6 Signs You're Not Truly In Love, Selfish Love

Do you wonder if you're not in love or if your love is actually selfish love? Sometimes, we get into relationships for the sake of being in one. In this video, we talk about some of the signs that this isn't love, so that you can build your emotional maturity and make the right course of action.

Writer: Clarisse Delos Reyes
Editor: Morgan Swift & Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Celine Z
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[alicia]

Ended up watching this and realized: “Yep! I am 100% just overthinking my relationship again”

[SweatyAsUrPits]

I watched this in the perspective of someone I'm finally getting over. This pretty much described her, and showed that she wasn't in love. Which oddly enough, is comforting to know.

[fresh.prince]

The thing i love about this channel is there's no negativity you can be you and nobody can judge you ❤

[batmanbruce]

Timestamps
1. It's all about you 0:34
2. Avoidance 1:04
3. Flaws are annoying 1:54
4. No sacrifices 2:20
5. Doesn't Care 2:50
6. Just receive 3:14

Keep Learning guys 😊😊😊

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). It's all about you 0:32
2). Avoidance 1:04
3). Flaws are annoying 1:53
4). No sacrifices 2:20
5). Don't care 2:49
6). Just receive 3:14

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[DibbzTV]

As someone who’s lied whole relationships - trust me, it’s not worth it. You think it’s okay, and you’re happy, and they’re happy, and that’s all that matters. But if deep down you know it’s not true, let it go. Less so for yourself and more so for the other person. Also, the longer you wait to wait for true love, the worse it gets. Just my experience

[TheHmminator]

These relationship videos are really helping me realize ending my last relationship was the right call. A toxic relationship isn’t the right relationship.

[saoirse]

I don’t want to hurt my girlfriend, but I see some of these in me. Thank you Psych2Go

[rosettesionne]

The flaws are annoying part gets me, I grew up in an environment where my personality was constantly criticized, I felt like I couldn't be loved for who I am, that I didn't deserve to be loved for who I am so I learned to hide part of myself, especially my flaws so as to not upset people and make them attack me.

[thecorrupted]

Glad to know, it was actually love. Wish things would have been better. Circumstance weren't there but glad it happened. Enjoyed it and grew stronger from it.

[grand-dadmiral]

I regret I was a victim of this sort of thing, having loved someone who was never truly in love with me. Being strung along and ditched isn't something I wish on anyone.

[Snowball_Maltese]

This is a dangerous video for people in relationships bc they might realize something they don’t wanna realize 😅
Love the video as always though! The quality of these videos always amazes me

[baibhavkumarmohanty]

Went through my break up 6 months ago yet i still look back on it and try to learn from it... what we had wasn't love but selfish love and infatuation.... Your videos help me a lot for reassessing and what to look for in my relationship.. Also these videos help me understand myself as a person!! Keep up the good videos guys ❤❤

[arsenic]

I’ve been coming to terms with the fact that I’m Aroace, and this video really helped me realize that I like the idea of love more than actually wanting to be in love. Ty <3

[liubyma]

The point about being annoyed about someone’s habits is a challenge lots of people come by when they start having a routine and move in together. I mean, that’s kinda discovers deep nature of a person you live with and you either find a compromise or break up.

[nolongerhooman]

Thank you for making this video. I've been noticing these characteristics within me and this video confirmed all my suspicions. I never was like this, but unintentionally became so after a codependent friendship. Trying to work on myself, wish me luck.

[eiias]

Sadly I was in this sort of relationship for the past month. Thanks as always Psych2Go, all your videos have been a huge help to me overall, as becoming a better person & becoming aware of what too look for/not to look for in a partner. <3

[dragonlover]

I'm 100% sure, our love is true. Since more than 40 years. We divorced and married again. Sometimes you must fight for your love. I won.

[mr.hidden]

How do you grow love in a relationship where you're afraid you aren't giving any? How do you learn to love?

[Miss_Vee]

I have been guilty of being the one who acted selfish, few years go. I admit it !
It took me few years of self - reflection to open my eyes.
If any of you are like this, dont be be hard on yourself.
It probably might be because of your chuldhood traumas.
Just continue your journey of healing, You have got this !!! 🥰