7 Reasons Why Narcissistic Mothers Want To Destroy Their Daughters

In this video, I reveal "7 Reasons Why Narcissistic Mothers Want To Destroy Their Daughters". A good mother is someone who loves and nurtures her daughter. She also helps her to grow, mature, and become her own person. This is not, however, what a narcissistic mother does for her daughter. As with most relationships with a narcissist, the mother/daughter relationship involving a narcissistic mother is complicated. Instead of nurturing her daughter, the narcissistic mother often seeks to destroy her. In this video I'll show you seven of the most common reasons why a narcissistic mother wants to destroy her own daughter.

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[Just_Peachy]

This sure hits home for me. Im 50 years old and was raised by a narcissistic mother. It's like not having had a mother, and being raised by an enemy...

[silentwitness]

She will also keep the father away so that the daughter is away from his influence. A narcissistic mother destroys the entire family.

[Anonymous-qlyd]

The hardest part is that you cannot explain their true colours to anyone outside. They will think you have the best mother on the world who cares for you so much. All bullshit.

[jonesy]

Not all narcissistic mothers are vain, shallow, or concerned with beauty. Many are actually jealous of intelligence, confidence and strength.

[barbarabouchard]

As I near my 83 year, I still can't get her out of my head and still cry. I was a good kid, and by the time I was in my late teens, the hatred came out. If anyone pays me a compliment she would say "she takes after me." Life was a nightmare. Gave all my pay check to her and she demanded it. All those reasons you listed, I lived. Finally left for my own sanity with 30 cents and just the clothes on my back. Have not seen my two brothers for 50 years. Their families are strangers to me. They believed everything she said. So sad, but I have gone on with my life. They are defeated when they lose control. But doesn't stop them. They find another family victim. Like a viper full of venom, just watching, watching, ready to strike.

[sarasays...]

My mother almost destroyed me. She looked the other way when I was getting abused by my step father, then she called me a whore. She never hugged me. Never brushed my hair. She literally never taught me anything. She only criticized me. I practically begged to be in her life as I got older because I was so desperate for a mom. She called everyone she thought was in my life and told them I’m crazy. Then she told everyone she disowned and disinherited me. I haven’t spoken to her in years. I guarantee to this day she plays the victim with her friends. She turned my only brother against me. I wish I had a mom. Sometimes I daydream about what it must be like.

[Querencia]

1 - Jealous of her daughter.
2- Need for attention from others over daughter (external adulation.)
3- Negative gender projection: hypercritical.
4- Self-loathing projected onto daughter - constantly critical, destroys daughters self-esteem.
5- Be dependent upon the mother. Undermines independence.
6- Wants credit for daughters accomplishments. The daughter/extension of the mother’s self.
7- To be in control of the daughter’s entire life. And that this level of control is ‘normal.’

[KB-ihgf]

When my dad was in ICU my 85 year old mother raged at me as I stood by his bed for what we thought would be the last time. She screamed for all to hear “he’s my husband” and grabbed me by the wrist and tried to drag me out. I was in my fifties but I felt five. I bowed my head and let her lead me out. A nurse came up and distracted my mother and offered her a cup of tea with a knowing look and I was able to go back and say my goodbyes. Something changed in me in that moment. I saw her for who she was. I think it was the contrast with the nurse’s kindness that broke the spell. ❤ I wish I could thank her. I think she knew though
🙏🏼

[GoAskAlice]

When my mom died, I sighed with relief.

[lolab]

To all daughters of narcissistic mothers. Let go and break the cycle. ✨
Take the only positive lesson your mother will ever give you : How NOT to be with your own children. .. do this and you will find peace and love and your children will be well balanced and happy 💛

[elsie]

"You are either with her or against her"....
So true. If you don't agree with her and be a follower, all hell breaks loose and you will suffer her wrath.

[I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful]

I felt a great sense of morbid relief when my narcissistic mother passed away. Knowing i'd never be subjected to her mind games or abuse anymore, was unfathomable to comprehend.

[l.]

Growing up, I was not allowed to do anything in the kitchen. I was never taught how to cook or bake or even how to do laundry. I finally broke away in my mid 20s (after being told how selfish I was to 'abandon the family") and I had to teach myself all the life skills that other girls learned many years earlier. I always wished I had a loving and nurturing

[sharondunstall]

It wasn't until I started really observing how other Mothers treated and spoke to their daughters that I realized that something wasn't right in my relationship with my own Mother. The control, the abuse (in many forms) the constant criticism, I could never please her. I determined that when I became a Mother (at 23) that I would end this cycle, and I did the exact opposite of everything that my Mother had done to me. To this day, I still suffer from low self esteem, and even though she has passed on almost 20 years now, I still hear her angry, critical voice in my head. This is how powerful this abuse damages someone, particularly a daughter. I have 4 sons and 1 daughter (youngest) and she is strong, beautiful, talented, and incredibly kind. She is her own person, and I am incredibly proud of her. ♥️

[cinder]

There are so many women out there that were broken by their mothers.
They sent us out into the world with as little self esteem she could steal from us.
They are truly sick people to destroy a child.

[jamesfv]

The scary thing is I thought this is what a mothers love was; I thought every parent was horrific like mine.

[Torbis]

Even now as a beyond middle aged woman... I still have lots of issues healing from what I went through.

[TheWicca]

I'm a empath, my mother was a narc. I've always felt that she was abused also. It took years to understand that she would never be sorry and didn't care. I left at 12 yrs old for my own mental health. Till her death she would try to get siblings to not like each other, it did not work.

[terriwaldridge]

Totally my Mom! I was NEVER going to be pretty enough, smart enough or good enough. She told people the only reason my first husband married me was because I was pregnant (I have never been pregnant or given birth). The lies she told everyone were wicked. My reputation at home was destroyed, not because of anything I ever did but because of her lies. She died in 2009. That’s when I finally got true peace in my life.

[colettedjior]

This used to be emotionally detrimental as a kid but this manipulation became fuel when I became an adult. Lol I’m everything she tried to stop me from becoming. 😂