Narcissistic Mothers & Empaths/ Highly Sensitive Children

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No nurturing from a narcissists but you must nurture them

angelalarieudo
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A lot of narcissistic mother's have a weird son-husband, almost incestual dynamic with their sons.

narcslayer
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My mom use to get a kick out of my emotional distress that she caused, but the one time she did it to my son I went off on her. She never tried it again with my son. I wish there would have been someone there to protect me from her.

LisaWilliams-jbre
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Both my parents were Narcs and I was the lone empath...horrible!

MaggieShawn
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When I think of my mother - the image is a stoic face. Definitely taught us our feelings are bad. We weren’t allowed to laugh in the house. My father couldn’t stand it so he built a workshop and spent his time there leaving my mother to take care of us. My mother didn’t like being hugged or touched. We had to give her a kiss on the cheek before bed. Then at 16 years old I had a break down my mother refused treatment- the doctor made her leave and he told me “today is the first day you will start thinking about your adult life” you have two years until you will have any life you want”. You need to keep this to yourself and let your parents know after you move out” His gift - Hope

thereseward
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I am a daughter of mentallly-ill-narcissistic mother and an absent, negligEnt father...I am in my late 40`s and am stuck in life...never got married, no children, no career....I just ``go through`` life...I was laughed at my talents ...never ever encouraged to pursue my dreams....Since young age I had thoughts of suicide. I feel like I am a big failure...life has no meaning for me...and yes, I have been in therapy since my teen years, but the pain, the confusion, the anger never goes away...THANK YOU EVER SOMMUCH FORMYOUR CHANNEL!!..

rosanerio
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I live out of state away from my narcissistic mother, I'm an empath and highly sensitive. My brother still lives with her, he's almost 30 and has never had a life of his own, he doesn't strive for anything he just exists to take care of my mom. And she's fully competent, not disabled, married, works full time. But she stunted his emotional growth to the point of him never leaving home and starting his own life, and she's totally ok with it.

PrettyPoshLife
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Anyone who's narcissistic really should avoid having children. I'm sure that sounds unfair to some but the suffering, both short and long term on the child's part is too extreme to change my view. I know my opinion doesn't matter.

reannabaker
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I truly believe there is no help anywhere for a narc....they never change.

Monette
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Parents feel that their children are their competition they have to do better than their children their children are trying to take away their life or their position or their talent they compete with their children because they know they can win they're stronger than their children the rest of the world has beaten them down so they take it out on their children and the children don't know any better

dougjstl
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You literally just described my whole childhood. I was born as an empath and I can see peoples aura and emotions since I was born. I have so much self-loathing, self-hatered and dabotage. I will be turning 25 this year and cannot achieve any of my goals, save up money, loose weight or anything really am just stuck in my bed unemployed not knowing what job or industry I want to be im. I’m stuck in the cycle and am so desperate to escape. Thanks for making of this video, you really helped me 💕

deathfashionable
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That's sick. To grow up in a place like that literally makes my stomach turn

thcu
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This video brings back some painful memories from my formative years of being almost constantly scapegoated. I am still having issues with this, now in late middle-age.

chetpomeroy
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I guess that's why the good Lord says in Ephesians 6:4: "Fathers (and mothers) DO NOT exasperate or provoke (deliberate intent to harm) your children to anger...."

toucheturtle
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I am a hyper-sensitive person & empathic and I've cut off relations with my family because that relation was toxic for me. I've realized down the road that my mother is a narcissist and I promise you, this video is so accurate!

vladquebec
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I remember being a child around 11 or 12 and my narcissistic mother decided to convince me I was a crack baby. I ran around the house crying for hours and hours and locked myself in my room, until one of my moms boyfriend's came over and seen me with bloodshot eyes and he asked me what happened, and when i told him, he couldnt believe she had done that to me. I remember him angrily asking, "why did you do that to him?! Whats wrong with you?!" She found so much humor and delight in the emotional pain she'd caused on her own son..

nickharley
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After three narcissist Male partners, and lots of counseling, I have realized that my mom was extremely narcissistic and I am extremely empath and INFJ personality. No wonder I struggled all those relationships and years.. I have gone no contact and finally awakened myself to a more authentic self. Thank goodness!! I thank God that I didn't end up dead or worse than I did. Thank you for sharing this video!! I still struggle inside alot but I know why now. I am able to heal myself (or know what I need) to be happy, safe, and true my myself. It's a blessing that I went through all of that pain and have found "new freedom" from it all..

missygray
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I stopped saying "I love you" to my parents around when I was 10. I didn't really understand why until about 15 years later, bit I understand that I could TELL that the feeling of love wasn't there. Both of my parents were narcissists.

cloudfa
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Great video Michele! My relative wanted to show me "something funny" that her baby did. I wasn't prepared.
She bent down close to the baby and then "meowed" loudly in his face. The baby busted out crying. It was terrible!!!
Definitely not an empath. If people really knew the cruel things narcs do to their children, they'd probably be in jail.
I can wish, ... can't I ???? Thank you so much for doing the work that has set you free. I am so proud of you Michele!!!

Amethyst
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Happy I broke out of "prison" and living hell. Teen years were miserable. She hated me. Even told me "just because you are married I can say anything I want to you". Had no respect for anyone. Finally no contact for my own mental health. She had lost control as she thought I would work and support her for the rest of her life and have no life of my own. She had it all planned out.

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