

[tomikawhesu]

Thank You for giving me those questions to ask. Those are very important. Im going to ask the present man in my life those questions when He comes to visit. He moved to a far away state in June for work and has been back to visit once. We communicate but not as often as I would like. He says that its because of work. Everytime I call He answers.🤔 He says that He loves Me and wants to marry me. He's just making preparation. This relationship is different than any other relationship that I have experienced. He plans to come see me for Christmas. I just don't want to keep wasting my time and feelings.

[santhanamery]

He's a Switzerland guy working in Langkawi, Malaysia and coming back here on January. Haven't meet him before, after meet want to see how it goes. Thanks and hugs.

[jtalbert]

I tried a long distance relationship and finally met him a couple a years ago.. Was a decent experience, but will never invest in a long distance relationship again

I am reading your Self Love book and relate to experiences so much. Great book!!

[Smile]

"Get out of emotions and step into logic"😂😂😂it's about long distance relationships 🤣🤣🤣

[missj]

Thank you! I’m in the UK and have just met someone who lives in Tennessee, he is over here visiting family and we have fallen for each other. It’s not going to be easy figuring things out but your video has helped x

[kathleancordner]

LOVE ❤ The way you put things! Im the same..Straight Up 😂🤣 Festive Wishes to YOU & your Family Jonathan. Blessings to 'Connar' (aka Salty) ❤xxx

[debbiesianturi]

Thank you, Jonathon. This is a great advice. I dont believe with any long distance relationship, though my US's friends believe there are many succesfull long distance relationship. For example, US and Asian, many Asian do bad things in US and it creates the hatred of US people to Asian. I guess, it's better the Asian stay and do good things for Asia, in other hand, US people stay in US and do good things for US. I believe, many US-Asian couple so attach each other and it's very hard to move on, eventually. As a matter of fact, I choose be realistic with myself. Dont expect the perfect, as we are not perfect each other. Hopefully, this my thought can be read to all people and they can be more realistic. Thank you Jonathon to let me share my insight.

[jac]

Jonathon, How do you move a long-distance friendship into something more when the man is not into social media nor video chat? (even his family can't get him to use either one). In his work, he's on the road most of the time, so it has made it difficult to get together. Covid has made it even worse. Any advice on how to date or not to date with what is currently going on in the world? In the meantime, I'm reading a lot of the books you've recommended and even re-reading yours. Thanks again for all your advice and videos. Enjoying them immensely.