6 Signs You Were Never in Love

Do you wonder if you're still in love with him or her? Unfortunately, love is something that fades. And sometimes, it might be helpful to recognize the signs early than late. If you are no longer in love with someone, you have to let them know.

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References:

Betchen, S. (2018, March 2). 6 Signs of Falling Out of Love with a Partner. Psychology Today. Retrieved November 20, 2018.

Chatel, A. (2018, April 27). The Difference Between Infatuation And Love, According A Relationship Expert. Bustle. Retrieved November 20, 2018.

Wolff, C. (2018, November). 6 Physical Signs You’re Not In Love Anymore. Bustle. Retrieved November 20, 2018.

Young, K. (2018). Vulnerability: The Key to Close Relationships. Hey Sigmund. Retrieved November 20, 2018.

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[coachbahman]

Most of relationships these days are not born out of love but out of the fear of being alone..

[nairobi]

when you watching this to convince yourself that you were not in love, but just realize that you were

[lungbusteroutdoors]

We were never in love. I was in love with the image of her that I created.

[aly]

sometimes it's quite hard to convince ourselves that *we were inlove* when we still don't know how to *love ourselves*

[jsthecanuck]

terrible advice, i tried being honest with her and she ran away when i showed her the bodies in the basement smh

[nononono]

It feels like a stab in the heart when you realize the person you loved and put so much effort into never loved you back.

[khsimagesdotcom]

This can be tricky to assess since all relationships:

1. Start with some degree of infatuation.
2. Will inevitably involve disappointment from expectations of your partner since you're different people.
3. Involve uncomfortableness around them since everyone has insecurities and fears real (or perceived) ridicule.
4. Include a preference for doing more than hanging out with one's partner as its possible to have other interests/responsibilities - or - to not prefer someone's company when in a mood.
5. Involve avoiding difficult conversations about some topics simply b/c you both will inevitably process and handle various situations differently.
6. Will inevitably hit rough patches that can involve anxiety and/or other difficult emotions.

There are no omens or signs that indicate whether you are in love or should be with a certain person.
Some people who would have had wonderful lives together break up over trivial matters (or never even meet!). Others who find a way to spend their entire lives together would have been happier elsewhere but what's the difference if they feel they're happy and will never know about the better alternatives?

After 17 (or 18?) years of marriage, I try my best to figure out what matters most to me (and us) and keep trying to embrace (or at least accept) the inevitable ebs and flows. My point is, I try not to live as though I am 'meant' to do something based on these ebs and flows.

[Alex-sinh]

*1. You moved things fast with your partner - **0:25*
Talking about your future, and lusting over your partner and signs of infatuation if it’s early in the relationship, and if you’ve only known them for a set amount of time.

*2. You expect them to be flawless - **0:54*
When you constantly expect things from your partner, you’re not giving them space to be them honest selves with you.

*3. You’re not comfortable enough around them - **1:27*
Those who are really in love with their partner are more likely to be vulnerable, while those who are not comfortable with their partner yet may still have their walls up.

*4. You become more distant - **2:00*
Wanting time to yourself is normal, but if you find yourself wanting to spend more and more time away from them, something is up.

*5. Your mind is elsewhere - **2:23*
When you avoid important conversations or anything along those lines

*6. You’ve developed anxiety **2:48*
You may be anxious over breaking up with your partner, but forcing love when there is none will only lead to more heartbreak

[kazze]

A wise man once told me: I had a lot of difficult relationships when I was your age. It´s hard to make relationships work with others when you don´t have a good relationship with yourself.

[maxmustermann]

6 Signs You Were Never in Love


Sign number 1: You never had a relationship. Like me. RIP.

[chefnic]

Many people have disorders, traumas etc...it's hard to find real love. Work on yourself and when you feel ready, you'll attract that same energy. Don't settle❤

[ciaocomestai]

I’m 18 and in relationship of almost two years, which had many breaks. This is my first relationship and I always struggled with being in love, because I had so many doubts of what it should feel like and felt guilty for not feeling it. I always openly talked about this with my partner, and he always said that it was okay and that I would feel love if I stopped being anxious about it. I love him and I care about him, I want his best. When things get better for my mental health I feel that I’m happy to be with him and doing things together, but watching videos like "signs you’ve found your soulmate" makes me doubt about our relationship. I really don’t know what to do because I want things to work with him but these doubts continue to follow me.

[ridwanwidiyansyah]

I dont need my crush saying "i like you"
I need my parent to say "were proud of you son"

[tamsynmcardle]

Me watching this without ever having a boyfriend 👁👄👁

[amiiredhead]

As my favorite perma fusion garnet once said: "Love at first sight doesn't exist. Love takes time. And love takes work. And at the very least you have to know the other person."
No truer words spoken

[misfortune]

This just confirmed that my ex never loved me lol

[sasakiumiquema]

When you're in love with someone who doesn't love you.


Better off being single

[_osira_]

A Perfect way to start Valentines day--

[Valoelify]

2:24 The animation of the heart running after the brain was SO FREAKING CUTE OMG XD

[skeliskull]

Coming out of a relationship where i was constantly told by my anxious partner that i didn’t love them enough i am starting to believe that love is all BS perpetuated by videos like this. Everyone love’s different and i think that “true love” is unattainable. I don’t think im capable of loving someone enough to sustain a relationship right now. But my understanding is that love is a choice. If you like some enough to be your best friend and care about them and dont see a reason to stop spending time with them than you put in the work to stay with that person and be happy. Its not a magic feeling you have everyday