How To Discipline A Kid With ADHD

Do you have a kid on the autism spectrum? How about a kid with ODD or ADHD? In this episode, I'll talk about what you can do to help a child that you know that has ADHD. And most importantly how to discipline a kid with ADHD. They might have a change of behaviour and a change of heart too.

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:59 Losing focus
01:14 Skills for them & you
02:11 Parenting method
05:21 Learn these skills
06:00 Correcting children
07:26 Predictability
08:30 Adjustments
09:40 Non-emotional
10:47 Quick recovery time
11:53 How to teach problem solving skills

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How To Teach Problem Solving Skills To Children

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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?

Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system — Teaching Self-Government — can help you turn chaos into calm.

"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.

Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.

Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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[TTSPFAMILY]

Having a kids with adhd is tough, thank you for these tips

[kotiloss]

I lose this battle daily.. my son and I both are exhausted. 😩

[Als]

Watching this in tears. I'm struggling with my 5 year old

[HelloL.G.]

Wow! This is full of so much great information! I wish my parents had this information available with me 30 years ago, it would have probably made a major impact on my life. Thanks for sharing

[FebbieG]

Thank you for the clarification about the difference between an extra chore and a major maintenance. I think I have had too much of an adult skill level mindset, and gave chores that were too big. I noticed that it didn't work, so I started giving jumping jacks instead. That has helped, but I think I'll transition back to extra chores again, remembering to keep in mind their developmental stages and current abilities to focus.

I really appreciate these videos; even when it seems like you're saying basically the same thing, there's always some new tidbit to catch.

[majorup]

This is EXACTLY what I have been looking for!

[rachelwalker-davies]

I’ve tried this with my 11 year old son and he flips out. He says he hates it and wants me to stop using the calm, voice and body on him because it makes him angrier. I told him he had an extra chore of drying the dishes and he flatly refused. Any suggestions? I’m finding motherhood very difficult.

[marcellebodenstein]

This is all great but how do you do this to older children without being condescending

[erint]

I have an ADHD child and she is 11, And my question is when I give her the extra chore because of her not following the steps, she'll often do a job 1/2 way, or often lie that she did it, but didn't. Do you ck on the chore your kiddo did, or how would you recommend dealing with lying in those situations? Thank you so much for a very helpful video!😊👍

[vickispencer]

I don’t believe trying to always talk your way through works. My grandchild has ADHD and 99% of the time she just doesn’t focus. She has issues in school and has trouble getting along with her sister. We have tried the calm approach, the talking approach, so unless we as a family have no emotion most of the time, this approach isn’t working.

[shellechristmas]

Assigning an extra chore results in more defiance, suggestions?

[mamamo]

Child has calmly been asked to follow instructions, but will not choose to look at me or calm down and is lashing out at another person or property. Child needs to stop immediately. What do you recommend parent or guardian do in that moment?

[norahhannon]

I have adhd add and
Sensory processing disorder, diary, depression, anger issues and aggression issue

[isobeljohnshoward]

Omg I remember you from the World’s Strictest Parents Utah episode! 🙌♥️🔥🔥🔥

[hifiunicorn]

How can this applied to school teachers with students who have adhd, specifically early childcare? Do you have any programs that help teachers gain these skills in the classroom? Thanks!

[torreycat]

“Accept no answers and criticism.”

I am new to watching your videos and I have ADHD, which leads me to explain how I hear that sentence the way you run it all together in every one of your videos.

Accept no answers.

Johnny, how much is 2 + 2?
Four
I will not accept that answer.

Johnny you are a slow worker.
I will not accept that criticism.

So…..

Maybe say it like

“The child should be pre-instructed to accept a possible “no” answer to their request.”

And

“A child should be pre-instructed on accepting a point of criticism when needed.”

(Just my small criticism to your point of delivery)

I love your mission to train all of us about the concept of self-governing (also found in the Bible in II Peter 1:5-7), and I’m anxious to watch all of your videos.

[pandakilledz]

If you see signs that a kid has ADHD how do you go about it to make sure ? Or if you see a kid that has an eating problem, like nit picking or having like 3 bites and not eating anymore, is that a sign of autism adhd or just autism?

[cruelsun]

Good tips, but what if it's the same thing, over, and over, and over? I'm talking about a 12 y/o. He says he understands what he's doing is wrong and that it gets him consequences, but he still does these things. He tries to hide it, so it's not like he doesn't know what he's doing. Thanks

[DubCatXero]

Videos like these help so very much, thank you for your help ❤️

[kindz]

Im frustrated, exasperated with my kid with ADHD ..Ive got to a level where Im now convinced that Im the one with the syndrome not him. The noise is crazy..phew!